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Spoiled Rotten - 2/27/2008 10:57:36 PM

Reform

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I've been thinking lately about worship of one's Master and what that means. Then there was a thread posted today (yesturday?) called "Pampering" which was ways in which we slaves pamper and care for our Masters.

What I'm wondering (and didn't want to derail that other thread with) is Masters pampering their slaves. I don't worship Sir's feet, or cook him dinner, or anything. I do what he asks of me, of course, but He does not require that I go out of my way to treat Him like He's a King. Instead He treats me like I'm a Queen. He buys me new toys, a tag for my collar, beats me when I need it, all in return for my obedience to Him.

I suppose my question is this: How common is this really? Are we just odd in that the slave is spoiled rotten, instead of the Master? Or are there others like us?

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/27/2008 11:00:26 PM

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I think..ideally.. that it's mutual :)

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/27/2008 11:31:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Reform

I've been thinking lately about worship of one's Master and what that means. Then there was a thread posted today (yesturday?) called "Pampering" which was ways in which we slaves pamper and care for our Masters.

What I'm wondering (and didn't want to derail that other thread with) is Masters pampering their slaves. I don't worship Sir's feet, or cook him dinner, or anything. I do what he asks of me, of course, but He does not require that I go out of my way to treat Him like He's a King. Instead He treats me like I'm a Queen. He buys me new toys, a tag for my collar, beats me when I need it, all in return for my obedience to Him.

I suppose my question is this: How common is this really? Are we just odd in that the slave is spoiled rotten, instead of the Master? Or are there others like us?

Most of the things I do are meant to spoil my girl; she just doesn't always realize it at first.

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/27/2008 11:54:59 PM

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I think my Owner and I are in some sort of competition to try and spoil one another rotten. :-p

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 12:01:18 AM

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I think he and I spoil eachother equally- he takes care of me financially (for now) and buys me gifts and I take care of him domestically and try and plan things that are inexpensive and romantic. I think we both give what we can and give all we can in the relationship... it works for us... we're both so happy and spoiled in our own ways :)

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 12:52:03 AM

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I'm with Shawn. Mistress and I are going to spoil each other rotten. She is very nurturing and considerate. Plus, She's even going to break a cardinal rule among dommes...She's already promised me that She'll rub my feet after I get home from work! *gasps*

It's scary to think of such a thing...I hope it doesn't cause Her to lose Her domme card! LOL

Hell, I'm going to cook for Her, give Her massages, bathe Her, wash Her hair, take Her out on the town, and do anything else I can think of to make sure She remembers Her place above me!

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 1:07:17 AM

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Awwww, this thread is new, but it's already so cute!

I spoil my boy terribly. I'm constantly joking that I'm too nice to him and I really should beat him more. He is such a good boy, and so sincere; I want him to be deliriously happy when he's with me. Plus (and back me up here other D types) when he looks up at me from his knees with those big pleading eyes I go all gaga and always want to tell him what a good boy he is. I totally adore him; if he knew how easy it would be for him to wrap me around his little finger I would be doomed as a Domme. Fortunately, he does not read these forums, so I can say stuff like that here.

Of course, I've had lots of subs tell me I'm too nice (Hello, see the user name Einstein!), so it's nice to hear that I'm not the only one who spoils their sub rotten :)

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 5:00:36 AM

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As many here already know, I'm extremely spoiled.
(some may say rotten)
I'm very lucky!!

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 5:24:46 AM

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well, i WAS being spoiled before the latest crackdown for being less than attentive to the rules.

now, it's like living under the rule of the Taliban, but a lot less fun

baby doll

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 5:34:50 AM

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FR

I prefer not to be spoiled rotten because I tend to become a spoiled brat if I get used to it. That doesn't mean however that I don't mind being indulged from time to time. I think that there is an individual balance that everyone has to achieve to be happy. Some can handle being pampered all the time and treated like a china doll, others are happier when they are doing the pampering.

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 6:05:44 AM

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i'm a spoiled, pampered princess and i love it!

recently Daddy sent me my allowance and of course i went shopping and pampered myself rotten last weekend. i barely left Him change on Monday.

i never asked Him to do this however He enjoys spoiling me with tiny gifts and/or an allowance simply because He loves me.

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 6:48:19 AM

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I don't spoil subs but I do let them know that they are appreciated.

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 7:04:50 AM

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I really enjoy showing affection, and wouldn't last long with someone who didn't appreciate it.

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 7:11:18 AM

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I love being showed appreciation for my efforts. Usually a return effort, the attention to detail, little things, and just being noticed and noted are the kind of spoiling I like. I can handle a bit of material spoiling, or a bit of pampering, but if it gets to be too much I often feel guilt and discomfort, and have to ask for it to end.

I can be the prized pet, but I can't be a queen.

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 7:33:12 AM

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I think that when you care about each other, it's really easy to care for each other. Doing all the little things that you know the other likes and appreciates just coz you know they like them and appreciate them. It doesn't have to be uber Masterish and uber slaveish to make someone a coffee or rub their shoulders or call them at work to meet you for dinner. And it doesn't make a Master less a Master for doing them. Doesn't make a sub more of a sub for doing them. It just works that way. I got that in my sig line for a reason.

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 8:09:42 AM

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I wouldn't call it being spoilt, it's mutal exchange.
Darcy will get me what I need when he believes I need it. If I wish for something special, I am encouraged to ask and I might not get it there and then, but he will allow me to have it when he feels the time is correct. But that makes it even more special. And at times he will buy me something spontaneous and that is just mindblowing like tickets for Radiohead, dvd or cool restraints.

It's being thought of and being appriciated and sharing.

the.dark.

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 8:47:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I think..ideally.. that it's mutual :)

Bingo.

If his back hurts, I rub it and get the arnica gel. If my back hurts, he rubs it. But I still have to get the arnica gel because he's a male and can't find anything.

Hell, there are days we sit at opposite ends of the couch, rubbing each other's feet.

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 9:36:31 AM

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I'm completely spoiled, but I'm sweet. ;)

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 9:37:07 AM

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i love this thread, adorable and comforting to know that there are people here that show how much thier subs/slaves mean to them. i think it is important to show that now and again, even in the most strict of dynamics.

This morning Sir and i went out for breakfast, which was a bad idea for me as it disagreed with me horribly. He drove U/s home and got me in my jammies so i could work more comfortably (i work from home) and wrapped me in a soft blanket. He takes great care of me. He pays attention in great detail of my mannerisms and movements and such, i dont often have to say anything and He just knows when i dont feel well or if i am tired or whatever. i do feel pampered sometimes, but at the same time i am more than happy to accomodate Him in any way He desires. There isn't much i wouldn't do for Him.

~bella~

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RE: Spoiled Rotten - 2/28/2008 10:19:54 AM

jenf

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my Master constantly tells me how much He adores me...brings out the best in me...He really knows how to make me WANT to obey Him. i think without all the positive reinforcement, i would not be such a good slave...

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