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LadyHathor -> RE: Euthanasia (2/29/2008 5:25:02 AM)

I go back to the phrase, " I am the Master of My fate and the Captain of My soul"---
 
I believe each person has the individual right to choose to embarce life or live it---I am more distraught over the ones who think they have to take other innocent people with them--
 
I believe someone's private decision is just that--private---
 
I believe in death with dignity and not allowing someone to suffer for My selfish needs.




MissMorrigan -> RE: Euthanasia (2/29/2008 5:26:16 AM)

Kris, I really don't know what to say to you, other than I cannot even begin to understand what you and your family are going through. I've worked in health care, have nursed patients dying of various ailments and while some of my family members have died of cancer, I wasn't exposed to the entirety of their suffering as they were in hospices. My heart really does go out to you and it's times like this our ethics regarding medical care seem - senseless.

On the one hand we (society) can pull the plug on those on life support doctors consider 'vegetative', yet there are also those cases that have shown recovery when their loved ones refused doctors advice to pull the cord, and they've not only come out of their comas, but have been successfully rehabilitated.

I think instead of there being one blanket process for all people, we should look at individual cases and decide what is right for them, even if it means assisted VE.

I sincerely hope for an easy passing for your father-in-law.

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I have to agree with you on this. Right now, my husband and I are going through this. His father has end stage terminal lung cancer. He is literally dying right in front of us at home. He wants to be home. My mother in law, bless her, looks like hell because of everything she is doing to try and help him ease the pain at least alittle. He wants to die. We want him to stop suffering. The hospice worker that comes in says she can barely hear anything when she listens to his chest. The cancer is consuming his entire body now. Basically, it is coming down to when will the cancer burst. We have been told that when this happens it will be terrible. He will be suffering even more than what he is now. He will basically bleed out of any hole. I personally don't think its right that he has to suffer like that. Why should his wife suffer and see this or his son (my husband)? It makes no sense to me at all.

SM
(Kris)




marieToo -> RE: Euthanasia (2/29/2008 9:20:07 PM)

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adoracat -> RE: Euthanasia (2/29/2008 11:08:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

DesFIP - indeed, perhaps the problem is the lack of (and across most of the UK at least, absence of) adequate palliative care specialists?

One thing which does annoy me even so though, is the ridiculous notion of saying to someone who is dying and in severe pain that "you have had the maximum dose" of pain medication - what does it matter? Theyre dying and the physician is worried about what - liver damage? That many cancer patients dying at home and in hospitals actually die from morphine overdose should be noted though - I am informed that nursing staff do turn the dose up to ensure they slip away peacefully when the time comes, though its not something thats acknowledged as such.

And the other thing which annoys me is the tendency for hospitals to continue trying to cure dying people with medicines which have become unnecessary and the side effects of which make the experience of dying so much more unpleasant. There is such a lack of palliative care specialists that this happens all the time and achieves nothing but distress for the patient and their family. This occurs it seems to me because of a misunderstanding of the duty of care staff have - they seem to believe that if they stop trying to cure then they are being negligent; clearly they are not, but I'd bet now that some idiot in management would have them into disciplinary procedures if they stopped treating to cure and started treating to relieve.

E


tis something i can get angry about very easily.  fallcon died of cancer.  his nurses would NOT give him adequate pain meds....one nurse refused to give him ANY pain meds at all one night.  the next day was when they finally got a palliative care doctor on board...who promptly increased his meds by 3x of what it was...the other doctors had been THAT conservative of his care.

and EVERY time a new doctor came on the case, i had to fight that same battle again, for his pain meds to be left alone.  and when we made the decision that enough was enough, the chemo wasnt working, they couldnt do any more surgery, let it go, they didnt want to accept that, either.

trying to cure is one thing.  i can understand that.  but postponing/prolonging death isnt the same as curing, not by a long shot.

kitten




adoracat -> RE: Euthanasia (2/29/2008 11:15:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

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(4) is again an outdated and outmanouevered ethic in the light of the developments of modern medicine and could just as easily be interpreted to support euthanasia as it is often interpreted to forbid it.


The Hippocratic Oath is hardly outdated.  With regards to questions of euthanasia, it is exactly right.  Doctors should not be in the practice of deciding when life should be ended.

Quite simply, the physician should have no voice in such a debate.  Euthanasia is not a question of medical ethics, but of social ethics.  The Hippocratic Oath, properly followed, puts physicians on the sidelines of that discussion, which is where they belong.



its not so much that the oath is outdated, its that it is NOT read properly.

if it said "dont hurt" then all surgery wouldnt be done, cause the result of most surgery IS pain for a while.  it says "do no harm".

and goddamn it, keeping someone alive who is in pain and isnt getting relief, and isnt GOING to get better, and IS going to die but is being kept alive because of whatever reason the doctors can give....

that's harm.

kitten




adoracat -> RE: Euthanasia (2/29/2008 11:19:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

The concept of Euthanasia is fucked up. In the United States of America, we're not allowed to euthanise our family/loved ones who are to the point of begging for death. On the flip side, you can be charged with cruel and unusal punishment for not euthanizing a pet animal. Ending the life of a person suffering beyond belief is bad but ending the life of a pet suffering beyone belief is good. What a fucking double standared.


because pets dont have that ability to make an informed decision.  so therefore we're being humane to make it for them.

kitten, who is a bit bitter on that double standard herself.




LadyEllen -> RE: Euthanasia (3/1/2008 2:42:56 AM)

Would it be fair to say that the main argument against euthanasia is not so much tied into the idea of the value of a human life, but the monetary value of that life I wonder?

Is suicide illegal not because life itself is precious, but because a living person is a greater potential asset to the system than a dead one?

Is abortion legal not because we dismiss the value of the human life comprised by the fetus, but because a fetus has no assets and is unproductive and prevents the pregnant woman from being productive for the system?

Is euthanasia illegal because the person has monetary assets and the longer the person lives, the greater revenue to the system his assets will provide? For whether natural or induced, a death means revenue to the system from taxes anyway.

E




adoracat -> RE: Euthanasia (3/1/2008 3:40:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Would it be fair to say that the main argument against euthanasia is not so much tied into the idea of the value of a human life, but the monetary value of that life I wonder?

Is suicide illegal not because life itself is precious, but because a living person is a greater potential asset to the system than a dead one?

Is abortion legal not because we dismiss the value of the human life comprised by the fetus, but because a fetus has no assets and is unproductive and prevents the pregnant woman from being productive for the system?

Is euthanasia illegal because the person has monetary assets and the longer the person lives, the greater revenue to the system his assets will provide? For whether natural or induced, a death means revenue to the system from taxes anyway.

E


interesting thoughts to be sure.  fallcon left me some artwork, an mp3 player, some clothes, and a lot of memories.  homeless alcoholics dont pay into the system...he worked the last year and a half, but hadnt worked for probably 6 years before that.  perhaps more.

i'm morally against abortion....but at the same time i wouldnt push my opinion on any woman who didnt wish to be pregnant.

do we value the life...or value the soul?  and how to put value on a soul, or on the quality of the life of the person holding it?

all things to consider, absolutely.

thank you LadyE

kitten




thompsonx -> RE: Euthanasia (3/1/2008 3:54:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Rule
The Divine does not have such a power. The Divine is reactive, acting upon request and according to consequences of such requests - i.e. precedential requests. It does not act of its own volition.

Rule:
How do you know this is true?
Did god tell you?
thompson









thompsonx -> RE: Euthanasia (3/1/2008 4:02:26 AM)

FR
If anyone even remotely considers participating in or assisting in suicide it is absolutely imperative that they contact the Hemlock Society.  They will instruct you in the legal ramifications of such a decision.  They will not give you any advice as to method unless and until you have been a member for at least six months.
thompson




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