MissMorrigan -> RE: Euthanasia (2/29/2008 5:26:16 AM)
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Kris, I really don't know what to say to you, other than I cannot even begin to understand what you and your family are going through. I've worked in health care, have nursed patients dying of various ailments and while some of my family members have died of cancer, I wasn't exposed to the entirety of their suffering as they were in hospices. My heart really does go out to you and it's times like this our ethics regarding medical care seem - senseless. On the one hand we (society) can pull the plug on those on life support doctors consider 'vegetative', yet there are also those cases that have shown recovery when their loved ones refused doctors advice to pull the cord, and they've not only come out of their comas, but have been successfully rehabilitated. I think instead of there being one blanket process for all people, we should look at individual cases and decide what is right for them, even if it means assisted VE. I sincerely hope for an easy passing for your father-in-law. quote:
I have to agree with you on this. Right now, my husband and I are going through this. His father has end stage terminal lung cancer. He is literally dying right in front of us at home. He wants to be home. My mother in law, bless her, looks like hell because of everything she is doing to try and help him ease the pain at least alittle. He wants to die. We want him to stop suffering. The hospice worker that comes in says she can barely hear anything when she listens to his chest. The cancer is consuming his entire body now. Basically, it is coming down to when will the cancer burst. We have been told that when this happens it will be terrible. He will be suffering even more than what he is now. He will basically bleed out of any hole. I personally don't think its right that he has to suffer like that. Why should his wife suffer and see this or his son (my husband)? It makes no sense to me at all. SM (Kris)
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