chamberqueen -> RE: Christianity & BDSM (2/29/2008 9:30:13 PM)
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I have also read my Bible extensively, following a program where I read it cover to cover each year. I consider myself very spiritual though I do not attend church often. It pains me to hear religious "teachers" misapply what they read. There is no doubt a theme of submission. Along with this is honor - on the part of both parties. A man is to love his wife as his own body, for instance, and honor and respect a good wife. There are many things that apply well to a BDSM lifestyle - especially the themes of dominance and submission, mutual honor, and treating the other as well as ourselves. This is why it is easiest for me to take a submissive role when I am with my special One. He allows me input because I am intelligent, creative, and He cares about my feelings. In turn, because of His good actions, I would be willing to anything for Him. I am happy to turn over my heart, mind, and body. However, if I knew that He felt no respect for who I am and what I feel I would simply walk out on the relationship. There is no roadmap here for every woman to be submissive to every man, nor should she be. However, there is guidance for good working relationships. (It can apply as well to Domme/male sub relationships.)
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