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colouredin -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 10:12:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domahpet im always leary of brand new members here that show up on the boards with such graphic posts. too many wankers out there looking for us to validate their "whatever". Id agree, along with such a flimsy profile "Married woman with 2 kids , stuck in sub relationship outside wonderful marriage." one cant help but roll eyes tut and move on

domahpet -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 10:17:34 AM)
WORD

christine1 -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 10:39:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domahpet WORD ..ABSURD...are we playing a rhyming game? ok, as to not get in trouble for hijacking, my opinion is that the earth is round and the sky is blue and i really love waffles. ok, i'll try again. OP, if you are serious then you need to change your focus from "you, you, you", back to your family...at least to your children. nuff said IMNSHO. -Marsha Brady

xxblushesxx -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 10:44:38 AM)
Christine; I thought you were going to say "OP, here's a test; Do I remind you of your grandma?" OP = blackmailing (is this going too far?...ask a master), abdul (I hate Americans, and black people should not submit to whites...general bdsm), adulterating (this thread), racist person (I only want to have black subs genderal bdsm)....(I think they are all one and the same)

domahpet -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 10:47:00 AM)
Christine youre a brat! but waffles are awsome! Word- as in i agree. this person is wayyyyy to self centered and needs to refocus. at the rate shes going (if any of this is true at all) every body is going to loose but there will be only one person to blame. ive seen it happen right here on my perfectly round little world. trust me, it sucks.

colouredin -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 10:50:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx Christine; I thought you were going to say "OP, here's a test; Do I remind you of your grandma?" OP = blackmailing (is this going too far?...ask a master), abdul (I hate Americans, and black people should not submit to whites...general bdsm), adulterating (this thread), racist person (I only want to have black subs genderal bdsm)....(I think they are all one and the same) There have been a rash of controversial posts put up by brand new profiles on their first board post so you may be right (que conspiracy theory signs bells and whistles and men in sunglasses)

Jeffff -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 11:39:23 AM)
I love these posts!.It is nicely divided between a penthouse " I am have the kind of sex you WISH you were having" kinda of letter and the " poor me look what I have done"..lol If it is real, I can' believe someone would come here for advise. If it is fake, thanks for the laughs. As far as any real advice? turn off the computer and walk away! Jeff

chrisl -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 2:16:17 PM)
Well - the first few posts seemed to be quite honest, sincere & helpfull. I really should have know better. After reading some hard replys and talking to a long time friend I'm going to tell my "other" I'm sorry. It's been fun and real but I have to move on. Other things are more important as were posted here. I'll try on the advise of those here and my friend to be as pleading & understanding as possible. As far as my husband - I'll do as one here said. say nothing unless he finds out. Thanks everyone Chrisl

RedMagic1 -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 2:33:58 PM)
That sounds like a good start. However, I'd suggest thinking about it like quitting smoking. It's very difficult without family support and professional help. Please consider seeing a therapist. "Sexual addiction" is a diagnosable reality, and can be treated. It doesn't mean you're "weak" or "bad." If you are doing something you "don't want to do" -- like smoking, or binging and purging -- it takes a lot of effort to retrain yourself. Don't underestimate how strong those urges can be. If you fall back into this you will feel even worse.

Sundowner -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 4:36:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx Pfffttt.... Joined today First post I'm willing to bet that this is the same wanker who posted in 'ask a master' regarding blackmailing the married woman. He/she/it got smarter this time and at least made a profile... I so agree Christina - and then we have:- quote: Well - the first few posts seemed to be quite honest, sincere & helpfull. I really should have know better. After reading some hard replys and talking to a long time friend I'm going to tell my "other" I'm sorry. It's been fun and real but I have to move on. Other things are more important as were posted here. I'll try on the advise of those here and my friend to be as pleading & understanding as possible. As far as my husband - I'll do as one here said. say nothing unless he finds out. Thanks everyone Chrisl The last "what do I do" style post that I saw had the op agonising over the advice for some time - a couple of days. Apologies Chris if you're real (in which case you're an idiot) but for me this is about as fake as it gets (in which case Chris you're an idiot - can't win really).

GreedyTop -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 5:29:22 PM)
yeah.. what Sundowner said ETA: I'm voting for fake, though

xxblushesxx -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 6:00:58 PM)
I'm voting for what GT said....

RedMagic1 -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 6:06:07 PM)
It doesn't matter. Unless you think no one in a BDSM-adulterous situation will ever read this thread, or pull it out of the archives with a search function. I'm not just talking to the OP.

GreedyTop -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 6:11:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 It doesn't matter. Unless you think no one in a BDSM-adulterous situation will ever read this thread, or pull it out of the archives with a search function. I'm not just talking to the OP. Oh, Red.. not saying this is NOT a scenario... just that this one (to me) smacks of Penthouse Forum etc amateur writing. But THIS particular OP... I'm way inclined to think it's a wankfodder post, in and of itself.

xxblushesxx -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 6:17:54 PM)
Yep.... And not GOOD wank fodder at that. It HAS to be believable. I have to think... This could conceivably happen... maybe even to ME.... I'm just sayin'....

atursvcMaam -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 10:30:06 PM)
i still want to know what happened with the foot fetish guy, and to find out how to have this baited hook surgically removed.

chatondamore -> RE: secret life style (3/1/2008 11:45:38 PM)
Sounds like the really questionable porn that a mutual friend of ours writes Greedy. lol

DesFIP -> RE: secret life style (3/2/2008 5:54:23 AM)
On the off chance this is for real. Go visit your lawyer. Explain you've been having an affair and the other man is threatening to reveal this if you leave him. Have the lawyer send him a nice letter filled with legaleze about the penalties for blackmail, including civil and criminal. Go get some therapy to discover why you can only be turned on if it's illicit sex. You aren't the first or the last, they will have heard it before. After working on your own issues first, then add in marital issues to improve marriage. First lawyer Then therapy Then marriage counseling In that order.

dawntreader -> RE: secret life style (3/2/2008 9:29:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop my first (and second) reading of the OP makes me think of stuff I've read over on literoctica.com. just sayin Yeah, that is my impression too~ However, i have been "asked" to search out fantasies...and the OP makes a good one[;)]

GreedyTop -> RE: secret life style (3/2/2008 9:30:26 AM)
[:D]

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