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RE: And the one selected is-- - 3/3/2008 1:44:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: subtee

From the Ds it seems to me there is much impatience in terms of possession. It’s rampant: Hi, I’m YourDudlyDomDaddy, we’ve exchanged 4 emails so, okay, now you’re mine; don’t talk to anyone else, give me a four page essay on the shape and texture of your clit and be on the web cam to “perform” for me at precisely 9 p.m. wearing nothing but clothespins; have the following items: a spatula, a kumquat, rubber ducky, chunky peanut butter and a roll of ace bandages…

And they’re not all from Domiguy either.

No, some are from ME!!
Webcam tonight 8PM (I need my beauty sleep yanno) Forget the clothespins, be neked. The following items must be handy: A turkey baster, a turnip, a can of tomato soup, box of velveeta, loaf of wheat bread, stick of butter (real, no stinking margarine!!) and a microwave.

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh are we making soup?

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RE: And the one selected is-- - 3/3/2008 1:49:24 PM

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I will not ruin the surprise.

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RE: And the one selected is-- - 3/3/2008 1:49:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: subtee

From the Ds it seems to me there is much impatience in terms of possession. It’s rampant: Hi, I’m YourDudlyDomDaddy, we’ve exchanged 4 emails so, okay, now you’re mine; don’t talk to anyone else, give me a four page essay on the shape and texture of your clit and be on the web cam to “perform” for me at precisely 9 p.m. wearing nothing but clothespins; have the following items: a spatula, a kumquat, rubber ducky, chunky peanut butter and a roll of ace bandages…

And they’re not all from Domiguy either.

You have a cam????????

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RE: And the one selected is-- - 3/3/2008 1:50:28 PM

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Ward, behave!

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RE: And the one selected is-- - 3/3/2008 1:51:43 PM

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June?..get to our room, I will tend to the beaver shortly

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RE: And the one selected is-- - 3/3/2008 1:54:26 PM

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Ward,

I have an 8:00PM appointment I am preparing for. Your just going to have to wait.

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RE: And the one selected is-- - 3/3/2008 2:00:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

No, some are from ME!!
Webcam tonight 8PM (I need my beauty sleep yanno) Forget the clothespins, be neked. The following items must be handy: A turkey baster, a turnip, a can of tomato soup, box of velveeta, loaf of wheat bread, stick of butter (real, no stinking margarine!!) and a microwave.

But from you it's perfectly reasonable (and HOT), since you collared me months and months ago...I think on the day we "met."

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RE: And the one selected is-- - 3/3/2008 2:02:53 PM

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Damn, I am cool!

Collared on the day we met, and still together after all these....months(?)

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RE: And the one selected is-- - 3/3/2008 8:00:52 PM

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Hmm. Just to toss in a different perspective:

I don't consider time to be a ruling factor. I more or less expect truth from day one, and ferret lies out as need be. The idea of living in a veil of caution that can [not will, but might] creep to the level of paranoia does not settle well with me.

I do have requirements. Those who can meet them are the ones I follow up on. There isn't many I've met who can, as I'm not an easy person to deal with. When I am comfortable and happy, I will move forward, regardless of the amount of time that's followed. Quality of actions and thought, not quantity of days, are my personal preference.

I can understand the OP's viewpoint. Seen it. Done it [and better for the hard lesson]. It wasn't for any reason other than I was both young and stupid - or socially naive, if you like. The key there is that I learned something from it, eventually.

Ultimately, yes, I think with my heart in matters of love, not my head - and I personally do not want any form of commitment without love. Tried that. Hated it.

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RE: And the one selected is-- - 3/3/2008 8:08:23 PM

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Quick question before I read and respond to the 3 pages already written:

Do you differentiate between choosing someone else and just not choosing a certain person? Seems, at least from the quote below that you are talking about rejecting a potential sub based on incompatibility yet the subject line and first couple of sentences make me think you're asking about a situation when many people are almost competing for a dom's attention/collar. 2 different scenarios in my mind and I'm not sure which one we're addressing here.

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I know My life, I know what will and won't work and what I am and am not willing to "compromise" about ( ok don't start in on this, there is a whole thread devoted to that one)--I simply cannnot see dragging things out if I see warnings--now given that, I work very hard to keep emotions in check on both sides, slowing down this talks and trying to steer to reality away from fantasy ( a thing many don't want to do), as again it seems the guys go nutso way too fast with the feelings---it seems that there is, even after all the writings we do--a prevailing feeling that i'm an s you are a D---we match." [/color]

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RE: And the one selected is-- - 3/4/2008 2:35:55 AM

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In a way i want to stand this one up on its ear,and in another way i don't and there is one huge reason why i don't.My current situation needs to be recitified and until it becomes recitified,i am no good to anyone.My thing is what if you realize after speaking with someone for awhile(and i don't mean just two ir three weeks)but instead for about three months or so.Ans it suddenly dawns on you this is the one without question.But there are circumstances that prevent the decision from going any further.What do you do then?Do you exhibit an inordinate amount of patience ot do you just fling up your arms and say to hell with it and move on to another you may think is right but really isn't??You move on to the next not because of need but because of want and the want is so strong that in fact it can be argued reasonably that it now has become the very thing you don't want...a need.

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