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StormsSlave -> RE: A lost wager... (3/1/2008 10:12:12 PM)
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
Can you spend money? If so, I suggest she have you do things together that she really enjoys that would otherwise be outside your comfort zone. For example: go to the spa together, both get manicure, pedicure and facials. Go shoe shopping, and maybe she only buys one pair, if that, but she gets to try on as many as she wants, from as many stores as she wants, and you are the one who puts the shoes on her feet and takes them off
What's something she's always wanted to do, but thinks it would be too girly-girl to ask you to come along? Sorry to do this to you, bro, but that seems like a very special gift to me.
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Drop me at the salon for a massage, hair stuff, and facial while you do the grocery shopping and go home to put them away.
I'm thinking some of this sounds like a great idea. :)
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My most perfect day has been:
Morning, woken up with gentle caresses, and tender kisses ( he had already been up and made coffee for me, brought it to the bed room) Once awake he handed me the coffee and while I sipped it, he told me what things he had planned for me that day, constantly asking if that was ok? or was there something I would rather do. Picked me up out of bed, carried me to the bathroom where (he already had everything laid out ) he bathed me, washed my hair, (gave me an orgasm or two in the mix) toweled me dry, applied cream all over my body, then dressed me (in something demure but sexy.) All the while letting me know how exciting it was for him to do these thing for me! Little touches and caresses all day long , opening the doors, waiting til I was seated to sit. All the most gentlemanly things. Constant touching, holding hands and soft kisses through out the day, with many murmered endearments, Then after the day of shopping and getting my nails done, and general pampering, he made dinner ( didn't matter it came out of a microwave) Nice chilled bottle of wine, with him pouring and serving me. A fine desert something I find decadent and normally wouldn't even think of having cause it's just sooo baad for me [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m16.gif[/image] he spooned it into my mouth , and kissing me to have little tastes. Then slowly undressed me...carried me into the bedroom ( amazed he could still lift me after that decadent dessert!) A total body massage, and then touching and orgasms and more orgasms and more touching and ,ore orgasms and finally falling asleep wrapped in his arms.
That was my perfect day. ( speaking from experience It's FANTASIC better than a week at a spa! oh and doable[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m11.gif[/image])
My Lord has actually done this just because he loves me. Come to think of it, could've been my best day ever, too.
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Well, me being the impling that I am... I would conclude that it was his desire to have me do as I liked that day (since he wouldn't have made the bet) and would do exactly that!
I'd ask for a back rub, a foot rub, snuggling on the couch, have him watch lots of girlie movies with me (and some action flicks), ask him to get me some nice chocolate, maybe a few new bras (if money could be spent) and take me out to my favorite watering hole for a few drinks and a tasty meal!
I love serving him, but sometimes it's nice to remember I'm a person who enjoys a good foot rub as well. Maybe I'll ask for this for my birthday. Well... except for the spending money parts! [:)]
I'm thinking there's definitely something in what you said, especially that foot massage. My feet get a lot of abuse in my job...ahhh...a foot massage. [:)]
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ORIGINAL: WalterRego
Since I'm guessing you never expected to loose and that's why you agreed to that foolhearty wager, and that you also made your confidence clear at the outset and maybe during the early parts of the game, if I were her, I'd have you end the day by posting here, publically, everything she made you do and how it made you feel to do them.
My Lord thinks this sounds like a fantastic idea. Look for further updates.
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...all of the above!
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well, if i had a dominant and i was in this situation, i'd remember my place with him at all times, i'd never want to be disrespectful. i'd tie him up and tease him and give him the most exquisite pleasure he could imagine...there wouldn't be an inch of him that didn't get touched or licked or, well...his body would be my playground.
I'm thinking this could be on the agenda... [;)]
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It's funny that you should say this, as I've been in the very same situation. I was never familar with cribbage until My former pet taught Me, and I lost a similar bet. In the wager, I promised that he could have something that he really wanted, and I would give it if he won, which he did.
His request was something of a vanilla 'date'. I will never forget this, as he planned it for the Superbowl of last year. During the time of the game, he was permitted to sit on the furniture (he did for the length of the game), he wasn't required to serve (though he had already made dinner, but I put together his plate), and he had free speech. I think he called Me by My real name twice during the game, and he took the liberty of kissing Me on the cheek once, without asking. Even though he had 'won' this time slot, I still remember his hesitation at reaching out to hold My hand, before he had permission. I think he was in high heaven. It was a big deal to him then. Actually, it was a big deal to Me, so I won't say any more about it.
This so sweet. Thank you for sharing this.
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Unplug the phone and spend the entire day making him laugh, sweat and smile. [:)]
I'm thinking the phones are going to turned off, yes, whatever we do. And there will be plenty of that other stuff going on, too.
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I get to have that on most days I don't have to work already so I guess I'm pretty blessed. But there is something nice in being given permission to be completely selfish and self serving- I often get overloaded in trying to make sure everything is balanced, and was always trained to make sure you keep up the social graces and balances.
This sounds nice. I work, and still have a hard time finding those balances. I'm thinking selfish sounds great for a day. Any more than that and the guilt would set in. One day is perfect.
Thanks, everyone, for your brilliant ideas. I'm pleased as punch, cause I wasn't sure if I wanted to win or wanted to lose. [:D]
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