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A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 8:33:50 AM

HerLord

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My Love and I had a friendly wager of a best three out of 5 cribbage tournament, and guess who lost? To the victor goes the right to plan and execute an entire day to their satisfaction.

To humor My Love, I have agreed to request from all of you how you would use this privelage if you were the victor.

So, if you were the victor of this prize, and you had the opportunity to have an entire day exactly as you liked it, what would you do with it?

Edited to include: My Love was the victor.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 8:36:10 AM

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I am guessing you won.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 8:36:56 AM

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Actually, My Love was the victor. I apologize for not making that clear.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 8:40:12 AM

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well if I won, I would do all you said for a day..............lol

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 8:46:11 AM

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Can you spend money? If so, I suggest she have you do things together that she really enjoys that would otherwise be outside your comfort zone. For example: go to the spa together, both get manicure, pedicure and facials. Go shoe shopping, and maybe she only buys one pair, if that, but she gets to try on as many as she wants, from as many stores as she wants, and you are the one who puts the shoes on her feet and takes them off, and you compliment how pretty she looks without ever letting on that you are really bored out of your gourd.

What's something she's always wanted to do, but thinks it would be too girly-girl to ask you to come along? Sorry to do this to you, bro, but that seems like a very special gift to me.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 8:48:22 AM

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I would make you do anything you usually make me do that either bothers or embarrasses me.
(for instance, my Honey would be galloping around whinneying like a pony for most of the day)
We would also watch all of my favorite musicals and old movies; 'Guys and Dolls, Oklahoma, Gone With the Wind, and Casa Blanca"
After that He would bathe me and fix my favorite dinner (after brushing out my hair and dressing me...
Then I would allow Him to service me.
(of course He would do all the necessary maintenance his animals require all by Himself that day)
I think that would be a full day.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 8:53:04 AM

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I'd spend the entire day doting on him in every way he loves and when the day was over I'd set back the clock and do it all over again. :)

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 8:58:11 AM

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Yes, but....I REALLY think he wants to be able to do something for her.
It doesn't make you less of a submissive to be selfish once in a while, especially if he's asking you to.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 8:58:31 AM

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Congrats, Love, good on you.
Oh my, a whole day....where would I begin?
Coffee already made for when I get up, being allowed to sleep in and all. Then I would have you come to the gym with me to count for me and talk about nonsensical things to keep me company. A hearty breakfast made for me following, of course. Start my shower and climb in to wash me. Dry me, do my hair and help me dress. Drop me at the salon for a massage, hair stuff, and facial while you do the grocery shopping and go home to put them away. Pick me up and let's go picnic in the park, walk and talk and share the outdoors. Maybe catch a movie later in the afternoon and then a nice dinner out. Once home again, some quality play time and lots of cuddles. Let's share a nice hot soak with stink-purty bubbles and a glass of wine. You can do the washing and drying again, then a nice all over oily rubdown. Cuddles while I fall asleep.....and call it a day.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 9:04:13 AM

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I'm with OG (again) - (I would want to spend the day with Darcy though not Mr Wonderful) - have an entire day with him just having us both spoilt - and being allowed to still dote on him pretty much is the most selfish thing I could and would want to do. Submission is entirely selfish blushes - so to obey Master by asking to spoil him? Yeah - it rocks.

You might not 'get' it's what makes some peoples earth move, but don't assume for a moment or tell us we aren't being selfish.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 9:05:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Yes, but....I REALLY think he wants to be able to do something for her.
It doesn't make you less of a submissive to be selfish once in a while, especially if he's asking you to.

OK. But the OP asked how WE would want to spend a day, and that's how I would want to spend it.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 9:05:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Can you spend money? If so, I suggest she have you do things together that she really enjoys that would otherwise be outside your comfort zone. For example: go to the spa together, both get manicure, pedicure and facials. Go shoe shopping, and maybe she only buys one pair, if that, but she gets to try on as many as she wants, from as many stores as she wants, and you are the one who puts the shoes on her feet and takes them off, and you compliment how pretty she looks without ever letting on that you are really bored out of your gourd.

What's something she's always wanted to do, but thinks it would be too girly-girl to ask you to come along? Sorry to do this to you, bro, but that seems like a very special gift to me.

All idea's are sought.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 9:07:58 AM

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

I'm with OG (again) - (I would want to spend the day with Darcy though not Mr Wonderful) - have an entire day with him just having us both spoilt - and being allowed to still dote on him pretty much is the most selfish thing I could and would want to do. Submission is entirely selfish blushes - so to obey Master by asking to spoil him? Yeah - it rocks.

You might not 'get' it's what makes some peoples earth move, but don't assume for a moment or tell us we aren't being selfish.

the.dark.

Thank you for writing that.

And I understand that you prefer to dote on Darcy rather than Mr. Wonderful, too.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 9:24:08 AM

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Being Her Lord's Love, I must admit I am very, very excited.

I love these ideas! Keep em coming. I'm already starting an agenda in my head.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 9:38:24 AM

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I guess, dark, that what I was trying to say, is that sometimes it makes the master feel good to spoil the slave. And when you tell him that the best way to spoil you is to let you spoil him, well...then I guess the only thing he can do is submit.
It's like when I show HoneyMaster some pretty sparkly thing and He orders it plus a couple more, and I tell Him "just because I like something, doesn't mean I have to have it', and He says 'yes it does'.
I have struggled with submitting to Him spoiling me for as long as we've been together. We live together, and I still feel guilty when He spends money on me. I have had to learn to put aside the guilt (at least pretend it's not there), and allow Him to do what it is that He wants, even though it's for me...
It's difficult for me to explain, and I know it doesn't seem submissive, but, if you knew what it took me to 'allow Him' to do those things for me, you would understand why *I* answered in the way that I did.
I purposely didn't put anything regarding spending money in my answer as only they know what they can afford to do and to spend...and also, whenever I win a bet like that, I never make Him buy me stuff. (although He's always surprised about that...His exes have all been materialistic)
Just yesterday, He said to me, 'You're the only gf/slave I've ever had that gets upset when I buy you stuff'...
I'm just saying, that sometimes, *you* submit by letting the *master* do for you. It makes them happy...

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 9:38:33 AM

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My most perfect day has been:
Morning, woken up with gentle caresses, and tender kisses ( he had already been up and made coffee for me, brought it to the bed room) Once awake he handed me the coffee and while I sipped it, he told me what things he had planned for me that day, constantly asking if that was ok? or was there something I would rather do. Picked me up out of bed, carried me to the bathroom where (he already had everything laid out ) he bathed me, washed my hair, (gave me an orgasm or two in the mix) toweled me dry, applied cream all over my body, then dressed me (in something demure but sexy.) All the while letting me know how exciting it was for him to do these thing for me! Little touches and caresses all day long , opening the doors, waiting til I was seated to sit. All the most gentlemanly things. Constant touching, holding hands and soft kisses through out the day, with many murmered endearments, Then after the day of shopping and getting my nails done, and general pampering, he made dinner ( didn't matter it came out of a microwave) Nice chilled bottle of wine, with him pouring and serving me. A fine desert something I find decadent and normally wouldn't even think of having cause it's just sooo baad for me

he spooned it into my mouth , and kissing me to have little tastes. Then slowly undressed me...carried me into the bedroom ( amazed he could still lift me after that decadent dessert!) A total body massage, and then touching and orgasms and more orgasms and more touching and ,ore orgasms and finally falling asleep wrapped in his arms.
That was my perfect day. ( speaking from experience It's FANTASIC better than a week at a spa! oh and doable

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 9:41:53 AM

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Isn't it amazing what a good man can do for your mood?

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 9:43:09 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I guess, dark, that what I was trying to say, is that sometimes it makes the master feel good to spoil the slave. And when you tell him that the best way to spoil you is to let you spoil him, well...then I guess the only thing he can do is submit.

Not my Master. He doesn't like to dote or spoil, at all, and loves the joy I feel when I dote on him. And what you were trying to say wasn't about "the master" it was about my submission.

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It's difficult for me to explain, and I know it doesn't seem submissive, but, if you knew what it took me to 'allow Him' to do those things for me, you would understand why *I* answered in the way that I did.

I can understand that, and I don't judge others' submission by what it seems like to me.

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It makes them happy...

Who is "them?" I've belonged to my Master going on 4 years now and I know pretty well what makes him happy. He also knows I have no greater joy than when he is absolutely content, and I see that contentment most when I am doting on him. Because he knows that rocks my world, sometimes he sets aside what he originally planned to do and gives me his whole day to do just that.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 9:46:45 AM

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Seems like there is a row of semantics and generalisations, rather silly really. I can see both sides of the argument to be honest. I think that sometimes its nice to be spoiled no matter what your oriantation and if your idea of being spolied is to spend the day looking after your Master/Sir then so be it, if your idea of being spoiled is to be looked after by Master/Sir so be it. Doesnt make anyone any less of what they are, end of.

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RE: A lost wager... - 3/1/2008 9:47:58 AM

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Doesnt make anyone any less of what they are, end of.

Agreed. That was my point.

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