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Male submissives bisexual - 3/1/2008 12:00:57 PM   
LadyHathor


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Status: offline 		ok guys,, why why why why do 99% of you put bisexual on your profiles and yet in chat have a hard limit of men?
 
Do you now know the diff between bicurious, bisexual, and hetero??
 
Do you all really think that all Dominas expect sex between their boys and another man???
 
You cannot be serious, what is up with that??

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/1/2008 12:35:44 PM   
Jeffff


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Just guessing.:)

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/1/2008 12:38:20 PM   
LadyHathor


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Whatever it takes to get your attention, and perhaps get in your pants?

Just guessing.:)

Jeff


YOU are wicked!

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/1/2008 12:43:41 PM   
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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/1/2008 1:30:06 PM   
iwearpanties


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im am a sub male and will admitt the want too try bi  play , It   dose excite me as well as scare me too in a humiliation form or in a forced type of situation i think more males would or   will try it .....

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/1/2008 2:33:48 PM   
LadyHathor


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Status: offline 		but does that not make you bi-curious versus bisexual? Isnt bisexual a statement, that says " been there, done that, want more"?

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/1/2008 2:41:43 PM   
TotalState


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ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

but does that not make you bi-curious versus bisexual? Isnt bisexual a statement, that says " been there, done that, want more"?

No more than gay or straight is. 

And just because someone, under the right circumstances, might have sex with a person of the same/opposite gender, there might be a lot of other circumstances where they don't. 


As for this site, and its endless horde of bisexual and switche (or dual profile) males - I agree with Jeffff.  They're after the contents of your pants.


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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/1/2008 3:18:59 PM   
AAkasha


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The sad reality is a lot of male subs will say whatever they think they need to say in order to get a chance, even if it means lying or misrepresenting themselves.  I also don't understand why some men think that if they do not have the same interests or hobbies or anything, that it means they are automatically going to be cast aside -- so they lie and try to be agreeable to everything instead of being honest.  How do you find out what is real and what is not? 

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/1/2008 4:01:59 PM   
Mezrem


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha


The sad reality is a lot of male subs will say whatever they think they need to say in order to get a chance, even if it means lying or misrepresenting themselves.  I also don't understand why some men think that if they do not have the same interests or hobbies or anything, that it means they are automatically going to be cast aside -- so they lie and try to be agreeable to everything instead of being honest.  How do you find out what is real and what is not? 

Akasha



The only real way to find out is to learn the person and find out if they are telling a lie about what they are into. I like many or perhaps all of you will kick some one to the curb for lies. As to people not getting a chance.. a chance to what I would offer back. If the person is looking for more then friendship then there are some elements that will throw them out. Friendship or just casual exchange of ideas.. well that is another story all together.

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/1/2008 4:09:53 PM   
Politesub53


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

ok guys,, why why why why do 99% of you put bisexual on your profiles and yet in chat have a hard limit of men?
 
Do you now know the diff between bicurious, bisexual, and hetero??
 
Do you all really think that all Dominas expect sex between their boys and another man???
 
You cannot be serious, what is up with that??


99% ? i dont browse guys profiles, but since mine says straight i am wondering who the other 99 are that post on here.

As for bi curious, does that include watching two lesbians ?


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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/1/2008 4:40:10 PM   
Sundowner


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ORIGINAL: Politesub53
As for bi curious, does that include watching two lesbians ?


ROFL

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/2/2008 12:24:20 AM   
hopelesslyInvo


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Status: offline 		it makes perfect sense for that, but in the original question of saying "i'm bisexual" but sex with men is a "hard limit", it still doesn't really add up, no matter what way you look at it, people simply must be stupid to say they're bisexual yet bi interaction is one of their limits.  i could say i'm heterosexual even though i'm a virgin, but i can't say "i'd like to have sex with women although i'd never want to have sex with women".  it just doesn't make sense.

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/2/2008 5:49:32 AM   
TotalState


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Status: offline 		Oh, I agree.  I was just responding to the wording of a different post.

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/2/2008 7:12:56 AM   
iwearpanties


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yes in my case i think it dose fall under Bi -curious. since ive not done it but the want and excite too sub to anther Male Dom type or too have a Mistress want too see or make you yes i think so . wonders if it could fall under pushing a hard limit ????/

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/3/2008 7:54:00 AM   
rubberpet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

ok guys,, why why why why do 99% of you put bisexual on your profiles and yet in chat have a hard limit of men?
 
Do you now know the diff between bicurious, bisexual, and hetero??
 
Do you all really think that all Dominas expect sex between their boys and another man???
 
You cannot be serious, what is up with that??


I fall under that 1% that doesn't/didn't put bi-sexual on my profile.  I've never had interest in having sex with another man, nor do I ever want to have sex with another man.  I'm 100% straight and I'm right upfront with it.  If I were to contact a domme looking for a relationship and a requirement was for me to be bi-, I'd just find myself another domme.  It's something I simply will not do.  The only cock I will suck or lust for up my ass is the strap-on attached to Mistress.

I know Mistress doesn't want me to have sex with anyone, male or female.  The whole bi-sexual, me with another male scenario, does nothing for Her.  So, in my relationship, we have two votes for "no" in the bi-sexual rubberpet category! 

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/3/2008 9:22:25 AM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		did the bi thing 2 times with my mistress ..one guy was white ..one was black ...both had nice cocks ..seemed very natural thing to do since she wanted me to experience that with her  see she loves seeing 2 men together with her there directing the action ..do i consider myself bi ? no ..not really because i have no interest doing so unless my lady wants it done again  would i do it again ? if she wishes ..very few limits i have ..thought the bi thing was one of them ...but once the fun began ..it was fun indeed ..ahh the things us sub males do to keep our mistresses happy ..have fun ..mal

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/3/2008 3:20:12 PM   
Decimus


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Status: offline 		Well I count 8 guys that have responded and three of them actively said they were 100% straight and not bi-sexual so although it is a skewed setting survey, we have higher than 33% of the men on here not being bi!

In all seriousness, I see it as two possibilities, first of all is the most commonly thought of one, they are lying to get in your pants as others have stated. However the other reason may very well be they do not understand what being bi means and think that just because they like a strap on, they are bi.

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/3/2008 3:37:02 PM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		Jeffff may be wicked (evil laugh) but what he says is true.   I'm going through a phase now where I get tons of switches.  When I confront them with the fact that I don't switch, I don't accept switches, because I haven't had good experiences, then they say, well I didn't mean switch in "that" way....I don't do "labels" and I meant I am Dom at work and sub at home...I tell them well on this site that is not what it means.  I get the "label" thing again...so of course I play along, give them a chance, and all be darned if they don't prove me right...lol

if you talk long enough, their true colors always come out....basically, unfortunately, several here only say what they think you want to hear, so, as Jeffff so eloquently put, just to get into yer pants....lol

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/3/2008 3:50:57 PM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		I agree...you don't have to have had an actually sexual experience before you can say you are bi...I mean a person knows whether they are attracted to men "and" women or if it's just one or the other.

I always tell people it really doesn't make you bi,  if there is no attraction to the same sex, but you will do it because your Mistress or Master wishes it.  In that case it's just another chore, like mopping or doing the dishes.

just my thoughts on it any way  :>

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/3/2008 7:37:46 PM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		i saw that it was written that some subs just use bi too get intoa Mistress pants hell every Mistress i ve ever been to of with never once even would consider a sub male too be in her or allow them into her pants for sex

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