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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/3/2008 7:50:21 PM

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Ultimately, this question is about "honesty in profiles." Let me remind you, this is online. It's filled with people who talk the talk, but don't walk the walk. In a word, fakes. Yes, I agree with you,OP, there are far too many bi-wannabes and poseurs on this site, and so many other sites. Most of them, confronted with a hard cock not their own, would choke. (and not in a good/sexy way...)

It just makes it more difficult for those of us who are honest about our desires to find potential partners for a romantic evening. It just makes it harder to get any respect, or acceptance, because everyone thinks we're part of that 99% of fakes who are "just trying to get in your pants."

It's kinda depressing, really.

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/5/2008 12:18:17 PM

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ok guys,, why why why why do 99% of you put bisexual on your profiles and yet in chat have a hard limit of men?

Do you now know the diff between bicurious, bisexual, and hetero??

Do you all really think that all Dominas expect sex between their boys and another man???

You cannot be serious, what is up with that??

i actually don't consider myself bi at all. have no attraction to guys. it's the Female form that is a work of art and gets my blood going. now, if She happens to be excited by the idea of having me take cock for Her, to please and excite Her (with Her there of course), that is a completely different story

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/5/2008 3:19:17 PM

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Of the r/t male subs I know, none profess to be bi. Gay, or het, but not bi. I suspect most of those who do so online are merely posers of the "no limits" variety. And when confronted "live", suddenly they think twice of it and decide maybe it's not for them after all.

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/6/2008 11:18:09 AM

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Just so that there is no misunderstanding between myself and any Domina who for whatever reason peruses my profile..if i ever was forced to suck real cock then i will become the new "Bobbit" in the world cause i will bite the thing clear off and said Domina would die a thousand fucking deaths before i was through with her...there i think that is pretty clear...oh and that is by no means a reflection on Lady Hathor because she gets it.Back to you Chet.

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/6/2008 12:23:11 PM

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The most ridicilous males are those which claims to be heterosexual but want to have sex with a man. This is per definition not be possible. They are bi-sexuals but lies even to them selves. I myself are a bi-sexual sub, I'll do it all with all and likes it <blush>.

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/6/2008 2:26:05 PM

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but does that not make you bi-curious versus bisexual? Isnt bisexual a statement, that says " been there, done that, want more"?

Hmmm that could be a bit tricky in hardlining an answer. I am bi-sexual (well actually tri-sexual as I will try anything at least 3 times), but by choice I am not sexual with just any woman that crosses my path. There has to be a connection, emotional, physical, mental, not just the fact I can graze at the Y. Because I am picky, but still interested you really could not call me bi-curious. I have been there, done that, and want more with the right person.

I can also see this as a criteria for a male sub as well. If they have done it in the past, even if only once, they are past the curiosity, but may need a connection with the person to fully realize that aspect of their sexuality. My ex husband had a male lover for a period back when we were first dating. They were very active for about a year, but eventually parted ways. 18 years later he lists himself as bi-curious, instead of bi-sexual, but realistically, he is looking for the emotional attachment with another male again, not just a bump in the dark. Bi-curious, a bump in the dark could answer the question, bi-sexual, a bit more is probably going to be needed, some attraction to make the connection work.

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/6/2008 2:36:11 PM

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I think there should be another classification, because what the world obviously needs is more labels and classificiations. This new one is bi-situational (not my term - heard it somewhere before). Meaning if this situation is right, you'll probably go for it, but otherwise there really isn't an attraction to someone of the same sex. This situation could mean being told to by your Dominant, while taking part in a 3-some or some other group sex activity, or for those cold and lonely nights in a tent while herding cattle.... lol

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/7/2008 2:04:24 AM

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lol it doesnt make any sense at all. they are probably just guys who are saying whatever it takes, but i dont understand how they dont think it will come up or how they will deal with it (I'm a bi male sub by the way)

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/7/2008 2:06:34 AM

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lol yea exacctly. het, bi, homo are catergories that dont work for some people

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ORIGINAL: ArgoGeorgia

I think there should be another classification, because what the world obviously needs is more labels and classificiations. This new one is bi-situational (not my term - heard it somewhere before). Meaning if this situation is right, you'll probably go for it, but otherwise there really isn't an attraction to someone of the same sex. This situation could mean being told to by your Dominant, while taking part in a 3-some or some other group sex activity, or for those cold and lonely nights in a tent while herding cattle.... lol

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/7/2008 2:50:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

ok guys,, why why why why do 99% of you put bisexual on your profiles and yet in chat have a hard limit of men?

Do you now know the diff between bicurious, bisexual, and hetero??

Do you all really think that all Dominas expect sex between their boys and another man???

You cannot be serious, what is up with that??

Some do, some don't. I think most know that it does definitely appeal to some of us, therefore, the skewed percentages.

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ORIGINAL: sjacket

Of the r/t male subs I know, none profess to be bi. Gay, or het, but not bi. I suspect most of those who do so online are merely posers of the "no limits" variety. And when confronted "live", suddenly they think twice of it and decide maybe it's not for them after all.

I can promise you that this isn't My personal experience.

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ORIGINAL: ArgoGeorgia

I think there should be another classification, because what the world obviously needs is more labels and classificiations. This new one is bi-situational (not my term - heard it somewhere before). Meaning if this situation is right, you'll probably go for it, but otherwise there really isn't an attraction to someone of the same sex. This situation could mean being told to by your Dominant, while taking part in a 3-some or some other group sex activity, or for those cold and lonely nights in a tent while herding cattle.... lol

Actually, this isn't incorrect. While you were giving the tongue in cheek vibe with the post, it's accurate. There are a lot of things that fall under the bi label for some, situationally bi being the example you gave. There is also orally bi, forced/encouraged bi, non-relationship bi, bi-curious, and a slew of others.

Under "orientation", there are usually three choices given for a label. Straight, gay, or bi. Anyone falling in that last category, might include themselves as bi, but it is according to their definition.

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RE: Male submissives bisexual - 3/7/2008 5:08:33 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ArgoGeorgia

I think there should be another classification, because what the world obviously needs is more labels and classificiations. This new one is bi-situational (not my term - heard it somewhere before). Meaning if this situation is right, you'll probably go for it, but otherwise there really isn't an attraction to someone of the same sex. This situation could mean being told to by your Dominant, while taking part in a 3-some or some other group sex activity, or for those cold and lonely nights in a tent while herding cattle.... lol

I agree, I've yet to see or meet a male that i'm at all attracted to sexually, not walking round the city on the TV or in films/movies, yet to please her i'm more than happy to meet her demands orally or anally......

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