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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 3:10:06 PM   
colouredin


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

, gotta roger you when you are on the rag 'cause you're horny'.




Im pretty sure if someone said that they were gonna roger me id pretty soon not be horny :P


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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 3:10:36 PM   
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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 3:16:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: basheera

Are Masters and Mistresses suppose to come on so strong. I have been here for a few days and they seem to be attacking me with their desire to put their foot on me. Scaring me to death! Aren't I a human being?


Yes you are a human being, though right now you are more like fresh meat dumped into the tank and the sharks are circling.  Ignore, block, delete, whatever, eventually it will calm down.   Most of all do not let some anonymous asshole sending you email get to you.      They only have the power to scare or upset you if you give them that power.

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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 3:19:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

gotta roger you when you are on the rag 'cause you're horny'.





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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 3:20:40 PM   
agoodgirl4Daddy


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Status: offline 		Thank the gods and goddesses for the BLOCK and DELETE options!  I answer maybe 1 email out of 50..and that's a very conservative estimate.  Most emails I get aren't even fit for my polite "Thank you, but no thanks" response. 

Get used to it, and develop a thick skin.  

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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 3:42:39 PM   
glycerine


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Status: offline 		Definitely a big fan of the block button.  Sorry if you can't at least approach me with respect initially, there is not much hope of any future contact.  Usually they are good for a laugh and not much else.

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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 4:02:47 PM   
Sirsinini


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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 4:05:28 PM   
mnottertail


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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 4:55:48 PM   
Maya2001


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PS: Please and I say please I can tell fakes from real. And I will play with you until I feel tired. If you are not fake I will speak with you seriously.


This part of your profile may be part of the reason as well, some may  see it as a challenge.......I would remove the reference to be collared... it does come off as sounding desperate and it is not something you want to rush into, you want to choose carefully and it can be months with the same person before your ready to accept their collar ..it is not something you take lightly ..... know I noted you mentioned have hard and soft limits..... I could be wrong but I believe that gorean slaves are not entiitled to have limits as least that is what I gathered from one of the discussions I had seen here


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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 4:57:17 PM   
BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Jesus H. Christ!!!!  Stop the insanity!!!!!

Doesn't a goddamn one of you just drop to your knees and start sucking?


Ron  


Well, yeah. But we all got snatched up in the first wave.  The problem here isn't that cheap and easy sluts aren't out there (we are!) .. it's that the Uber doms took too long to get in line. It's about time people took responsibility for their tardiness in getting in to the game.

Celeste

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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 5:00:00 PM   
junecleaver


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Status: offline 		You're not human.  You're text on a screen.  You could be a monkey banging on a keyboard, I don't know.

Does it scare you when people in a bar hit on you?  I treat rude and unwanted advances the same way online as I would in the real world.

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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 5:07:21 PM   
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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 7:40:47 PM   
Nineveh


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ORIGINAL: basheera

Are Masters and Mistresses suppose to come on so strong. I have been here for a few days and they seem to be attacking me with their desire to put their foot on me. Scaring me to death! Aren't I a human being?


You mention being interested in Gorean,  Despite there being some quite pleasant people involved iwth Gor there are also those who see it as an excuse to view women as objects rather than human beings.  And there are others who aren't Gorean who will see your interest in it as a statement that you want to be treated as an object to be claimed.

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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 7:50:36 PM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: Nineveh
there are others who aren't Gorean who will see your interest in it as a statement that you want to be treated as an object to be claimed.

I agree completely.  When I was looking, I refused to write women who stated a strong interest in Gor.  This was a preference I learned after talking to some and realizing they wanted something completely different from me -- basically an online-only relationship in which they were treated like shit.

JustMe is (at least sorta) Gorean... but he's nice.  Weird, I know.  If even he is telling you to take Gor out of your profile, you might consider it.


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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 7:55:17 PM   
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There's no I in team.


And, as a friend likes to say, there's no team in I.

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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 10:25:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: dcnovice

quote:

There's no I in team.


And, as a friend likes to say, there's no team in I.



I before E except after C
Or in sounding like A as in neighbor or way
Or on weekends and holidays and all throughout May
And you'll always be wrong no matter what you say!


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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/2/2008 10:28:31 PM   
dawntreader


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ORIGINAL: colouredin

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

, gotta roger you when you are on the rag 'cause you're horny'.




Im pretty sure if someone said that they were gonna roger me id pretty soon not be horny :P


ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i was thinking the same thing
i can't imagine "begging for a roger" without falling apart laughing...


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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/3/2008 5:11:03 AM   
MissLily


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Status: offline 		For My part, I never contact a sub first. Usually, it's him that will contact Me and then we go from there.

Males are more aggressive I should imagine.

Be very carefull! There's a lot of nutters around!

Take care,
Miss Lily

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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/3/2008 5:13:33 AM   
mnottertail


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Miss Lily----

I so had a hard on for you when you taught kindergarden to me.  And now I find out you are kinky too?

My whole world is just so wonderful today, it all sort of fits now, know what I mean?
Ron

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RE: Coming on too strong - 3/3/2008 8:29:11 PM   
greenearth21


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Status: offline 		Fresh Meat Alert!!!! Works all the time.  As someone said; give it a montha nd it will calm down

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