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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 3:35:43 PM

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 3:46:27 PM

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for the first time in my life i have a sub who is married to someone else. it is important that when she is disciplined that i not leave bruises or marks on her ass. normally i use a paddle or a tawse , but what in your opinion gets the point across, yet leaves hardly any marks?

I had an untwisted rope flogger made that can be employed for quite a while without leaving anything more than a red bottom if used in moderation. You might also consider light-to-moderate barehanded spanking.

You have to watch how you wield the flogger, though. If used hard or long enough, it will produce very satisfactory welts and bruising.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 3:58:03 PM

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AH!!!!! *desperately hopes Sir never sees that*

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/2/2008 5:36:54 PM

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Have her ask the husband to do it.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/3/2008 5:04:19 AM

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He never said that she was cheating. For all we know, her husband may not share the same interests and be just fine with her submitting to someone else. There have been plenty of people around that submit to someone that isn't their spouse with their spouse's permission.

~Just my thoughts~

In which case why does the fact she is married lead the OP to mention he cant leave bruises on her bum? seems to me like infidelity

it might sound that way, it might *be* that way.

but it could be that he doesnt like to see marks on his wife even if he knows she's seeing someone else. i know wolf is like that. *shrugs*

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/3/2008 6:26:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: adoracat

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He never said that she was cheating. For all we know, her husband may not share the same interests and be just fine with her submitting to someone else. There have been plenty of people around that submit to someone that isn't their spouse with their spouse's permission.

~Just my thoughts~

In which case why does the fact she is married lead the OP to mention he cant leave bruises on her bum? seems to me like infidelity

it might sound that way, it might *be* that way.

but it could be that he doesnt like to see marks on his wife even if he knows she's seeing someone else. i know wolf is like that. *shrugs*

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/3/2008 6:29:12 AM

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the husband is not into the lifestyle but knows all about the relationship. he simply does not like being reminded that she is and that it is a part of her. he simply asked that i not leave marks on the sub in question. It is so easy for people to imagine the worst in people instead of the best.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/3/2008 6:35:48 AM

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well depending the severity (sp?) of the crime, spanking,essay writing/line writing,(while sitting in a uncomfortable position and/or maybe have ballgag with something nasty tasting on it. *grins*)corner time, (having to keep a quarter inside a circle drawn on the wall. possibly before hand, making her drink alot of water, and not letting her go to the bathroom.) can't think of anything else without knowing more details. **WEG**

BTW jimmyd, you can edit your posts by using the edit button to the right side of your screen. In between FWD, and Quote buttons.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/3/2008 7:42:59 AM

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the husband is not into the lifestyle but knows all about the relationship. he simply does not like being reminded that she is and that it is a part of her. he simply asked that i not leave marks on the sub in question. It is so easy for people to imagine the worst in people instead of the best.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/3/2008 7:47:30 AM

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the husband is not into the lifestyle but knows all about the relationship. he simply does not like being reminded that she is and that it is a part of her. he simply asked that i not leave marks on the sub in question. It is so easy for people to imagine the worst in people instead of the best.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/3/2008 4:57:50 PM

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If you're asking if there is anything you can beat her with that'll be guaranteed to leave no marks, the answer is no. Ice baths, TENS units come to mind as alternatives, where hurting her backside is concerned.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/3/2008 7:54:42 PM

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I suppose telling her that you are disappointed won't do it? Because honestly, if she wants to submit she will. If she isn't inspired to, or your demands are unreasonable, then she won't.

And a lot of vanillas married to people who get their pain needs met elsewhere do draw a line of no visible marks. Just like they aren't going to accept the dom/me restricting orgasms between husband and wife. The primary relationship's needs get met first, the play relationship needs second.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/3/2008 8:32:22 PM

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Tie her up in such a way as it is uncomfortable (or cramped up in a dog carry cage?) with a gag and leave her that way for a while without you in the room. No marks, increasing pain and no satisfaction from having you watch her.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/4/2008 8:43:04 PM

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hmm

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/4/2008 8:53:50 PM

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When my friend came over, who had a partner who didn't really approve of her coming over, my Dom gave her some spankings yes, but made sure they were light enough that it wouldn't leave marks. And she did tell her partner that she may have some marks when she came home, that was ok because her partner knew what to expect. i would be extremely cautious and would actually talk with her partner to see how he feels. But that would have to be between you and them to decide. Best of luck

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/4/2008 10:36:50 PM

erebus

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Gagging and leaving the room isn't safe. If she vomits, she could choke to death. Bummer all around.

As far as disciplining her, if she wants to be punished and is married to someone else, I'd have no problem with it. So she enjoys some kink...

Spanking should leave no mark except a red bottom for a while. Hair pulling might be enjoyed, face slapping in a mild fashion, pinching, pulling or otherwise harrassing some nice body part might be fun. Have her stand at attention with both arms out for a long time. Corner time. Have her clean your bathroom, cook for you and serve you. Etc.

I'd say discussion with the sub and some negotiation might be in order.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/5/2008 6:14:38 AM

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I wouldn't advise a punishment that makes her dizzy, Red. If he doesn't want to see marks, how do you think he'll feel when he gets a call from the ER saying she passed out and hit her head in falling?

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/5/2008 7:23:25 AM

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Make her spend an hour with the person she's cheating on.

And give that guy the tawse.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/5/2008 7:25:37 AM

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the husband is not into the lifestyle but knows all about the relationship. he simply does not like being reminded that she is and that it is a part of her.

Eek. I feel sorry for her.

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RE: leaving marks on a sub - 3/5/2008 12:34:43 PM

MasterLDesade

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jimmyd45 , with due respect for the other posters . In my opinion for your particular set of circumstances would be Two words Firstly , Execution & Power variation , Secondly in the commercial reality's , the client states they are married , my targeted area would be the Soles of the Feet not many peeps pop their Skanky Feet on their respective partners and say check out these poor Suckers , hard days work in those two . No partners and I'm talking Vanilla marriages here , usually feel the need to inspect that area and its quite the opposite in effect .
So you have a highly sensitive area hidden from all concerned and begging for a variety of stimulation , that every time a single step is taken is remembered and endorphins will be released . Just a little non-home wrecking spot jimmyd45 , your's to pontificate .
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