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HerLord -> "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 4:07:46 AM)

Alright. Here goes.

My love and I are constantly looking for new ideas of things to try, and trying them.
Being a sensitive topic as it is, and very limited options for real life interaction, it is difficult to discuss new experiences.

We have seen this type of thread done before, where an individual person details an experience, and others comment. Our idea is to create a place for EVERYONE to  share something they have done that was new,and anyone interested, can learn from it.. This way, every thing on the post will be new to someone, and reminisent for others, thus allowing for an expanding experience base to learn from. Sort of like a "New experiences" Co-op.

A few Precautions...

1. This thread is not intended to be written for a free source of porn nor is it intended to be spankabelia. As ADULTS, we only need to be as explicit as is required to describe what was done.

2. Taking it upon yourself to try something you learn here without first discussing it with your partner can be hazardous to your health and or relationship. As always, communication is base.

3. Remember the "house rules." (TOS) http://www.collarchat.com/m_72/tm.htm

4. It would be novel and original if there could be a thread without flaming so... *

We hope to see some great ideas and some real life experiences, at worst, it'll die a hopefully not too slow painful death.

*(like that could ever be)



breatheasone -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 4:16:48 AM)

Howdy HerLord, (btw, I love how you refer to your girl[:)]) My Master and I tried something that we thought was "new"....You see Master and I love water sports....and one time(and several since) He urinated in my bottom after anal sex...it was HOT (well to US anyway) Then one day Master wanted to feel that sensation for Himself...so I came up with an idea to make it happen. He really enjoyed it and wants to do it again. I hope this is approprieate and what you had it mind for this thread....If not my apologies if I am giving TMI.



HerLord -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 4:34:51 AM)

This is exactly the kind of thing we had in mind...
quote:

Then one day Master wanted to feel that sensation for Himself...so I came up with an idea to make it happen

What did you come up with that helped make it happen?

Thanx for sharing.



breatheasone -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 4:51:21 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HerLord

This is exactly the kind of thing we had in mind...
quote:

Then one day Master wanted to feel that sensation for Himself...so I came up with an idea to make it happen

What did you come up with that helped make it happen?

Thanx for sharing.

I inserted a tube into my urethra and the other end into my Masters bottom and just "filled Him up"....lol....it was really kinda cool....and I LOVE urethra play any how so it was a joy to do [;)]



Dnomyar -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 5:55:07 AM)

This thread could get interesting so I will just watch and take notes. Future



HerLord -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 5:56:30 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

This thread could get interesting so I will just watch and take notes. Future
Why not contribute?



LadyLynx -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 7:15:19 AM)

1. mini hair clips (nipples,genital area, the underside of the arm,butt cheeks.anywhere sensetive.)
2. Hot Sauce (though use with caution!!)
3. objects with different textures, fabric samples too. (could be anything from fur,to sandpaper,to grill brushes,etc.)

With me it depends on where I am at. I am more likely to break out the floggers and other such toys at a party, but at home, just use my hands, or whatever I can find around the house. mmmmmm. damn, Now I don't wanna wait til friday!



HerLord -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 7:29:14 AM)

LadyLynx... great ideas... We have seen a product called vampire gloves. We are looking into checking these out. I think this falls right into what you are talking about. they are half finger gloves with very small "prickly" spines protruding from the fingers and palm of the hands... We look forward to getting to try these...

Thanx for the post. When it was new to you, what were your concerns, how did you address them?



LadyLynx -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 7:44:26 AM)

you can make vampire gloves, (I plan on making my own, going to go to a golf pro store and finding a pair women's gloves, I have small hands *smiles*) you can get the prickers at fabric stores, can't quite remember what they were called, but I think they are in furniture supplies.

Well the hot sauce, the danger is that it could potentially cause permanant damage, So I have used it very sparingly, but I am reluctant to use it on the genitals, for they are the most sensetive area.

Talked it out with my friends, in person and in chat.  Most of the items I have used, I tried out on myself, or asked a friend to top me with the item in question.

Concerns: were (like with the hot sauce.) were hurting my play partner, in some way, unknown allergic reaction, permanant damage, physically/mentally. Now I still think about those things.  It definately has helped that most of my play partners have been those who are experienced (usually switches.) And knew pretty much what they could handle. 
The mini clips, if you havn't gotten them, you should. you can get them at the $1 store, and they are soooooooo evil! hehehe

Almost forgot to mention, if spanking with vampire gloves, careful in how hard you do it, it can draw blood, (unless of course ya want to. and of course if you ever use them on someone else clean them.)

**Wicked Evil Grin**



HerLord -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 7:56:57 AM)

I would definately have concerns with the hot sauce my self.

These mini clips...
"My Love... We're going to the dollar store..."
Great Idea.
This is what this thread is for...

An improvisization we had to go through this w/e. We do not own ANY whip chains or other assorted "punishment" toys. As we are prone to do when experimenting, My Love had an urge to be "corrected." Not having anything ready at my disposal, I quickly found a 3' a/v cord and cut one end off cleanly. seperating the three wires about 8" we then had us a thrifty little whip/cat'o'nine... er three tails. The result was awesome. She has minimal whelts and both had a fantastic time.



LadyLynx -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 8:22:21 AM)

why no whips/floggers? lack of moola? (I can sympathize with that!) Dom Depot, craft stores,$1 stores,kitchen accessories, so things and places that you can utilize!  There is actually very little that you can't pervert!



HerLord -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 8:37:43 AM)

We came into this relationship unprepared for the pleasure we now share.
My ex's took what they could and left only what the law forced them to. Tha's a whole other thread. Now we have sooooooo many things to buy just in this world of kink and wonderful sex, even if we had $1,000 a day to spend it would still take us YEARS to buy every thing we need/want. But who aint in that position? (the taking of years to buy what one wants)

We do fairly well at improvisation. Never considered those nifty little clamps... BRILLIANT.

It is these simple little things that, the "experienced" can so help the "n00bs" with. (sorry, had to) The little swapping of $1 plastic clips for $85 medical stainless steel... blah. you get the point. Definately more of these tips. Things that with out the versatilaty of wisdom and experience, others may not make the connection with. I love these places. All sorts of ideas stemming from... "swapping" kink for perversion. I have a great spatula... etc. some are more easily connected than others.



daddyncherry -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 8:44:04 AM)

Icy hot can be fun ( a little bit works wonders).....my Daddy also loves to use the textured, plastic cutting board on my butt- he calls it the Nasty and boy does it liveup to it's name and it covers alot of area all in one WHACK.



HerLord -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 8:52:03 AM)

I have tried the Icy Hot... can never get passed the smell... plus I just don't like the feel deep inside the muscles... Would you recomend any particular spots for me to put it on My Love? Me, I like the ice cubes on the balls thing myself... exhilerating.

quote:

The Nasty...
we... have... one of... those... "Hey babe..."
*edited to correct {quote] thingy*



PinkDice -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 9:13:32 AM)

I have been mummified in pallet wrap. *GRINS* I can't take credit for this idea, because it wasn't mine, but it was just so damn fun! If you tape cotton balls over the naughty bits to protect them before wrapping, you can safely take scissors and cut out holes. Yay for easy access. :) If you can manage to heat it (during waxing or other such things) it shrinks and gets more restrictive. I do loves me some tight bondage...



Missokyst -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 11:03:36 AM)

I find that not having engaged in bdsm for a long time, everything I do now, is new.  Last night I had my nipples sucked up into small cylinders and OWIE!!  I am a masochist who has lost most of my toughness.  Very cool!
For people who are still soft, those nice little snakebite kits they sell at walmart are doable.  But for people who may have maso tendencies I recommend the industrial type of snake bite kit that looks like a syringe.  It definitely took things a step up for me.
Kyst



Shammon5 -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 12:48:23 PM)

Sama and I discovered this one a while ago. If you're looking for something easy to find around the house, unhook one of those plastic turn-y rods on some window shades. It's like a plastic, octogonal cane (easier to break, though, so be careful. Try choking up on it a little bit). It is surprisingly intense, and most houses have like...20 windows so you'll have a lot. :-) When you're done using it, just hang it back up and it will go about its daily task of opening and closing your shades.



Volcano -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 2:46:58 PM)

Well, there is something I tried out on Nisey at last month's play party. 

I took a couple of lightweight plastic clothespins, tied them together with thin ribbon and clamped her nipples.  Then I got out the helium tank and balloons that I had picked up at Walmart the day before.  I started inflating the balloons and attaching them to the ribbon between the clamps.  I moved the clamps around to different parts of her breasts as I added balloons, but they were back on her nipples by the time I filled the last one. 

Ended up with 19 balloons over all.  The tank is rated for 30, but I used larger balloons for a better lift/weight ratio.  Even then, I'd be surprised if the lift was even half a pound, but it had the desired effect. 

Then I had some fun, pulling the balloons down and releasing them, blowing on them so they pull unevenly.  Then I took her down from the cross, tied her hands behind her back, and had her walk around the party asking people if they would like a balloon.  She finally got her nipples unclamped when she gave the last balloon away. 

I need to do this at home sometime, so that I can take pictures and measure just how much lift there is. 




Noah -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 4:23:38 PM)

Glueing (use superglue only with a careful eye on the calendar, but lesser glues don't see to last long) her fingers together and her thumb to her hand. It can be a nice lick in verious objectification/puppy/pony play scenarios, though for pony you might prefer to glue the fingers to the palms for a more hoofy effect. Otherwise it can ne a nice suggestion of paws or doll hands, or just a twisted little bit of bondage.

Gluing the toes will probably effect her gait more than she'd suspect.

I'm sure that no one here is stupid enough to need any safety warnings about chemicals on skin.

Oh, and how about stoning?  Not so good for the bedroom but it works dandy outdoors. Take her to beach the day before and suggest she pick out some pretty, smooth stones in a certain size range for you. No need for her to know at that point what they're for. If you keep the size reasonable you can throw really hard.

Not technically stoning but closely related would be to use fruit for the "stones". A nice range of effects is available based on the ripeness/rotteness of the projectiles. Obviously an orchard is a superior venue for this gig.

I've never done eggs. 
hmmmm

And once again, if you can't foresee and control for the considerable risks to a degree appropriate to your situation then, well, find another hobby or something, okay?

One tip I'll offer on the stoning: given the depth of subspace that can be induced and your being somewhat farther than usual from the object of your affections during this procedure, a drop signal might be prudent to add to whatever safeword practice you may care to use.



Skully7000 -> RE: "NEW Things We Tried" (3/3/2008 4:53:41 PM)

the story of my single tail:

when I was a wee lad (12-14) I went to cancun for the first time. and I had already been collecting little pocket knives (for carving marshmallow sticks at the camp fire) well when I saw all the cool fixed blade knives I wanted many of them. Parents said NO. but they did allow me to buy a 10+ foot bull whip. I spent many years taking the whip and just spinning it around in a circle to knock soup cans off the fence post. it was officially the first weapon I had ever bought myself(everything prior was a gift)

fastfoward almost a decade. and I've been involved in the scene to some extent or another thanks to the crossover between goth and fetish. but I never had a big interest in playing. until I started going to TES (a NYC educational group) so that I could learn how to play with my girlfriend and other vanillar relationships I have had who were Kinky but I just didn't understand....
next thing I knew I was REALLY involved and my whip was my only toy... it wasn't until my first scene with it that I realized how useful it is. I mean seriously how much fun can you really have with a 10+ foot whip in a nooke and cranny type dungeon. well as soon as I was done with the Lashes...and moved in to check up on my sub. I suddenly had the idea to take the last 1.5feet fo the whip and use it as a Flogger. this worked great. then I took the whip and wrapped it around my sub in a very messy way that allowed me to pull her around however I wanted and if i lifted up the texture of the leather rubbed up against her clit(while making her stand on her tiptoes)
then after that I used the leather wrapped hard wood handle to beat her ass and meaty areas of her back and the back of her thighs.

So yeah... a Single TAIL... 4 great uses(well Five if you count the astheics of having it wrapped around you ready to be used or hanging off your belt coiled up)

Cheers
Skully



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