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kittinSol -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 3:49:49 PM)
It's not at all my scene, but since you asked so nicely, I feel like probing you back [;)] . What do you and your partner get out of sharing you? Is it an anticipation, a butterfly in the stomach type of feeling before you do it? Or is it the afterglow? How do you feel mentally and emotionally during it (whatever it is that goes on [8D])? Does he go with other people too, or is it just you? Sorry for this plethora of questions - I'm curious.

LaTigresse -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 3:52:10 PM)
Not to mention, last I knew, there was no cure for the warts either.........

colouredin -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:03:15 PM)
Nope there isnt, there is treatment but the re-occur esp in tiimes of stress

SailingBum -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:04:00 PM)
ehhh I read anywhere from 2 weeks to a year and a half for HIV. I am NOT risking MY health cuz I shared my girl. Wheres the profit for anyone involved? BadOne

daddyncherry -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:06:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum ehhh I read anywhere from 2 weeks to a year and a half. BadOne The PCR DNA test is much faster and a much much smaller window than the ELISA test (however it's spelled)

colouredin -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:06:40 PM)
Well we are reading differant things, I may be wrong that was just what I have been told when ive been for check ups.

SailingBum -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:16:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddyncherry quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum ehhh I read anywhere from 2 weeks to a year and a half. BadOne The PCR DNA test is much faster and a much much smaller window than the ELISA test (however it's spelled) Taken from the AIDS foundation website. Can someone get a PCR test to diagnose HIV faster than antibody screening? Answer: Yes, if they are willing to pay for it. But: Does it give them a true report of their HIV status? Answer: NO! They will still need an antibody test later, after waiting through the window period. On the other side of the scale, it is well known that there are many HIV positive people who have "undetectable" viral load thanks to protease inhibitors. So false negative results are also quite possible if PCR is relied upon to make a diagnosis for HIV. Viral load testing is extraordinarily sensitive, but it is not perfect. The most sensitive viral tests can only detect 40 or more viral particles per milliliter in a sample. It is therefore false to assume that an "undetectable viral load" means there is "no HIV present." A person with "undetectable viral load" can indeed transmit the virus to someone else. BadOne

daddyncherry -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:18:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kittinSol It's not at all my scene, but since you asked so nicely, I feel like probing you back [;)] . What do you and your partner get out of sharing you? Is it an anticipation, a butterfly in the stomach type of feeling before you do it? Or is it the afterglow? How do you feel mentally and emotionally during it (whatever it is that goes on [8D])? Does he go with other people too, or is it just you? Sorry for this plethora of questions - I'm curious. i honestly don't know exactly what He gets out of sharing me, other than he has been cultivating a slut in me and he enjoys it on some level and he knows it deepens my submission to Him....i can however speak for myself. First, i love sex, love it love it and you only go around once and i spent many years chastizing myself for my desires, stuffing it, denying it, all kinds of screwed up stuff that was just alot of baggage. Now i NEED to be opened up, to connect to my sex and not dissociate from it.......But....with that being said, if i were alone, left to my own devices i would NOT be a slut, or promiscuous at all. So the next level of it, the important part for me, is the way sex or play happens in RELATION TO HIM and to US as a M/s couple....it makes me feel more like HIS when he shares me...that i am an object for pleasure and he is using me in that way.....especially if it is pushed outside of my personal comfort zone. i also don't ascribe to monogamy.....it just isn't something that works in my mind...i don't believe that any one person can supply all of the sexual needs of another person, all of the fantasies of another and so in being non-monogamous it gives us the option to be satisfied differently without having to breakup, be sneaky, lie or go through all of the emotional turmoil that can ensue in a relationship when people cheat to get that temporary itch scratched. The build up beforehand is definitely great, but build up without satisfaction is like a sneeze that isn't released, just annoying and frustrating beyond belief....the after glow is also great....During.....that depends on the situation....i have been great in the midst and not so great in the midst. The times when i wasn't so great i was not being as submissive as i could be and not keeping it in the rightperspective. He does play with other women as well and i enjoy watching that and it's a big turn on for me to watch....when he is with me i can't see him in action.....i also want to see him find pleasure....i'm a totaly voyeur.

Madame4a -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:18:47 PM)
Actually, a very quick search gives a lot of information on several different incubation periods depending on the type of infection (among other things). There also seems to be a very wide range of incubation periods, including up to several years.

colouredin -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:27:49 PM)
"To test for HIV, blood is taken. HIV testing in the laboratory involves looking at a blood sample for HIV antibodies, the body's defence chemicals produced in response to infection. Testing can be done four to six weeks after infection but the virus may not be detected in the blood for up to three months in some people." (http://hcd2.bupa.co.uk/fact_sheets/html/aids.html) I am sorry I got it wrong, i only rememberd the 6 weeks bit.

Jeffff -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:29:01 PM)
It isn't about STD'd for me. It is simply about sharing.....whats mine is mine. Like LaT, I am selfish. Jeff

daddyncherry -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:37:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff It isn't about STD'd for me. It is simply about sharing.....whats mine is mine. Like LaT, I am selfish. Jeff THANK YOU JEFFF for staying on topic.....i soooo totally did NOT want this to be anything like an STD thread. Can we please get back on track??? Please? Thank you in advance.[:)]

SailingBum -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:37:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff It isn't about STD'd for me. It is simply about sharing.....whats mine is mine. Like LaT, I am selfish. Jeff I agree. What I was attempting to point out in my other posts was the misinformation being tossed about. And how sharing puts everyone involved at risk! BadOne

daddyncherry -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:42:22 PM)
Pretty please with sugar and a cherry on top can we stay on the topic?

sweetwenchie -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:43:01 PM)
personally i do not wish nor desire to be shared, and to date have not been with someone who feels differently than i do in that regard. Mind fucks about being shared can be fun, as long as it stays that... just a mind fuck.

colouredin -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:43:21 PM)
But that is only sexual sharing which I wouldnt do, I have been asked about sharing in a way that involves no penetration and its actually something I am not sure I am comfy with at the moment. Its something that Sir and his slave have done since day one and thats fine I ma just not sure I am in the right place to be ok with it myself, I am still very new to it all and get very very nervous. Though I would of course if i was asked to do it rather than just asked my opinion on it.

daddyncherry -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:45:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetwenchie personally i do not wish nor desire to be shared, and to date have not been with someone who feels differently than i do in that regard. Mind fucks about being shared can be fun, as long as it stays that... just a mind fuck. i think that, the whole mind fuck thing without any reality, would be a super hard limit for me.

Jeffff -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:48:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddyncherry quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff It isn't about STD'd for me. It is simply about sharing.....whats mine is mine. Like LaT, I am selfish. Jeff THANK YOU JEFFF for staying on topic.....i soooo totally did NOT want this to be anything like an STD thread. Can we please get back on track??? Please? Thank you in advance.[:)] Ok........ I can't fucking believe I am the one who put a thread back on track!! LOLOLOLOL I hope Mod XI is lookin' Jeff

daddyncherry -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:49:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff quote: ORIGINAL: daddyncherry quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff It isn't about STD'd for me. It is simply about sharing.....whats mine is mine. Like LaT, I am selfish. Jeff THANK YOU JEFFF for staying on topic.....i soooo totally did NOT want this to be anything like an STD thread. Can we please get back on track??? Please? Thank you in advance.[:)] Ok........ I can't fucking believe I am the one who put a thread back on track!! LOLOLOLOL I hope Mod XI is lookin' Jeff [sm=biggrin.gif]Quick! Do something bad before you lose your street cred.LOL

domiguy -> RE: Sharing (3/3/2008 4:50:20 PM)
I probably will end up losing some sleep...But I might let her eat some pussy. "Unprotected pussy" at that....If my sub doesn't have a virile enough constitution to ward off a lil' std or two then fuck her....Sadly, I'll be forced to move on. There might be some rough days that lie on the horizon...But I will survive... But I'm tough that way.

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