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RE: Typical Punishments/Discipline - 3/5/2008 6:05:38 AM

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I don't lie to Master. What would be the point? He disciplines for infractions and he doesn't use physical things to discipline. Punishment type things are reserved for play. Things like spankings, whips, floggers etc. I also don't act bratty, again what would be the point? I happen to enjoy a good spanking, flogging etc.

I think you will find that any couple has their own unique individualized way of doing things, whether it be in UK or US. Every dynamic is different and the way things are done are different for everyone.

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RE: Typical Punishments/Discipline - 3/5/2008 6:55:52 AM

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ldw, I only do 24/7 so here is my opinion. (this and a dollar will get you a cup of coffee-no refills-just trying to valuate one persons opinion.) As a preface everyone on here has the capability and opportunity to lie. The adage that a good person won't lie is rubbish. a good person will lie to protect his family or loved ones in a heartbeat. Several others have noted varying degrees of lies as does your OP. because I am very much a sadist and enjoy inflicting coporal pain during play I try to find other methods of punishment so as not to confuse the two. That said: A small lie will get a talk to determine why the lie was needed, followed by warning of punishnent on next small lie. Huge lie, regadless of reason will get a punishment. This will range from a withdrawal of any pre-earned priviledges to kneeling on a hard kitchen floor sprinkled with uncooked rice for 30 minutes while contemplating the lie, it's motivation and ramifications. Another good punishment here is a handful of hair and drag liar to the shower and turn the cold water on full blast for 5 minutes, followed by open discussion afterward.
A big lie and meant it. This is somewhat more difficult. My mind says change the locks after walking the person throught the house allowing them to collect their things. My heart would be tempted to valuate the severity of the lie,the slaves value to me and my house, time in the relationship without this overt behavior,as well as other positive factors in the relationship before the lie. If a punishment was to be determined as a method for changing this behavior, it would be severe. If physical I would ask another trusted Dom to moderate and oversee the punishment administration so that the punishment would not cross the line to abuse. In simple terms I would beat the soul out of the slave within the construct guidelines of SSC. If that did not fix the problem, they are gone.
As for bratty behavior I would use my knowledge of the slaves fears and weaknesses against her. She would not want that attention from me again. If my slave was bratty and acted out(especially in public) and I knew she had a fear of bugs, she would be restrained and placed up to her neck in a trash bag full of crickets for 10 minutes when we were at home. It would depend mostly on the individual fears of the slave but I like customizing punishments for brats.

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RE: Typical Punishments/Discipline - 3/6/2008 6:33:49 AM

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A true Dom doesnt need spanking to make his point.He can use it if he wishes,or she wishes,but there are more effective ways,after 23/25 yearsrt we have come up with the idea that most subs/slaves enjoy spanking even if its a harsh one,therefore you are defeating the purpose,you a feeding a desire or need,not teaching.A sub/slave loves attention,therefore we have found the best way for us to teach themis not topay attention to them for while,an hour or so usually does it for most,before you do this however it should be explained what the infraction was,and why it was wrong,then simply turn away from their view,and ignore their pleas until you feel theyve adjusted themselves appropriately.Ladytosirdragon

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RE: Typical Punishments/Discipline - 3/6/2008 6:39:03 AM

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A big lie and meant it. This is somewhat more difficult. My mind says change the locks after walking the person throught the house allowing them to collect their things.

If someone I trusted and loved lied implicitly about something important, I would wonder why. It's not something I would ditch a relationship over, but it I'd start asking: "What's wrong?"

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RE: Typical Punishments/Discipline - 3/6/2008 8:56:19 AM

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Daddy is the same way he doesn't spank me for punishment, I love them so what be the punishment in that. Punishment from Daddy would be making me watch 3 hour of war dvds or watching a golf game in silence. that's like watching cheese age . I think that the worst punishment is knowing I disappointed Daddy and him letting me know that he is disapponted in me, that's the worst feeling ever.

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RE: Typical Punishments/Discipline - 3/6/2008 11:07:19 AM

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I have never lied to Sir (hopefully never would) so i cannot answer that one.
I dont think ive ever bratted either and i certainly wouldnt do it to gain punishment. Punishment so far for me has been use of the cane which i abhor and being ignored which i hate also.
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RE: Typical Punishments/Discipline - 3/6/2008 11:35:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: lovingdomwanted
Lied:....Little white lie What do you consider little lie, Yes Sir I cleaned the bedroom, When everything was put in the closet, If I was found out probably a talk and a bit of a spanking.

Lied:.....Huge Lie but only to protect your loved one Again depends on the lie and who the loved one is, I wouldn't lie to protect my Owner, my family? My owner would know the situation and wouldn't punish me for being open with him.

Lied: ......And you meant it.... I would never Intentionally Lie to my owner, If asked something I was uncomfortable with, I simply say sorry Master/Sir/Daddy/Lucy/Master Fru Fru of All Things Shiny I am not comfortable with answering that question at this time do to painful memories/ current stressful situation/ reason here.

Back-chat:..... I make sure every relationship I am in is based on open and honest communication, If he cant take me offering my opinion on things, then he wouldnt be my owner. Said owner would never tell me to shut up and look pretty. He would respect me for my opinion, even if he didnt agree with it.

Brattish Behaviour...To gain punishment..... Ive never openly sought out punishment, all punishment given to me, is not something I enjoy, hence its punishment. If I want a spanking, Id request my owner to give me a spanking, If I wanted a quiet evening Id ask for it.

Brattish Behaviour.....One off...... Im also confused with this one, so Im not quite sure what you mean.

In general punishment goes as such, something minor or what he considers minor, not doing this order or that with no good reason, It being explained a talk and a pain implimated punishment, spanking flogging, paddling.
Something more then minor not major like a repeated minor offense. A talk explaining why it was wrong, what I can do to correct it and the silent treatment or no physical contact. Something major, like (Ive never been this far) cleaning out the bank account using the credit card against my owners wishes, doing something thats utterly wrong. We talk about it, we see where we go from there if we are in a relationship or not. If we are then the silent treatment, with allowed contact, with that look, that shakes me to the core and makes me break a little inside.

These are the things that work best on me, they help correct the behavior, and they help me know what I did wrong that gives me both the knowledge of what I need to fix as well as a reminder as to what happens if I don't fix it.

And Im from the US

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