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Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 12:09:24 AM   
VMistressV


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I just wanted somewhere to deposit this idea. If you have a problem with you sub trying to rub one out, say while your asleep, or if they touch themselves in thier sleep. have them sleep in a pair of textured mittens with a locking strap on the outside. those things can't feel good.
We've all heard of chastity devices, i just like to make things hard.
Linnk to textured mittens.
http://www.onestopequineshop.com/Textured-Rubber-Mitts_p_0-1140.html


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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 12:21:14 AM   
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Creative ways,
Just say NO!
 
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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 12:24:31 AM   
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Just say NO!
 

Yeah, that was my thought too!
 
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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 12:27:29 AM   
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Only if they match my PJs ...

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 12:49:48 AM   
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make sure subby is asleep before you and when they are....put carmex on their fingers, gives a weird bad cold tingly feeling, if they wake up and try to play with out you.

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 1:38:18 AM   
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Have him take a tylenol PM before bed.  He will be asleep before he has a chance.  it has cut my masturbation way down.

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 2:09:13 AM   
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if my sub is horny..I prefer to do her myself..and stop the mastrubation need

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 4:57:48 AM   
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*wonders when the sub got an option on this matter*

No is No... and I expect that to be adhered to....

it is not up for negotiation.. and disobedience will be punished severely!


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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 5:00:41 AM   
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this totally reminds me of medieval times when boys would have spiked cock rings put on them to prevent them from even having an erection at night time. There were many rather complex ways of preventing masterbation but one would have thought a simple you arent allowed would suffice (thank god im not in this position)

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 5:22:54 AM   
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Interesting use of a pervertible.  

You could just cuff sub to the headboard.

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 5:41:23 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kirata

quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you

Just say NO!
 

Yeah, that was my thought too!
 
K.


And mine.  Guess speaking a requirement and really believing it will be adhered to just isn't so creative?  Master and I must lead such a booooring existence  .............luci

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 5:52:32 AM   
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Seems overkill in the daytime if he can't understand the word no. And since while asleep, he just needs friction, not his hands, that won't prevent him from rubbing against the sheet.

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 7:30:31 AM   
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Tell them not to? It works for Me. Just an opinion.
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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 8:41:03 AM   
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The question raised is......why does the sub want to mastrubate that badly? Is it just this once..or is the sub addicted? 

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 8:54:28 AM   
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You know, I'm just mischevious enough to push things to this point ... Sometimes no means maybe... Sometimes no means not if I catch you ... I'm just sayin.

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 8:56:47 AM   
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Some people out there spontaneously orgasm as well. It's happened to me a few times - how do you stop that  ?!

Look! No hands!

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:04:49 AM   
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Justme696,
I don't know if Your question was to Me or not but I will answer from My side. My slave doesn't live with us so unless I tell her she can, she has been told she can't, as a standing order. It works for us, I like keeping her on the edge. My sub/wife, also has the same rule. It works for our family. If it doesn't work for you don't do it. Rather simply. Just My opinion.
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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:09:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LordVelvet

Justme696,
I don't know if Your question was to Me or not but I will answer from My side. My slave doesn't live with us so unless I tell her she can, she has been told she can't, as a standing order. It works for us, I like keeping her on the edge. My sub/wife, also has the same rule. It works for our family. If it doesn't work for you don't do it. Rather simply. Just My opinion.
LordVelvet


No it was in general
I am curious if the sub always feels the need to mastrubate or not. OR is this a one time problem.
It is easy to see to a igirl..don't mastrubate..but for how long? ANd yes..we tough DOm(mes) say..aslong as we say no.
But the sub thinks..what one doesn't see...didn't happen.
Beeing a Dom(me) is not just ordering..also maintain the sub...and soemtimes..this can be allowing mastrubation..or just have sex with the sub.

thank you for your answer though.

ps: if this is not a one time question..then it is not about mastrubating..but about disobiediance


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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:12:24 AM   
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How do you keep them from doing it? 

Satisfy them.....

Oops...is that topping from the bottom?


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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:13:24 AM   
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Oops...is that topping from the bottom?





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