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jenf -> f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 10:59:12 AM)

My Master wants to meet up with  another D/s couple, we actually have made plans to meet, but He won't tell me what he has in mind...i do know He wants to see f/f action...and i will do that for Him, because i know it excites Him, but i don't actually like it myself. Please, men, what do You expect a couple submissive women to actually DO with each other? What do the men do while the women are busy? What is the big attraction?



DesFIP -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 11:15:14 AM)

You need to ask him. You also need to talk with her beforehand. Because unless she knows that you don't like girls, she will feel your rejection and that's not fair to spring on her. Imagine if you thought you were having great chemistry with a guy, and were expecting lusty kisses and embraces to then have him turn around and say, "I don't mind trying to do something for you as a favor to my sister who set this date up, but you really need to know you don't turn me on at all". Think you would like it?

Sounds like what he's expecting is for you to turn magically bi. Better talk to him about what happens if you burst into tears and run from the room instead. Or decide it was so horrible that you stop in the middle, call red, and announce you're hard limiting it. Or what frequently happens, is that the sub is so upset she loses all trust in the dom and calls off the relationship. We've seen that played out here a lot. Are you and he, and them, ready for this to go really bad?



OmegaG -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 11:21:08 AM)

I am bi-curious and m'Lord would love to see my first time.  He wants someome that will be physically attractive to me and we will have met to make sure our personalities mesh before hand as well.  Also, he's talked about what activites he's interested in watching.

I'd say talk to him.



colouredin -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 11:30:40 AM)

Yup talk to him, I am sure that you express uncertainty he would have no problem directing you in what he wants to see. 



Bound2One -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 12:13:39 PM)

I agree with the above responses.  I don't see the point in hiding what it is he wishes you to do, especially if you're not especially interested in doing so.  Are you supposed to be putting on some kind of performance, which will be awkward and stilted unless you are comfortable - or would he rather see you have an honest, open, sexy exchange with a woman whom you find attractive?  Has he discussed with you whether you will be serving the other Dominant? 

There are way too many variables going on here.  I understand the idea of the mind-fuck, but I think you need to communicate a bit more on this issue.  Master and I have discussed this, as it is a desire of mine as well as his, but we've talked a lot about motivations, feelings, actual acts, etc.  Nothing would be much of a surprise, which is how I need it to be.  It sounds like you need some reassurance on this also.




Owner4SexSlave -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 12:26:07 PM)

I thinking about all the Girl on Girl porno scenes I've ever seen in life right now....



branbran77 -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 12:26:28 PM)

Im agreeing with the above also....talk to him.....do u really want to be with another female?? If u bi-curious then great...if not or if uv tried it before and didnt like it i dont see the need to......as far as what 2 women do together....well as a bi-courious female id like to try some things that men have done to me with another women....and id love to see what it would be like to give a women oral.....Id be so focused on her i dont think id care what the guys were doing[:D]



Justme696 -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 1:06:49 PM)

quote:

Please, men, what do You expect a couple submissive women to actually DO with each other? What do the men do while the women are busy? What is the big attraction?


I don't need to see my girl with an other female.
But if there is something i would like to see if it happens...is 69...and then join in...because watching is boring.



KatyLied -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 1:19:31 PM)

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Please, men, what do You expect a couple submissive women to actually DO with each other?


I think most men would be happy if you just allow nature to take its course.  A lot of stroking and kissing will help.



LaTigresse -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 1:20:47 PM)

I knew a guy that wanted his wife to be with a woman. They were happily married and he thought that would be soooooooo hot. They searched high and low to find a woman that would accomodate. They found her.

The two women have been together for 4 years now. The original couple divorced just under 4 years ago.

I know this does not apply to the OP, but I just thought I would toss it out there for those guys that really think it would be, soooooooooo hot, to see their woman with another. Shit happens.



Chloelicious -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 1:22:22 PM)

Jen

First of all how far would you accept to go with this lady?

Don't worry when you will be caught in action with the other girl, the guys would not let you alone.They will probably do comments, caressing you, tease you, etc.

You said that you don't like it but have you tried, really thought about it?

I think the big attraction for your master is to see how "far" you would go to please him (He could ask you  things more "disgusting" or degrading then that)

The most important thing that everybody agrees on is that you MUST tell your dom what you don't like in this idea.

How does he see it?
Does he  have any idea?

Chloé






Justme696 -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 1:24:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I knew a guy that wanted his wife to be with a woman. They were happily married and he thought that would be soooooooo hot. They searched high and low to find a woman that would accomodate. They found her.

The two women have been together for 4 years now. The original couple divorced just under 4 years ago.

I know this does not apply to the OP, but I just thought I would toss it out there for those guys that really think it would be, soooooooooo hot, to see their woman with another. Shit happens.



there was propably soemthing wrong before also then.
but a good warning if you have others involved



LaTigresse -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 1:26:41 PM)

I actually knew them very well and the marriage was better than most. The wife just realized that being with a woman felt "more right" after she experienced it.



jenf -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 1:50:12 PM)

i did do it once before, it didn't disgust me...it just doesn't turn me on. at all. Neither giving or recieving from another woman...but my Master and i discussed it, wondered if perhaps a different woman would be better for me...and i did agree to try it again, for Him...because i will do anything for him. The other lady is very nice, very submissive, and i won't hurt her feelings. The question was more of technique...what should i actually DO???? i need nuts and bolts ideas to work with...ahh...perhaps i should have asked this of a domme, who could tell me exactly what to do to pleasure a woman. As for talking it over with my Master...i have asked Him, he seems to think nature will take its course.



OmegaG -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 1:52:41 PM)

I think I would start with what pleases me.



LordShadow -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 2:21:26 PM)

greetings girl,
Every woman is different on what works for her, start out slow with light kisses and touches, explore your partner and find her triggers. Ask you Owner if he has any specific expectations, ask the girl what she likes.



Lordandmaster -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 2:41:57 PM)

Now let's see...

They can 69 each other.

One of them can switch and tie up the other and flog her tits.  Or maybe cane her between the thighs.

Then I can tie them to each other and whip them together.  Back-to-back is nice, but so is tits-to-tits.

Or I can lace two pairs of nipple clamps through the O-rings in the collars so that they can't step away from each other without a little twinge of agony.  Edited to add: Oh, an even better idea: give each one a little crotch-rope tie (back behind the ass and then up between the lips and over the clit), and secure the ends of each one tightly to the other one's collar, so that when either one moves she ends up abrading the other's clit.

Or I can make one of them straddle the other's face and grind on her while I fuck her from behind.  Or, hell, why not tie their ankles and wrists in that position just so that they can't move?

Need more ideas?

quote:

ORIGINAL: jenf

What do the men do while the women are busy? What is the big attraction?



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 3:30:09 PM)

what do the men do? you have to ask that???? they play with themselves while they are filming you so they can sell videos on ebay.





kittinSol -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 3:35:01 PM)

I don't mind if a man witnesses me with a woman, but God forbid he even attempts to touch anything.



LaTigresse -> RE: f/f action for Master's pleasure (3/5/2008 3:36:32 PM)

Now that made me smile![:D]



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