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Proper deep-throat training - 3/5/2008 12:42:33 PM

sk69

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Was curious to know what experiences have been in this community regarding techniques and procedures for teaching a sub/slave how to properly deep-throat a Dom? Are there certain practices to follow? Thanks.

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/5/2008 1:20:50 PM

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Just tell the sub to breathe through their nose and pretend it is a popsicle "cherry flavored" that is what Daddy tells me

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/5/2008 1:48:50 PM

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And you might want to avoid posting your question in more than one place. Nice way to quickly come to the attention of our beloved ModXI.

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/5/2008 2:03:17 PM

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Find a dentist friend and get some of the stuff that numbs the back of the throat.
I'm told it taste like bananas...

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/5/2008 2:06:22 PM

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http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/fellatio.html

This isn't too bad. Good Luck!

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/5/2008 4:30:36 PM

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goes all wistful remembering a long weekend

... *choke .. pull back .. *WHACK* ... cough cough .. choke pull back *WHACK* ... snort .. droool.... choke ... pull back *WHACK WHACK WHACK* .. droool ... choke .,. gag .. choke .. suck .... suck .. gag ... suck ... "good girl!"

knows that wont be any help to the uninitiated ..

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/5/2008 5:27:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

goes all wistful remembering a long weekend

... *choke .. pull back .. *WHACK* ... cough cough .. choke pull back *WHACK* ... snort .. droool.... choke ... pull back *WHACK WHACK WHACK* .. droool ... choke .,. gag .. choke .. suck .... suck .. gag ... suck ... "good girl!"

knows that wont be any help to the uninitiated ..

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/5/2008 5:29:56 PM

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it's the grabbing of my hair and him forcing himself down my throat....how does one train for that exactly? in this case i think the reality is the training.

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/5/2008 5:34:57 PM

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I posted a bunch of links on your other thread that got deleted. Once again, google is your friend.

Technique.
More technique.
How To.
More (scroll down)

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/5/2008 5:35:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

goes all wistful remembering a long weekend

... *choke .. pull back .. *WHACK* ... cough cough .. choke pull back *WHACK* ... snort .. droool.... choke ... pull back *WHACK WHACK WHACK* .. droool ... choke .,. gag .. choke .. suck .... suck .. gag ... suck ... "good girl!"

knows that wont be any help to the uninitiated ..

ya shoulda put a warning label on this one! LMAO!

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/5/2008 7:18:59 PM

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Reposted:
Frankly, due to jaw problems and small mouth, I use my mouth only 30% of the time doing oral sex.

My generic method is to start with my hands- massage the cock, scratch the balls a bit, get the blood flowing so you can start to sense when it's getting hard.

Then I use my mouth to lick it gently, get it more sensitized and a bit wet. This is about the only time I put my mouth into the cock- when it's still only half hard and can fit easily, and I can roll my tongue around it inside.

After that, I keep my mouth almost completely on the head, which is the most sensitive, just licking and keeping saliva flowing so that my hands, which are doing all of the shaft work by stroking regularly. The fingers cover more area and are more manipulative than the tongue and you can keep the pace going much better than with your mouth alone.

So, teeth aren't a problem at all.

Adding:

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/5/2008 10:32:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

goes all wistful remembering a long weekend

... *choke .. pull back .. *WHACK* ... cough cough .. choke pull back *WHACK* ... snort .. droool.... choke ... pull back *WHACK WHACK WHACK* .. droool ... choke .,. gag .. choke .. suck .... suck .. gag ... suck ... "good girl!"

knows that wont be any help to the uninitiated ..

LMAO!! That sounds very familiar!

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/6/2008 2:25:26 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

goes all wistful remembering a long weekend

... *choke .. pull back .. *WHACK* ... cough cough .. choke pull back *WHACK* ... snort .. droool.... choke ... pull back *WHACK WHACK WHACK* .. droool ... choke .,. gag .. choke .. suck .... suck .. gag ... suck ... "good girl!"

knows that wont be any help to the uninitiated ..

LMAO!! That sounds very familiar!

*laughs* yep, that's pretty much the way i do it too.

i've never understood the "breathe through your nose" advice...when something blocks the airway, it doesn't matter, the nose doesn't have it's own passage to the lungs. its more a matter of knowing you will get to breathe and taking advantage of those moments.

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/6/2008 3:19:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

goes all wistful remembering a long weekend

... *choke .. pull back .. *WHACK* ... cough cough .. choke pull back *WHACK* ... snort .. droool.... choke ... pull back *WHACK WHACK WHACK* .. droool ... choke .,. gag .. choke .. suck .... suck .. gag ... suck ... "good girl!"

knows that wont be any help to the uninitiated ..

Yep...this would be how I learned, too...lmfao!!!

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/6/2008 7:53:42 AM

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I go with Nike's advice just do it. Pratice with a real popsicle get used to haveing something in the back of you throat you might get used to it.

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/6/2008 8:52:09 AM

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Practice makes perfect.

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/6/2008 9:15:58 AM

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What is this breathe through the nose stuff? Gag, choke, tear up and nose starts to run, no way can I breathe through my nose once this starts. Hold my breath as long as possible, pull back and desperately get a new lungful of air before he yanks me back. Hell I can't breathe through my nose for 20 minutes afterwards either.

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/6/2008 9:22:28 AM

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I know I gag and tear up to too, I just let out breaths though my nose instead of out my mouth because he really doesn't let me let go of it until he is done.

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/6/2008 9:56:36 AM

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Some really great advice and links. I appreciate it. Keep it....uh....coming.

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RE: Proper deep-throat training - 3/6/2008 12:11:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Reposted:
Frankly, due to jaw problems and small mouth, I use my mouth only 30% of the time doing oral sex.

My generic method is to start with my hands- massage the cock, scratch the balls a bit, get the blood flowing so you can start to sense when it's getting hard.

Then I use my mouth to lick it gently, get it more sensitized and a bit wet. This is about the only time I put my mouth into the cock- when it's still only half hard and can fit easily, and I can roll my tongue around it inside.

After that, I keep my mouth almost completely on the head, which is the most sensitive, just licking and keeping saliva flowing so that my hands, which are doing all of the shaft work by stroking regularly. The fingers cover more area and are more manipulative than the tongue and you can keep the pace going much better than with your mouth alone.

So, teeth aren't a problem at all.

LA, an idle curiousity question...there are quite a few men who detest a hand on their cock during a blowjob...my Master for one, doesn't allow it under any circumstances...so what do you do when you come across someone like that? just refuse to do it?

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