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ShaktiSama -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/9/2008 10:33:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kittinSol I'm grateful for this link, and I shall keep it with me at all times. Yeah, it was a good general wake-up call of the behavior you can expect from certain people. I took particular notice of the "refuse to be ignored" tactic, and the insistence on dictating the terms of any discussion. That and "claim to be a feminist and dictate the terms of proper feminism"--another tactic worth noting. Boy, has that one gotten common these days!

Stephann -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/9/2008 10:39:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kittinSol I've noticed a definite misogynystic wind blowing through collarme these days... there's a small handfull of misfit Doms with an agenda who creep around the boards... I don't believe they are all part of the same fraternity, but they're effective when it comes to buggering up a thread; you know, the old male solidarity, us against the chicks, thump thump thump on the chest sort of thing... There's been a few of them running into delicate subjects like hippopothamus in a china shop. I believe their goal is sabotage: the thread on "men who clean get more sex" really fucked them off, and they were terribly excited by the one about international women's day... Hmmm ...I find the link to "spot the mis or dom" really a propos. These men in question proudly declare their misogyny, whilst trumpetting their domitude... I'm grateful for this link, and I shall keep it with me at all times. Cheers! Now now, don't confuse us chest thumping Doms with misogynists. I thump my chest as a means of scaring off the pansy weakling men who aren't really dominant, aggressive, or strong enough to merit tearing their throat or testicals out. It makes protecting my wimmens much easier. Just sayin. Stephan

aidan -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/9/2008 10:58:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Stephann quote: ORIGINAL: kittinSol I've noticed a definite misogynystic wind blowing through collarme these days... there's a small handfull of misfit Doms with an agenda who creep around the boards... I don't believe they are all part of the same fraternity, but they're effective when it comes to buggering up a thread; you know, the old male solidarity, us against the chicks, thump thump thump on the chest sort of thing... There's been a few of them running into delicate subjects like hippopothamus in a china shop. I believe their goal is sabotage: the thread on "men who clean get more sex" really fucked them off, and they were terribly excited by the one about international women's day... Hmmm ...I find the link to "spot the mis or dom" really a propos. These men in question proudly declare their misogyny, whilst trumpetting their domitude... I'm grateful for this link, and I shall keep it with me at all times. Cheers! Now now, don't confuse us chest thumping Doms with misogynists. I thump my chest as a means of scaring off the pansy weakling men who aren't really dominant, aggressive, or strong enough to merit tearing their throat or testicals out. It makes protecting my wimmens much easier. Just sayin. Stephan Dude, I'm a Ranger/Rogue. That isn't running away...That's flanking so I can come up from behind. Hard to thump and scream with a deflated lung [;)] I kid, I kid... It's scary, really, how many of these tactics my brother uses. I love the guy, but godsdamn...He is messed up when it comes to women. Which is weird, because his fiance is one of the strongest, most confident, most dominant young women I've ever met. I think it stems more from a general disdain for everything that walks on two legs then a hatred specifically for women. [>:]

BitaTruble -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/9/2008 11:24:27 PM)
~FR~ There have always been those who hate entire groups of people based on a single shared trait (skin color, religion, sexual orientation, gender etc.) Such ignorance can only be combated by educating our young and leading by example. That said, you can be a racist, a sexist, a misogynist et al and still be a competent dominant. None of those things are mutually exclusive as much as it pains me to admit it. Celeste

aidan -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 12:06:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble That said, you can be a racist, a sexist, a misogynist et al and still be a competent dominant. None of those things are mutually exclusive as much as it pains me to admit it. I have to disagree with you on that point, at least a portion of it. I think if you're trying to fashion yorself as a male dom, being a mysogynist is a severe handicap to that. It may be that we are at odds on what constitutes competance for a dominant. I feel that if you can't respect/appreciate/love your submissive as a human being first, you're not going to be terribly capable of taking care of them or even avoiding hurting them serverely.

BitaTruble -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 12:13:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: aidan I have to disagree with you on that point, at least a portion of it. I think if you're trying to fashion yorself as a male dom, being a mysogynist is a severe handicap to that. And how is it a handicap if you're gay? My stance is that they are not mutually exclusive, if your stance is that they are, we'll have to agree to disagree because, as I just pointed out, there are exceptions which prove the point. Not all submissives are female, not all male dominants are straight. Celeste

aidan -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 12:21:43 AM)
Fair enough point on the gay dom thing. One could take the argument a degree further and postulate that such views as misogyny and racism and the like are handicaps to being a compotent human being, which supercedes anything else. I mean, if you can't hack it at the general stuff, how are the more specific aspects going to fare?

Lordandmaster -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 12:36:18 AM)
A misogynist is someone who hates women. What kind of a dom hates women? I LOVE women. Every dom should own at least two.

BitaTruble -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 12:37:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: aidan Fair enough point on the gay dom thing. One could take the argument a degree further and postulate that such views as misogyny and racism and the like are handicaps to being a compotent human being, which supercedes anything else. I mean, if you can't hack it at the general stuff, how are the more specific aspects going to fare? I think you're talking about morals here, which are subjective and probably fodder for another thread. No matter how poor I might be in expressions of my humanity, there is nothing I can do which will change the fact that I'm a human and being human doesn't require competence, just the right mix of DNA. For that matter, competence is also subjective especially as it relates to personal relationships between people. What works for one may or may not work for another. Celeste

Justme696 -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 2:26:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster A misogynist is someone who hates women. What kind of a dom hates women? I LOVE women. Every dom should own at least two. lol I had to look the word up. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misogyny was this the original question; can misogynist be Doms? The op just gave us an opinion, not a question.

Goddess2002 -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 3:06:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stella41b I think there's an explanation for this which few people are prepared to admit. You must first cultivate stupidity and master it before learning wisdom. I'm by no means an expert but maturity in men appears to be unique and usually results when the obsession with their manhood is replaced by the growth of their soul. WOW...this is so true...great quote!

lally3 -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 3:17:52 AM)
ive certainly met a few, but they were vanillas. read the list and i dont think ive met a Dom with those attitudes, even the toxics ive spoken to on the net werent that crass or out of touch with the basic qualities of Domliness. submission v intractable just doesnt mix. lally

colouredin -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 3:19:08 AM)
FR I wanna say (again cos i can never leave a point alone) that a woman can be a mysogonist, I have met a few.

lally3 -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 3:48:08 AM)
submission v intractable just doesnt mix. sorry, strike that sentance - im talking rubbish again........

Level -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 4:19:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lally3 submission v intractable just doesnt mix. sorry, strike that sentance - im talking rubbish again........ Off to the nearest tree with you!

Dnomyar -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 4:57:49 AM)
Mmmm if women kept their mouths shut how would you get a blow job. I shudder to think what women with no feminity would be like. Butch women are not a turn on for me sexualy. Nice for friends tho.

lally3 -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 8:12:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: lally3 submission v intractable just doesnt mix. sorry, strike that sentance - im talking rubbish again........ Off to the nearest tree with you! from what i can make out most of the trees have already been taken!

persephonee -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 9:35:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThinkingKitten And where's the link to the description of a "weal" Dom? Oh wait, that would be a link to domiguy's profile right? [:D] i was gonna say.....smiles

sunshinedreams -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 9:56:40 AM)
When i went to that link, i could swear the author knows my ex husband. sunny[8D]

OmegaG -> RE: Misogynist or doms (3/10/2008 10:41:48 AM)
FR There is at least one self proclaimed mysogynist on this site. There were some extreme things he wanted to use a woman for (to which I said ewww-- literally) and he was disappointed that the only women that seemed interested in his antics were those that had mental imbalances and he wanted one that was mentally sound and didn't want to end her life.

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