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LATEXBABY64 -> What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 8:37:38 PM)
We all look at things very differently and react in very Different ways. I have often thought what would you do if your if while at a event or play party or other if someone made the movies on your sub dom domme how would you handle it. or would you care. After all we are only human

mbes -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 8:43:48 PM)
First step--- check to see if he's interested. The next step depends on the answer to the first.

SinergyNstrumpet -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 8:46:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64 We all look at things very differently and react in very Different ways. I have often thought what would you do if your if while at a event or play party or other if someone made the movies on your sub dom domme how would you handle it. or would you care. After all we are only human I would probably get very bent out of shape. I do not think my Daddy would much like someone putting moves on me either, but I would probably react more than he would. He has a jealous streak and he does not share me, but I am more jealous than he is[:D] He does not like other women calling him sir or master, but heaven help a female that called him Daddy in my presense... yes, I am a bit jealous[:'(] ~Sinergy's strumpet~

xxblushesxx -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 8:46:48 PM)
Be more specific in 'made the moves'. I can't answer a question that general. Did she...flirt coyly? I'd just let it go. Did she...start touching Him as they were speaking and staring into His eyes? I'd just get in there and start taking over. Did she invite Him to flog her and then screw her? She'd leave without eyes...

SinergyNstrumpet -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 8:49:24 PM)
quote: Did she invite Him to flog her and then screw her? She'd leave without eyes... Ha Ha

GreedyTop -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 8:49:53 PM)
my reaction would depend entirely on HIS reaction. (and yes.. if I feel someone is poaching.,.. their ass is seriously in the line of fire...LOL)

slaveluci -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 8:51:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64 We all look at things very differently and react in very Different ways. I have often thought what would you do if your if while at a event or play party or other if someone made the movies on your sub dom domme how would you handle it. or would you care. After all we are only human Well, we don't do "events" or "play parties," but if we were anywhere in general and someone "made moves" on Master, I wouldn't "handle it" in anyway. I would observe what happens, hope she's hot (for His sake) and hope He allows me to participate at some point (or at least watch)[:)]. There's no "handling" it on my part. I love for Him to be with others if it pleases Him and I love to be given permission to join in the mix. I'd probably be more interested in her than He is, to be honest. That's usually the case[;)]...........luci

YourhandMyAss -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 8:54:02 PM)
I hope that I'd be secure enough in our relationship not to care. I know my Daddy isn't interested in any one but me sexually, and would have no interest in taking someone up on any offers they made. And after he said no thanks not interested, there wouldn't be anything for me to deal with, we'd just go back to doing what we were already doing or was going to do. quote: ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64 We all look at things very differently and react in very Different ways. I have often thought what would you do if your if while at a event or play party or other if someone made the movies on your sub dom domme how would you handle it. or would you care. After all we are only human

LadyPact -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 8:57:31 PM)
This would probably be a better response if I would direct My husband to this post, rather than answering it Myself. He has to deal with other men being attracted to Me all of the time. This is over and above the fact that I have a current submissive. He and I have had rather long talks on the subject. He's well aware that anyone I casually play with doesn't stand a chance at any kind of casual sex. He trust Me, so that isn't an issue. In fact, it turns him on a bit when other males hit on Me, cause he knows what they might want, but I'm going home with him. Due to the way the question was raised, I'll do My best to attempt to answer for My sub as well. Again, he knows I play with others, but he knows his place as My collared submissive. I've assured him that no one will take his place at My feet, though I have known one or two who might like to. There's no problem for him when someone else hits on Me. It makes him grateful for his collar all the more.

Lashra -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 9:58:21 PM)
I'd let him handle it, he is a grown man and perfectly capable of handling the situation. ~Lashra

GreedyTop -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 10:06:46 PM)
I am going to elaborate on my answer, because reading it again, I realize Iwasn't exactly clear on what I meant. Iknow he can handle it. from the OP I'm extrapolating that the person hitting on my partner is not taking NO for an answer. let's face it.some DONT. At that point, I will say something. If my 'warning' doesnt make an impression.............................shrug the poacher continues at their own risk. I am very territorial when it comes to stuff like that.... I KNOW he can handle it..but unless he says otherwise, I WILL make the poiint to the poacher that he is OFF limits......

ownedgirlie -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 10:48:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveluci quote: ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64 We all look at things very differently and react in very Different ways. I have often thought what would you do if your if while at a event or play party or other if someone made the movies on your sub dom domme how would you handle it. or would you care. After all we are only human Well, we don't do "events" or "play parties," but if we were anywhere in general and someone "made moves" on Master, I wouldn't "handle it" in anyway. I would observe what happens, hope she's hot (for His sake) and hope He allows me to participate at some point (or at least watch)[:)]. There's no "handling" it on my part. I love for Him to be with others if it pleases Him and I love to be given permission to join in the mix. I'd probably be more interested in her than He is, to be honest. That's usually the case[;)]...........luci What she said.

junecleaver -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 10:58:57 PM)
Hm. Hope she would want to play with both of us. People flirting with him doesn't bother me. He owns me and he's taking me home at the end of the night. Flirting won't change that.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 11:06:09 PM)
I'd take note of her reaction to it...then explore if they'd be a good match for sex or play. I take care of my girl that way. Master Fire

MissMorrigan -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 11:14:00 PM)
Same here. I think jealousy only rears its head when people feel insecure regarding their partner. My boy goes out with his friends every few weeks and invariably there are females in their group who, due to excess alcohol, start hitting on the guys - including my boy. This does not bother me in the slightest as I trust him implicitly and know he's capable of dealing with the situation. If I ever had cause to feel insecure in a relationship I would exit post-haste. quote: ORIGINAL: Lashra I'd let him handle it, he is a grown man and perfectly capable of handling the situation. ~Lashra

Paulsgirl -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 11:21:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveluci quote: ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64 We all look at things very differently and react in very Different ways. I have often thought what would you do if your if while at a event or play party or other if someone made the movies on your sub dom domme how would you handle it. or would you care. After all we are only human Well, we don't do "events" or "play parties," but if we were anywhere in general and someone "made moves" on Master, I wouldn't "handle it" in anyway. I would observe what happens, hope she's hot (for His sake) and hope He allows me to participate at some point (or at least watch)[:)]. There's no "handling" it on my part. I love for Him to be with others if it pleases Him and I love to be given permission to join in the mix. I'd probably be more interested in her than He is, to be honest. That's usually the case[;)]...........luci ditto exactly the key points being 'if it pleases Him'......and 'if i am given permission to join in'....oh and i know i would be more interested in her than He is......huge smiles of satidfaction as i usually call them my bitches silently.......

SteelofUtah -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 11:25:20 PM)
See I WANT other people to want what I have I WANT others to LUST after my slave I WANT them to ENVY me. See to me this shows I have trained my girl well and that she is the object not only of MY desire but of others as well. I am a Flirt by Nature (Really???? NO!!!!) So andi learned quickly that flirting does not me I'll be fucking them in the parking lot. To Clearify I only do that when it is agreed on prior to the activity. As Always Steel

MissMorrigan -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/8/2008 11:35:32 PM)
I am in a committed mono relationship with my boy and have to say that a small part of me does get a minor kick out of it when another female hits on my boy.

SugarMyChurro -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/9/2008 12:21:31 AM)
I agree with Lashra. I trust my partner and don't otherwise give a fuck.

littlebitxxx -> RE: What Would you Do if your other was hit on (3/9/2008 12:21:57 AM)
I get a kick out of someone hitting on my man, mostly because he gets a kick out of it. And I have to laugh...fill yer boots there, honey, coz if you're trying to get with my man it means you're leaving yours all alone <wink> Flirt and caper and play all ya want, there's only 2 pairs of shoes under our bed, his and mine.

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