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My lil slut - 3/8/2008 9:32:04 PM

LadyPact

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If you're looking for an intellectual discussion, you might want to leave now. (Not to mention, the last post I just made put Me in this kind of mood.)

I was playing with My boy at home not too long ago. The fun turned a bit heated, and My sub's physical reaction couldn't be missed. He was in that wonderful place between desire and submission. Wanting, but not being allowed to have. I'm inclined to think he would have begged to serve Me even orally, if he thought he might be permitted.

As the level of sexual desire increased, I decided that I wanted to have a bit of fun with it. Just a dash of humiliation/degradation. Nothing terribly serious. Since I never attempt too much in these areas, without testing a little at a time, I went with something very simple, calling him My good little slut.

Actually, I was shocked at the response this simple phrase received. The hunger in him went up by somewhere around tenfold. Definitely a good reaction! Those few simple words drove him wild. I'm sure part of this was because by My own thrill of humiliating him just a bit. It was turning Me on a great deal and I know he could tell by the look in My eyes and My body language. Just that little bit of added verbal play was driving both of us crazy.

So, I'd like to hear from others what those kinds of little phrases do during your play. Does it make the sexual arousal more intense? Is it more the humiliation factor? Is it the power trip?

Inquiring, and stimulated, minds want to know.

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RE: My lil slut - 3/8/2008 9:33:05 PM

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Oh!
Sorry!
I saw the topic and thought someone was calling me...
erm...
I'll just be going now...

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RE: My lil slut - 3/8/2008 9:38:53 PM

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Isn't that amazing, Lady Pact? I was playing with a total newb, and let that phrase slip out, how he was obviously a total slut....and WHAM! Skyrocketing reaction. I am not a terribly verbal player, I think I am awful at talking dirty, and I was happy to see the results. I've been practicing more, and it is very enhancing to the experience.

I read on a lot of the guys' profiles that they are looking for their little slut, or wanting to help some gal find her inner slut......which makes me laugh, because hey! my slut knows where she is, thanks, and does not require assistance.... Apparently this is an area where men need permission of some sort, or at least encouragement.

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RE: My lil slut - 3/8/2008 9:43:20 PM

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When my Sir calls me His "lilslut", "Daddy's baby", or "Daddy's nasty lilgirl" Oh yes.... it definitely turns up the heat! Hearing His voice does something to me no matter what He's saying... mmmm

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RE: My lil slut - 3/8/2008 9:46:10 PM

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I thought this was going to be a thread about the next version of "My Lil Pony".

I do call my slave a filthy little slut and it seems to flick a switch in him!

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RE: My lil slut - 3/8/2008 9:52:38 PM

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i've never been called a pony *winks*

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RE: My lil slut - 3/8/2008 10:01:45 PM

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And we all know where I stand on the 'encouragement' issue! <wink>

Seriously, I think it has a lot to do with the way it was phrased. I don't think I would have gotten the same reaction had I said, "you're a little slut" or even "you horny slut". The difference was that I called him "MY slut". It's humiliation and the sense of ownership and power all in one.

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RE: My lil slut - 3/8/2008 10:03:45 PM

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My sub loves to be called slut or whore. These words just seem to hit his buttons and off he goes into sub/lust land. Hence why I chose the name of slutjack for him.

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RE: My lil slut - 3/8/2008 10:40:32 PM

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i could probably dig up old posts of mine to better explain, but its simple enough to just say being called things like a slut has a negative impact on me on a variety of reasons. i'm somewhat passive about it all, but it'll make me sulk long before it makes me happy to be called such things, especially considering who says them.

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RE: My lil slut - 3/9/2008 4:09:25 AM

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LadyPact the 1st time I called my boy my little slut he just melted. He said it made him feel both humiliated and proud at the same time. And now when I call it him he knows he is in for some fun its a term we love over here

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RE: My lil slut - 3/9/2008 7:02:31 AM

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My pet enjoys being called a little slut. I haven't asked him why, but I think it has to be with feeling desirable and building his confidence. After all, in order to be a "slut" he'd have to prove his sexual prowess. Plus, adding the "my little slut" reminds him that his owned. And too, I guess its the contrast in how he is viewed by others and how I view him.

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RE: My lil slut - 3/9/2008 7:18:59 AM

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Fox likes to be called a slut -- frankly it doesn't humiliate him at all because when I use it I'm generally referring to his wanting attention or acting sexy so it's a statement of fact, not a put down or belittlement.

He hates to be called a whore however -- he's mine and he won't sell it to anyone else unless I arrange it he tells me. So I don't call him that unless we are role playing and that's one of the roles.

Using any sort of "little" term is very arousing to him as well. I know that he'd love it if we could switch heights with me at 5'11" and him at 5'7" but we also know that's not possible. So he can kneel or stand on a lower step and get to feel that thrill for him. It really doesn't matter to me as long as he's not over 6' tall cause then I have to stand on my tippy toes too much or have him kneel too much I think.

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RE: My lil slut - 3/9/2008 7:44:13 AM

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As a submissive male, I do enjoy being called a 'slut'. The 'unfairness' of it all is what excites me I think. My Mistress (ladyjeelys) and I are engaged in the same kinky play and yet I am the one who is called a slut. This adds a strong power dynamic to the term. I also think that, given that the term 'slut' is most often applied to women, there is a humilation factor at work, almost as if I've 'surrended' my male right not to be called one.

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RE: My lil slut - 3/9/2008 7:53:05 AM

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I've only used this one with femme subs, and the fun was repetition; it's one thing for me call them "little slut", it's another to phrase it in the forrm of a question and have them gasp it out themselves: "Yes...I am...your little slut...".

Boom. Orgasmic mushroom cloud.

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RE: My lil slut - 3/9/2008 9:32:40 AM

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I'm fond of pretty much any diminuitive or belittling name that a woman I'm smitten with chooses to give me, so long as it's from a place of affection.

I love the word "slut", but it still does have a certain humiliation factor to it. My whole relationship to that concept is weird and tangled. But yes, slut still makes me all squirmy and purry, especially if it's "my slut".

Another favorite is anything to do with being a geek. Nerd, or dork, or geek or anything like that said with a smile and a seductive edge to the voice...Oh gods, I need to go change my underwear now.

And I've said it before, but the all-time knee-melting underwear-ruining keyword is still "good": Good slut, good puppy, good boy. I so, sooooo want to be good.

And as Shakti pointed out, the call-and-response method? That's fun

< Message edited by aidan -- 3/9/2008 9:33:59 AM >

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RE: My lil slut - 3/9/2008 9:36:11 AM

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There really is nothing better than being called My anything in the heat of passion. My slut, My bitch, My cunt, My whore and having to repeat it....ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

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RE: My lil slut - 3/9/2008 10:31:41 AM

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id call you but i dont have your #...YET...UGH...

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RE: My lil slut - 3/9/2008 10:32:53 AM

LadyHibiscus

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quote:

ORIGINAL: aidan

I'm fond of pretty much any diminuitive or belittling name that a woman I'm smitten with chooses to give me, so long as it's from a place of affection.

I love the word "slut", but it still does have a certain humiliation factor to it. My whole relationship to that concept is weird and tangled. But yes, slut still makes me all squirmy and purry, especially if it's "my slut".

Another favorite is anything to do with being a geek. Nerd, or dork, or geek or anything like that said with a smile and a seductive edge to the voice...Oh gods, I need to go change my underwear now.

And I've said it before, but the all-time knee-melting underwear-ruining keyword is still "good": Good slut, good puppy, good boy. I so, sooooo want to be good.

And as Shakti pointed out, the call-and-response method? That's fun

You ARE an adorable little geekboy!! You hunk of man-veal, you!

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RE: My lil slut - 3/9/2008 10:49:15 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

i've never been called a pony *winks*

<<<<<<< is a pony and a slut.

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RE: My lil slut - 3/9/2008 10:56:59 AM

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my mistress calls me her anal slut because she uses my ass whenever shes in the mood which is usually 2 times a week

first her strapons and then her fist ....love when she wears her boots with the big heals because she towers over me and with her wearing that 10 in strapon im all hers anyway she wants to take me

she has trained me well ..mal ..i swear her strapon skills and her fisting skills she has gotten into my head something fierce

love a lady in control ...mal

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