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RE: Am I allowed to love my Master? - 3/10/2008 7:30:29 PM

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its not really a mater of are you allowed to but can you. and yes you can love your Master/Dominant/Top. I'm married and have a Dominant and i love them both. my wife returns my love as does my Dominant. you don't have to get love in return from your M/D/T but when you do it is such a great thing taking you farther in your journey.
i usually have a hard time expressing my feelings so my M'Lady encourages me to verbalize them here and in my journal. just correctly request to state your feelings and go with it.

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RE: Am I allowed to love my Master? - 3/10/2008 8:01:49 PM

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Yes. Yes you can love him. And you SHOULD be able to talk to him about ANYTHING.

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RE: Am I allowed to love my Master? - 3/11/2008 9:25:38 AM

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Love is a powerful emotion that you should not push away, with out love and being allowed to love what good is there in this world. If you are unsure about anything, you should be asking your Master first. He will provide you with the answer you seek. Try to remember that how you express your love and how he will express his love, will be different. I think it is all in ones perception of what love is.

Should not push it away? But then, beating it in the face until it falls dead in your bath tub is a better way to handle it?

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RE: Am I allowed to love my Master? - 3/11/2008 9:45:56 AM

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But then I am meat. He doesn't want meat to be romantic .. He wants meat to be meat.

Can I put some salt and pepper on you and eat you?

charlotte

anytime slut .... promise to roast me a lil bit first though

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RE: Am I allowed to love my Master? - 3/11/2008 9:53:53 AM

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" But then I am meat. He doesn't want meat to be romantic .. He wants meat to be meat"

softness, i am not sure what you mean by that. can you explain?

sorry .. for the delay ... i didn't recheck my old posts

Meat = for me this means that before anything else, after anything else, beneath anything else ... I am just a piece of meat to him.

Yes He likes that I am intelligent, yes He enjoys the fact I am educated and travelled, yes He appreciates my ability to entertain Him and think for myself and be witty and full of humour... There will be times when all of those things are pleasing to Him, and He wouldn't have me any other way .. ever.

But none of that changes the fact that to Him, if all goes according to plan, I am simply a piece of meat that He owns, in the same way His car is a chunk of metal and His house is a pile of bricks. So He loves His car, it has quirks and personality, its a bit racy and complains on cold mornings, and there is a trick to getting the boot open (wow actually thats a really good metaphor for me) ... He loves that car, but as soon as it ceases to serve its primary purpose - of being a mode of transport, that car will get scrapped.

that is what I mean by being meat ... if it doesn't explain .. am sorry .. am not making much sense today

BACK TO THE THREAD!!!

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RE: Am I allowed to love my Master? - 3/11/2008 10:08:05 AM

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that is a very good analogy softness. Love is like the boundary between use and abuse. Although the word is sometimes tossed about like a ball.

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RE: Am I allowed to love my Master? - 3/11/2008 10:22:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: candisa

Love is a powerful emotion that you should not push away, with out love and being allowed to love what good is there in this world. If you are unsure about anything, you should be asking your Master first. He will provide you with the answer you seek. Try to remember that how you express your love and how he will express his love, will be different. I think it is all in ones perception of what love is.

Should not push it away? But then, beating it in the face until it falls dead in your bath tub is a better way to handle it?

If I were her, I'd report you, you dear sweet, Christian gentleman.

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RE: Am I allowed to love my Master? - 3/11/2008 1:12:52 PM

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Hi Softness,

"that is what I mean by being meat ... if it doesn't explain .. am sorry .. am not making much sense today "

yes, that is a good explanation.

really, that is what the core is underneath every relationship anyways, when you strip away the illusions. i don't have a problem with that definition.

at least things are clear and you know where you stand. pretty words can't prevent this from operating in most relationships anyways.

baby doll

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RE: Am I allowed to love my Master? - 3/11/2008 7:43:19 PM

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i cant imagine not loving my Master....it has made our relationship better. We were both afraid of the "L" word and avoided it. He told me he loved me and it took me a while to say it back. But it was there...we were sort of avoiding the elephant in the living room!

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RE: Am I allowed to love my Master? - 3/11/2008 11:00:40 PM

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i have always been one that has to be in love BEFORE i am able to serve. i would not see myself serving a person and making myself complete if i had no deep feelings for this person... that would be doing myself and Him more harm than good.

with His knowing you are new to this, i would assume that He would be more than willing to listen to your thoughts and feelings... when you began this relationship or even before it started, the two of you should have discussed what was expected on both parts.

seems that the best thing for you to do would be to speak to Him about what you are going through!

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RE: Am I allowed to love my Master? - 3/13/2008 8:06:24 AM

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hi and welcome. i'm older but have been in the lifejust a little over a year. i think the most important thing i've learned from Master is to always talk to Him about anything i have doubts or concerns . whether feelings or everyday life i'm expected to tell Him how i feel. my emotional health is as important as my physical health. and i do love Master . at 43 He's the only man i've ever loved.

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