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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 8:00:46 AM   
kittinSol


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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAHI3bH0rbc Memories... memories...

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 8:11:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Alcohol and BDSM don't mix.
Before I discovered great sex [at 18] I'd go to the bar every Friday with friends, then my priorities rearranged ;-)  Hmm, whispering in a guy's ear and roaring in orgasm in a guy's ass, or sitting in a smoky bar drinking and yelling to be heard --  cheque, please!
Only been drunk once, and I couldn't believe people pay all that money just to giggle and walk funny.  Probably something about my desiring to be in control at all times, too.
Sexually and sensuously touching another human is my mind-altering drug of choice ever since.

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 8:27:29 AM   
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Alcohol and BDSM don't mix.


I've had some of my nicest bdsm experiences while being nicely buzzed.

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 8:28:38 AM   
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< Message edited by RealityLicks -- 3/9/2008 8:38:26 AM >

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 8:30:01 AM   
RealityLicks


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Made me remember my girlriend at the time, tall, thin, always head to toe in leather but very, very sub and no-one we were around then could figure us out.

Did I just reminisce out loud?

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 8:33:30 AM   
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Alcohol and BDSM don't mix.


I've had some of my nicest bdsm experiences while being nicely buzzed.


Me too :)


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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 8:33:37 AM   
Aileen1968


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Did I just reminisce out loud?


Yes...twice. 

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 8:34:15 AM   
Passion357


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Alcohol and BDSM don't mix.


Greetings, All,

It has gotten to the point when I see the above statement, I automatically roll my eyes and say something like "Oh, please." Probably because the reasoning behind the statement, in my personal experience, is usually completely out of context. (Something no one in the entire conversation had mentioned) I had an aquaintance who would contstantly repeat, when alcohol was mentioned, "Alcohol and play do not mix." Ummm... NOBODY mentioned "play". No one said "I love it when Master (or Mistress) gets drunk and beats me"...

For my own experience: Master and I went out a few weeks ago and had a few drinks. We sat at the bar, had a few drinks, talked, laughed, and just had a good time. Later we went to a friends house to pick up the girl scout cookies he had ordered from her daughter. There we also sat and talked and laughed and had a good time. When we went home, same thing. We "mixed" quite well.

So I must ask now when I see this statement said when no one anywhere has mentioned BDSM and alcohol, but only alcohol and personal effects:

Why do you say this, Tantriqu?

Yep, I know this is a BDSM forum. But this is the Casual Banter/ Off Topic Discussion part, and that means this section does *not* have to automatically be about BDSM at all.

As for the OP:
On average I usually drink once or twice a month. After my frist drink, because I usually drink fast, I feel a little "loose". Just more relaxed and usually wanting to smile easier. On an empty stomach the alcohol usually hits me faster. But it also depends on how much alcohol is in the drink. How I act while drinking depends on my mood BEFORE drinking.
For instance... there is a story we simply call "Tequila Night" where I got so drunk I fell in public (which I never do because I, like many others, prefer to be much more in control of myself drunk or not), hit on some guy sitting next to me with ex sitting right beside me, and eventually passed out and don't remember much of the night. Before I got drunk I was very angry, wanted to fight, detested a certain person with a passion that made me sick.. so on and so forth.

The night I mentioned about BDSM and alcohol mixing: I was happy before. Master and I had had a wonderful night and just wanted to have a few drinks.

It definitely depends on the person. My mother, for example, gets angry no matter what she drinks, once she drinks a certain amount. (and it doesn't seem to matter her mood before hand)

What I would say about alcohol, though it's just for me personally:
Alcohol and Anger do not mix.

Well Wishes,
~Passion~

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 8:43:20 AM   
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As you can probably tell, I'm sipping a cold one while I write this.  Not that I think it has any dele.. delter del ... deletrious effect ...hic.. on me...

I juss like to type wit my face onnn the keyss... hic...  now an' agin...

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 9:14:18 AM   
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I also wouldn't be interested in someone [my last sub, dismissed] who'd get drunk a couple of times a week.  What a waste of time, money and braincells.

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 9:51:51 AM   
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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 9:58:59 AM   
Passion357


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

Alcohol changes the pain threshold for the sub and the pain-inflicting threshold for the Domme.



Greetings, Tantriqu,

Of course it does. But my question for you was, why did you even bring it up here when it had not been mentioned before? The OP had nothing to do with BDSM. What made you feel the need to say "alcohol and BDSM don't mix"?

Well Wishes,
~Passion~

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 10:26:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		The last time I got drunk was in 1989, when I was perturbed at a friend. Yah, I know, stupid reason. She had picked me up for a day of shopping, and I was wearing a sweatshirt and jeans. In the evening, we ended up at her house and a guy she liked showed up and they decided we should all go to a bar. So my friend puts on a cute outfit to go out, and I look like crap. They wouldn't go to my house for me to change clothes (and my friend was barely 5 ft tall and 100 pounds soaking wet, so borrowing something from her was out of the question), and they wouldn't drop me off at my house either (nice friend huh). Walking home, taxi, etc., was not an option (small town in Louisiana on the far side of a lake).

So my choice was sit in the car alone or go with them into the bar. It was really cold out, so I went in. There were only a handful of chicks in the bar, and tons of guys.  The jagermeister shots just kept appearing at our table, and I kept slamming them.

On day TWO of that hangover with no noticeable improvement, my friends got concerned and called my doctor, and well, the end result was that medically, they said I should not have lived past the first day of the hangover.

That was the last time I got drunk. And the last time I ever had jagermeister.

Now, I enjoy one drink occasionally, and if it's a really lightweight drink, like a wine cooler or even a glass of white wine, I might have two.  I tend to be a bit more direct under the influence of alcohol (I know, hard to believe I could be any more direct than I already am, but it's true), which can be a good thing or a bad thing.

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 10:48:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		I do not drink much. When I do drink I might have one or two drinks and then I stop. I often drink so slowly that I do not even feel any effect but a small amount of relaxation. When I get tipsy (the last time was when Daddy took me to Catalina and we went to the Catalina Catina for Mexican food and Cadilac Margaritas... omg how delicious those were!)I tend to get a little more giggly and laugh a lot. I do not drink past that point. I hate praying at the porcelain temple and hang overs. I haven't had one of those in many years.

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 10:49:39 AM   
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I also have played while drinking and enjoyed it immensely.

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 1:08:05 PM   
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I don't drink much anymore, but there is often a desire to. Hell, I never drank much..... preferred weed.
 
Whiskey makes me mean... and I have trouble knowing when to stop. It seems I go from "feeling great" to "dumbass" too quickly, there isn't much of a buffer zone between the two.



Yeah, but with Whisky, the distance between "Asshole" and "Passed out" is mercifully brief...

Beer Drunks can be assholes for hours before they pass out...



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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 1:11:22 PM   
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I don't drink much anymore, but there is often a desire to. Hell, I never drank much..... preferred weed.
 
Whiskey makes me mean... and I have trouble knowing when to stop. It seems I go from "feeling great" to "dumbass" too quickly, there isn't much of a buffer zone between the two.



Yeah, but with Whisky, the distance between "Asshole" and "Passed out" is mercifully brief...



Not with me it wasn't.

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 1:59:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I drink occasionally. Get drunk a few times a year. I hate to pay the price of a hangover...But there are those times...You combine the right people, time and place, and voila it's singing out loud at a bar time...My whole group is a "good" band of drinkers not an angry drunk in the lot...Just get happier, drunker and probably a bit louder...It makes us better people.

I enjoy all alcohol just like I do most foods. Stay primarily with beer but that depends on what and who I am doing...Big beers 9-15% alcohol can trip you up pretty quick and I tend to drink them like I am having a Rolling Rock.

Like the majority of folks I have a few drinks with friends just to relax enjoy their company and then go home.

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 4:29:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Passion357

Greetings, All,

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

Alcohol changes the pain threshold for the sub and the pain-inflicting threshold for the Domme.



Greetings, Tantriqu,

Of course it does. But my question for you was, why did you even bring it up here when it had not been mentioned before? What made you feel the need to say "alcohol and BDSM don't mix"?

Well Wishes,
~Passion~



Particularly since other people have discussed 'playing' on the thread, don't you think it's worth mentioning safety first?  Otherwise I'll check to be sure the thread doesn't start with 'OMG!!!  Don't mention sex!!'

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RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... - 3/9/2008 6:58:07 PM   
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"Nobody drinks to get smarter."

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