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RE: How do you know when you are in love? - 3/10/2008 7:29:40 AM

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She knows that I was refering to her pic.

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RE: How do you know when you are in love? - 3/10/2008 7:42:02 AM

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She knows that I was refering to her pic.

Wow you're awfully nice to him. So I should play fair and sit up straight before seeing where he looks?
Actually, he doesnt stare at the girls 24/7. But then again, he does have full acsess.

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RE: How do you know when you are in love? - 3/10/2008 7:47:00 AM

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Luscious sweetie, c'mere. WHAP WHAP WHAP. <-- smacks luscious in the head.

It doesn't matter if his kindness means he loves you, it doesn't matter if his kindness means he is KIND to you, it doesn't MATTERRRRRRRR. Now just shaddup and go give him a blowjob. Sheesh.

And some people say that I overthink things.

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I think there are two seperate issues-- falling in love and expressing love. I think falling in love is great. I think expressing love tends to muck up relationships. I know personally I tend to take forever between recognizing that I am in love and expressing it in words to my partner, though my actions definatly betray my feelings much earlier then the words do.

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RE: How do you know when you are in love? - 3/10/2008 8:52:12 AM

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<-- kisses for Omega.

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RE: How do you know when you are in love? - 3/10/2008 10:30:09 AM

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Mmm, what a good place to start with my first post. Good question. And the answers are good, too!

I am a very caring person. I will do all kinds of things for friends. I will go out of my way to help someone I care about. That does not mean I love them in in the sense you mean. I believe that there are various levels of love, due to my personal experiences. But then again, I'm not a typical male.

Cali has the right of it, as has been well recognized. Don't over think it. Stop thinking about it, in fact. Just enjoy what you have to the best of your ability. If you love him, that's fine. Express it through your submission and actions. The words are not necessary. I like to hear them, myself. I like to say them, too. But they are meaningless without actions to back them up.

It sounds like you have something wonderful growing. Nurish it with your actions. If it is love, he'll know soon enough. Better that he takes his time to be sure.

My first post here.

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RE: How do you know when you are in love? - 3/10/2008 10:39:13 AM

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I don't know that women tend to get more emotional than men quicker; I would say though that most women tend to 'announce' their feelings vocally much quicker than men do. ( Most, some; not all )

Or I should say that this is just what I have observed.

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RE: How do you know when you are in love? - 3/10/2008 12:48:05 PM

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Mmm, what a good place to start with my first post. Good question. And the answers are good, too!

I am a very caring person. I will do all kinds of things for friends. I will go out of my way to help someone I care about. That does not mean I love them in in the sense you mean. I believe that there are various levels of love, due to my personal experiences. But then again, I'm not a typical male.

Cali has the right of it, as has been well recognized. Don't over think it. Stop thinking about it, in fact. Just enjoy what you have to the best of your ability. If you love him, that's fine. Express it through your submission and actions. The words are not necessary. I like to hear them, myself. I like to say them, too. But they are meaningless without actions to back them up.

It sounds like you have something wonderful growing. Nurish it with your actions. If it is love, he'll know soon enough. Better that he takes his time to be sure.

My first post here.

I never said I was in love with him. I might be in the process of falling but I dont know what the signs are or how to know whether its real or not? I said I feel strong and developing emotions. I also am not sure what love is sometimes. Its easy to think you are, when you are in lust and in the infatuation phase of a relationship. But, what about the real thing? Thats what I was asking. I agree with those that say there are levels of love. I like the idea that you are following a recipie and have to mix the ingredients and then bake or simmer.

I do agree that I can express deepening emotion by being a good submissive. To say thank you for all he has done I have already cleaned his apartment, made him Chicken saltinbocca and gave him great sex and blowjobs. I will continue with this....

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RE: How do you know when you are in love? - 3/10/2008 9:11:37 PM

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For me it's easy if we don't admit it then if it does not work it makes it easier. We also don't like to be vulnerable and admitting things leaves us open to that.

Now that I said that, after two months I told my 2nd boy that I am starting to fall in love with him. But I have to say that I spent 7 years saying good bye to many different friends in different places as I or they moved on to someplace different or something happened to them. That made me understand that life is very short and I have to make the most of it. With that I have learned to say what I would not have said before while the person is with me as we never know what tomarrow will bring.

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RE: How do you know when you are in love? - 3/11/2008 12:49:47 AM

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very wise, Sir Mike

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RE: How do you know when you are in love? - 3/11/2008 2:13:55 AM

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Now that I said that, after two months I told my 2nd boy that I am starting to fall in love with him. But I have to say that I spent 7 years saying good bye to many different friends in different places as I or they moved on to someplace different or something happened to them. That made me understand that life is very short and I have to make the most of it. With that I have learned to say what I would not have said before while the person is with me as we never know what tomarrow will bring.

yes better say it now..then regret it later. And it is nice to see the other shine..when you say it to them.

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RE: How do you know when you are in love? - 3/11/2008 1:36:20 PM

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Now that I said that, after two months I told my 2nd boy that I am starting to fall in love with him. But I have to say that I spent 7 years saying good bye to many different friends in different places as I or they moved on to someplace different or something happened to them. That made me understand that life is very short and I have to make the most of it. With that I have learned to say what I would not have said before while the person is with me as we never know what tomarrow will bring.

yes better say it now..then regret it later. And it is nice to see the other shine..when you say it to them.

Well, yes. But you are coming from the position of Dominant. Likely to always get your submissive to smile from expressions of love. But from Submissive to Dominant. I dont know, the Dominant needs to feel in control of the timing, I think. It might be too much to soon.

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