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Firebirdseeking -> A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 4:32:31 AM)
a 900 number for phone sex. I just wanted and needed to say this. There are men on this site that think because we subs want and need to please, that means you can do any thing or say anything to us. WRONG. A submissive deserves the same respect that you want.

hopelessfool -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 4:39:20 AM)
Firebird, welcome to the online life of trolls, you get them on any site D/s vanilla, bi, gay... Try taking the part that you are new to the life out of your profile, for the ones that actually read profiles, its like painting a pretty red target on your back. New equates in their mind as easy prey, they dont know whats going on it will be easy to trick. Other then that, people see a pretty photo, they message you, they see that you have breasts, they message you, they see you live in their state, they message you. They have little regard for your wants or feelings just their need to get off. Im sorry your having bad luck and hope it gets better.. Also If you dont want someone with a particular item, Ie, no profile, an age, a gender, use your mail controls. Other then that if they get hinky, simply ask them not to message you or put them on ignore. Edited to add: Also, something that might be better when sending and email, Lines like So What can I do for you How was your day What are you doing I need to clean the litter box These can all make trolls think you want to serve them, advoid them at all costs.

softness -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 4:39:49 AM)
well said .... but also ... its going to happen ... we are hot thinming .. feeling members of the fairer sex who by definition of being on a site like this are displaying a higher than usual sexual self udnerstanding can we really blame them for being likes moths to a flame ... or lambs to slaughter ... yea .. likes lambs to the slaughter better

Dnomyar -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 4:39:57 AM)
Sounds like someone got their nose bent out of shape. Actualy some submissives are whores.

colouredin -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 4:41:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Sounds like someone got their nose bent out of shape. Actualy some submissives are whores. I had to delete what i was writing :(

hopelessfool -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 4:42:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Sounds like someone got their nose bent out of shape. Actualy some submissives are whores. I know Im not a whore, Im a slut, I never get paid except in creamy goodness, ^_^ but I think shes refering to being over trolled, and not her enjoyment of sex, cock, or the male gender -sighs-

MissLily -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 4:45:01 AM)
Yes Firebird, I'm sorry you're angry and got contacted by pros, but it's part of the game here... And My lil' boys really ARE sluts and whores... They love it and I love them for it. Take courage and don't forget that many of us aren't pros. Miss Lily

lronitulstahp -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 4:46:41 AM)
quote: Actualy some submissives are whores. The Man does have a point. There are some subs that enjoy the whole" being used by strangers" vibe...i even dabble in it from time to time, when bored...i think wankers are HILARIOUS!!!! The difference being, some girls really think they have to submit to these guys that demand phone sex from the first 30 second CM chat. But even those girls have a path to take. How can one learn, if they never feel the burn?LOL

Dnomyar -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 4:53:40 AM)
Thank you Iron. Im just speaking from experience. Op if you read these post you will see that crap happens. You have to put it behind you and not let it eat you up.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 4:54:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Sounds like someone got their nose bent out of shape. Actualy some submissives are whores. only depends on to WHOM i'm a whore for OP, this happened to me many times before with messages from "on your knees, suck my cock and call me master" to " you deserve a spanking because you disrespected me and didn't call me Sir in your reply" to "your Daddy isn't real" etc. ignore, delete and block are you best friends.

Lashra -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 4:54:27 AM)
Your right, a person shouldn't automatically awesome because a person is submissive that they are a slut or a whore. Respect is in short supply these days unfortunately. Personally I can't imagine sending someone I don't know a message calling them a whore or demanding their submission. To me only assholes do that and I try not to be an asshole. ~Lashra

Gwynvyd -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 5:00:17 AM)
The Goddess Ignora has bequeathed to her beauteous subs the Altar of Blockage. The Altar of Blockage is your friend. It is your responsibility as a good servant of the Goddess to sacrifice these idiots on the Altar of Blockage. When these trolls bug you they are secretly praying to the Godess Ignora. They just do not know it. It is your duty to carry out the Great Goddess' will! Iggy away. Some men do not understand that " on your knees now Bitch" just does not get it for 99% of us. It is not our mating call... nor is "ya wanna fuck" Nor " I will be any thing you want Mistress... I am but a lowly worm.. blah blah blah" wretch ( 1st message BTW ) it is the net.. there are some socialy challanged mother fuckers out there.. Iggy them and move on. There are some also wonderful people out there I have great friendships with and love dearly from here. YMMV. Not that the wankers read profiles.. but I had "I might be a submissive but I am not your submisive, please be respectful in all corospondance." listed on mine waaaaaaaaaaay back when. Gwyn, Now with 35% more cursing. LOL So sue me I am still sick and in pain... any one would get testy after 2 full months of this crap. chuckles

LilMissHaven -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 5:12:16 AM)
~laugh~ and delete Save your energy for the One that matters ~winks~ Cause truth be told your going to find idiots in every walk of life that don't understand any relationship should be based on mutual respect. Or you can be like me and develop a sense of humour about it. I was once stopped at a bar and told "I'm gonna fuck you so hard your grandma is going to cum" Now the instant mental image of my grandmother experiancing an orgasm in the grave ~turns green~ there are just some places the mind should never go. So, in the loudest voice I could muster I started praying for this poor social deviant, slapping my hand over his genitalia and head and for emphasis I slapped him a few times over the head with my "bible" which was actually my A&P book. It didn't take him long to realize I wasn't the girl for him he wondered off and amazingly I didn't have to buy myself one drink that night ~winks~ My favorite saying and I honestly can't remember where I've seen it is... Life happens, write the rules as you go Find the humour it will cut your stress level, trust me.

charmdpetKeira -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 5:14:57 AM)
~fr~ I was once perplexed in a similar a manner over a message I received on the other side, so I asked here on the boards, how others took the message. I was asked, by another poster, why I was letting the words of a complete stranger bother me. I wasn’t able to answer that question completely, until I realized, it is the validity I put into someone else’s statements that gives them weight. Without that, their words are just groups of letters; scribble. k

Justme696 -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 5:38:35 AM)
for me whores give payed service...and sluts free service. (not that much difference....lol....but the extra money sounds attractive grin)) If you don't state it in your profile..no one has the right to call it that. YOu can eitherworry about it..or ignore it..and block hide the person (or report)

crouchingtigress -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 5:46:01 AM)
you say whore like it is a bad thing. whores can be healers, teachers, confidants, friends, clowns, and many other things...they provide a service, their work is important, and has been important since the dawn of time. just sayin'

Owner4SexSlave -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 5:46:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softness well said .... but also ... its going to happen ... we are hot thinming .. feeling members of the fairer sex who by definition of being on a site like this are displaying a higher than usual sexual self udnerstanding can we really blame them for being likes moths to a flame ... or lambs to slaughter ... yea .. likes lambs to the slaughter better Ohh goodie goodie more fuckmeat to hang on the hooks... nothing like a rack of fresh tasty lambs. hahaha

Owner4SexSlave -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 5:49:23 AM)
There's a big difference between an easy whore slut and one that has at least some standards you know.

bloodandchains -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 5:49:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress you say whore like it is a bad thing. whores can be healers, teachers, confidants, friends, clowns, and many other things...they provide a service, their work is important, and has been important since the dawn of time. just sayin' precisely whores (myself) are just good friends lol

Justme696 -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 5:53:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress you say whore like it is a bad thing. whores can be healers, teachers, confidants, friends, clowns, and many other things...they provide a service, their work is important, and has been important since the dawn of time. just sayin' how can one say whore as a bad thing? (is there a softer way to spell it?) Yes I know how important they are...prostitution is legal here...and I am glad they are here. edit actually ..I said..whores are smarter..they get money for it ;) Taxi drivers can be healers too...so that doesn't mean whore, teachers, dentists are more special or less special.

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