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SinergyNstrumpet -> RE: Was I ignored and stood up??? (3/12/2008 8:32:28 AM)
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Well there's a bit more... He never even looked at my CM letters. AnD emailed back a friend but not me.... read her emails and skipped mine. SO I am done. I sent him a lovely note back... Said:
, It's ok... Life goes on... So do I...
CAN YOU SAY "NEXT"????? I will find what i am looking for or DIE trying! My ego may get bruised and my heart bruised with it but I KNOW i'll get what i want...
You know, when people have acted like that, I tend to think they are not interested in me anymore for whatever reason and I wish them well and move on. I do not look for the reasons as to why this has occurred, I do not ask them to explain themselves... I just figure that they were not the one for me. I suppose I do not think there is any need for any sort of explanation unless there is a real relationship there, and even then I take that explanation with a grain of salt.
People have a hard time rejecting others, especially if that person they are rejecting is someone they think is nice, but just doesn't do it for them. It may not be very "domly" to take a powder like that, and waste your time like that (by setting up tentative plans and not following through without letting you know he lost interest), but there are worse crimes in this world.
I kinda agree with some of the commentary here, you seem to be reacting too much for the amount of time you have spent with this person. I remember when my Daddy and I first were emailing there was a woman that he had lunch with shortly before he had contacted me. He gave her a small kiss goodbye and left the lunch. He had communicated as a friend online for a while, wished to keep her as a friend, but she flipped out when he did not return her feelings. She attempted to force a confrontation. She ended up with no friendship at all. He just thought her to border on a stalker.
Now you had a few nice meals with a person that you enjoyed yourself with. It did not work out, but you still had a few enjoyable moments... why would that hurt your ego? 99% of men out there are not someone I would ever want to be involved with, why should I be hurt because men have the same standards that they apply? Why should you allow what one man wants or doesn't want to impact your self esteem? It shouldn't
julia
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