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LATEXBABY64 -> Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:09:19 AM)
when in ds relationship. we talk about balanced relationships and unbalanced if you take your relationship even as unique as you might think it is to others. how would compare standards of what it was when it started to where it is now. Or if your in between doms dommes or subs or other or so on. how do you compare the growth of those you have had to the one you may have or having

SinergyNstrumpet -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:17:36 AM)
quote: when in ds relationship. we talk about balanced relationships and unbalanced if you take your relationship even as unique as you might think it is to others. how would compare standards of what it was when it started to where it is now. If I am understanding the question, you are asking if those of us with a relationship if we consider it balanced compared to how it started? I will wait to reply until I know what you are asking... julia

camille65 -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:19:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SinergyNstrumpet quote: when in ds relationship. we talk about balanced relationships and unbalanced if you take your relationship even as unique as you might think it is to others. how would compare standards of what it was when it started to where it is now. If I am understanding the question, you are asking if those of us with a relationship if we consider it balanced compared to how it started? I will wait to reply until I know what you are asking... julia Whew, I was worried that I was the only one unable to parse that.

stef -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:27:16 AM)
I think you need to drink from random bottles under the kitchen sink before you'll ever be able to understand what latexbaby comes up with. ~stef

kc692 -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:29:18 AM)
???? My only question is, what language do I need to try to learn to understand the question?

Jeffff -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:29:26 AM)
[:D] Jeff

colouredin -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:34:08 AM)
*joining the list of people who dont get it

Chloelicious -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:38:29 AM)
All i wonder it is: If a fish tank had met a firefighter would it be a fishtank anymore? Can you see what I mean?????? duh *Edited cause it is not an answer to colouredin but the OP

OmegaG -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:43:20 AM)
are you asking if I've evolved over the course of time? Nope, I am placed in a cryogenic freeze until needed.

Youresomine -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:44:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64 when in ds relationship. we talk about balanced relationships and unbalanced if you take your relationship even as unique as you might think it is to others. how would compare standards of what it was when it started to where it is now. Or if your in between doms dommes or subs or other or so on. how do you compare the growth of those you have had to the one you may have or having I think he wants to know how people feel they have grown in their BDSM relationships. how perhaps the balance has shifted or evolved over time both within the relationships and from one relationship to the next. To answer that question for me....I seem to become more and more dominant with each new relationship, but I do find that I allow my submissive side out more the longer I am in a relationship.

MasterWilliam55 -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:45:29 AM)
I'll join the group who have no idea what the OP is going on about.

Daddyslilpookie -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:48:51 AM)
I agree here... trying to understand what he is saying but I can't and it is triggering a migraine[:@] I better just stop..

RCdc -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:54:46 AM)
Every relationship evolves. Ours began from a non BDSM standpoint and obviously our paths altered accordingly with the depth of the relationship. Compromise happens in a healthy relationship - not just centred around BDSM. the.dark.

CalifChick -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 8:57:12 AM)
Let me help: A simple statement should consist of: Noun, verb, object of the verb. Example: I have a balanced relationship. A simple question should consist of: Interrogative, independent clause. Example: Do you have a balanced relationship? Cali

RCdc -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 9:04:28 AM)
It's not an easy post to understand I admit, but if people are 'clever' enough to post random insults or be condecending then people are clever enough to see that LB has learning difficulties in his written work. But yay - if it makes you happy. the.dark.

Chloelicious -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 9:10:25 AM)
Darcy Well at least when you ask a question to a numorous number of people, you are trying to make it understandable; that is why we pick on the OP.Sorry if we sounded condescending.OP's need to remember that some of CM members are not using their mother tongue so need clear and sensed questions.

OmegaG -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 9:15:57 AM)
I'm obviously in a mood today. On a more serious note then my last reply, I think that everyone evolves within or without a relationship, and since no two people are going to evolve in the exact same direction at the same time. So with that said, even the healthiest of relationships will go through periods of unbalance, the ones that go the distance can communicate and compromise their way through those periods.

Youresomine -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 9:19:35 AM)
Darcy...Yes, you are correct.

RCdc -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 9:20:48 AM)
Chloe. I get that the site is multi ethnic. Some people don't and ridicule some posters without even looking at their profiles. And if you have learning difficulties and are brave enough to post on a forum, you get ridiculed as well. It might look ok to him. I have a dear friend on here who is major dyslexic and when they post I have seen people take the piss automatically without even thinking what could be behind a posters mistypes, spellings or mixed up words. But to my friend, what they write looks absolutely fine. Everyones so quick, especially when its a poster who may talk big and doesn't follow the sheep. If people are so clever to come up with witty pokes, then they are clever enough to read the question and understand whats being said. the.dark.

Chloelicious -> RE: Bdsm compromise (3/12/2008 9:29:27 AM)
Darcy, Point taken and respected but on the other hand: Apparently this poster does not "look" dyslexic" to me but I can be wrong. Many poster seems to have problem with: punctuation, paragraphs, syntax. There is an edit button so after reading back your post and it "sounds" odd to you, you try to correct it. At least the OP seem to read our comments (he was on the discussion file) and did'nt clear it up Yet chloé Readers please excuse me for my bad english,won't be flamed !!!!!

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