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tecara -> Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 9:58:24 AM)

We are slowly exploring the DaddyDom/babygirl lifestyle and find it fits us very well. My problem is the term "Daddy". I was wondering have others had an issue with that, if so how did you solve it? Do you use other terms? if so what??

Thanks for your help. Also anyone who lives this lifestyle and would like to chat I'd love the oppertunity to pick your brain <smiles>

tecara



colouredin -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:10:00 AM)

I personally have never been involved with age play, but I heard some advice before, you could try using a forign word for daddy

papa
Vati
папа

for example







Shawn1066 -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:11:50 AM)

Well, I guess this kind of relates...  I call my Owner "Mommy" from time to time,  as term of affection.  Since she does not age play with me.

My actual Mother has always been "Momma"

The difference on the ending is a -huge- difference for me.  I would -never- call them the same thing.  That'd squick me out.

DV's Fox



ThundersCry -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:12:23 AM)

I have never looked at it as age play...
 
Some understand...some don`t...
 
How about *come to PaPa instead* <grins>
 
Hope you find what works for you both...



kittinSol -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:13:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: colouredin

папа



I thought "nana" was for granny. I learn everyday [:D] .



colouredin -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:14:28 AM)

Tis russian :P



kittinSol -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:15:59 AM)

I always liked "Ta-tee".



GreedyTop -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:17:07 AM)

Pere
Papi
Da



daddyncherry -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:17:08 AM)

i live that life, as many others do but not in an age play type dynamic, though there are times when i am allowed to be "little".....For me/Us it is more of the fact the Daddy guides me and teaches me.

Are you or your Master wanting to make it more of an age play dynamic? Because Daddy doesn't always, or even usually, mean age play.



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:40:43 AM)

When I was still switching I used to call my daddy-type Tato, which is Ukrainian for "Daddy," although I admit I did use the English counterpart quite a lot as well.

It never really bothered me too badly, which is surprising given my background with my own father... but I never called him "daddy," only "dad" or "miserable prick bastard," so I guess it's that differentiation that makes it easier.



hopelessfool -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:42:17 AM)

I agree with cherry, Daddy does not always mean someone who is into age play. I often wither asked or not slip and call the D type Daddy. I call them this when they resemble certian actions that my father would do that cause me to respect them. My dad was a wonderful man. He taught me what was right and what was wrong in His house. My owner should do the same for me, otherwise if we are in a D/s live in situation, how am I do know that the toaster is offlimits from 5 am to 7 am? Also my Dad always pushed me to strive and do better to learn. Many good qualities of what I believe a good Dom should be like. I know its hard at first I also had a problem with it. It just takes time and practice, you can try other words for daddy, or you while your alone (people mocked me if I did it in public) repeat to yourself, 'Its just a word, Daddy finds it pleasing, Its no big deal. Daddy wants it, Daddy should get it....' repeating it tends to help let it sink in. It also worked for me with Sir, and Master



colouredin -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:50:43 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: hopelessfool
I know its hard at first I also had a problem with it. It just takes time and practice, you can try other words for daddy, or you while your alone (people mocked me if I did it in public) repeat to yourself, 'Its just a word, Daddy finds it pleasing, Its no big deal. Daddy wants it, Daddy should get it....' repeating it tends to help let it sink in. It also worked for me with Sir, and Master


We dont know WHY she doesnt want to use it, and if she doesnt want to she doesnt have to, there is no right/wrong way to do it, if you dont like the word dont use it, try something else you dont have to force yourself into it. I know I personally wouldnt want to thats just me, i wouldnt 'practice' i just wouldnt use it. If you want a differant term, you can use any that people have mentioned or talk to you Dominant and see what works for you.

ps, the op didnt say that Daddy was only used in age play simply that her dynamic is DaddyDom/baby girl.



Daddyslilpookie -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:51:08 AM)

We are the same way we do not engage in age play like me act like a baby but he is my Daddy he guides me and protects me I am his other little girl, besides our little girl "our daughter" plus my Daddy is 13 years older than I am[;)]  



Dnomyar -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 10:54:50 AM)

Lol. If your involved with me it would be considered age play.



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 11:01:42 AM)

i could....um....er.....be your mommy.... [:D]  never done the age play either...nor have i been Dom... [:D]

stalk stalk stalk....



SteelofUtah -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 11:02:01 AM)

In the world of Kink I have heard Mister used alot.

As in "Hey Mister." or "Excuse me Mister"

It does expect some sort of age play.

However I do wish to express that Not all Daddy/LittleGurls-girls engage in Age play as it can be defined as a fetish I know many who the dynamic of thier relationship is that of a Fatherly FIGURE and an Impressionable young mind.

Mister however just comes across as a 5 year old asking me to help him get his frisbee or kite outta a tree.

Just me.

As Always

Steel



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 11:06:34 AM)

In one of the kate forsythe fanatsy novels they called their dad dadine.



colouredin -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 11:14:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

However I do wish to express that Not all Daddy/LittleGurls-girls engage in Age play as it can be defined as a fetish I know many who the dynamic of thier relationship is that of a Fatherly FIGURE and an Impressionable young mind.




Ok right now is this all just being really really pedantic? I read up about age play cos its pretty much an umbrella term like BDSM is, it said age play can be anything from refering to someone as Daddy to age regression to either specific on non specific terms.

Basically I just want to get this right, when people use the word age play here are they simply refering to the specific age regression thing? becuase I am a little tiny bit confused. I always assumed age play was the wider definition at least thats how people have used it around me before.



SinergyNstrumpet -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 11:19:22 AM)

It took me some time to get used to calling Sinergy "Daddy", and now that I have gotten used to it, it comes very easily and more naturally than "Sir" and "master" ever did. I was watching 9 1/2 weeks recently and in the movie he tells her "Spread your legs for daddy". Just the way he said it made me so hot...

julia



SteelofUtah -> RE: Daddy by any other name... (3/12/2008 11:19:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: colouredin

quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

However I do wish to express that Not all Daddy/LittleGurls-girls engage in Age play as it can be defined as a fetish I know many who the dynamic of thier relationship is that of a Fatherly FIGURE and an Impressionable young mind.




Ok right now is this all just being really really pedantic? I read up about age play cos its pretty much an umbrella term like BDSM is, it said age play can be anything from refering to someone as Daddy to age regression to either specific on non specific terms.

Basically I just want to get this right, when people use the word age play here are they simply refering to the specific age regression thing? becuase I am a little tiny bit confused. I always assumed age play was the wider definition at least thats how people have used it around me before.



One thing you can never get from me is a straight answer on a definition question.

They don't Exist. Anyone who has one only has the one THEY subscribe to.

I see Age Play as "Play" I see A D/lg as a relationship Dynamic. That is ME PERSONALLY. However I know MANY MANY MANY people who would disagree with me. It seemed as though the term were getting a Blanket responce to Age "Play" and I wanted to address that not All D/lg relationships revolve around the PLAY aspect some are simply a single dynamic.

I believe this should be filed as "Your Milage May Vary"

As Always

Steel



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