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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Apparently anybody can use the term as long as they aren't heterosexual exclusively.

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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

may as well make an appearance as myself

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ORIGINAL: sassysexygirl

google is our friend ~~

Boi (plural: bois) is a term used within the lesbian community to denote a submissive butch in the BDSM community and a young butch in the butch-femme community.[1] It is also used as a term of endearment for butches by femmes.[1] It may also be used in the gay community to refer to a young-appearing (or relatively young) bisexual or gay male, especially one who has effeminate characteristics.[1] The term can also be used by anyone who wishes to distinguish from heterosexual or heteronormative identities.[1] The term is commonly used by those who are female to male transgendered as well.[1]
It may also refer to a female-born or female-bodied person—sometimes transsexual, transgendered, or intersexed, sometimes not—that generally does not identify as, or only partially identifies as feminine, female, a girl, or a woman. Some "bois" identify as one or more of these, but they almost always identify as lesbians, dykes, or queers. Many are also genderqueer or practice genderfuck. Bois may prefer a range of pronouns, including "he", "she", or gender-neutral pronouns such as "hir", "sie", "zie", and "ey".[2] The term has found increasing usage in the larger LGBT culture


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