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domahpet -> Support this girl! (3/14/2008 12:21:04 PM)

 
next saturday im going to beg a collar from my dom.
hes known ive been wanting this from him and has given me permission.
i think he is ready.
one thing, he isnt a DOM, as in he dosent call himself such, or put up
any fronts. he just is (still with me?). simply, he has what i need, and im willing to deal
with any lack of 'experience'.

ive been collared once before but i didnt beg for it, it was given.
i know he can care for me, guide me and give me what i need, also
that we will have alot of bumps on
our road, this being his first time 'formally' and all.
i have alot to say, but im not sure if it will be appropriate to say it all
during this time. hes also told me to keep it short.
im trying to outline it in my head, and struggling with it.
i want to offer support without seeming too on top about it,
and let him know i will do anything within my power for him.

im excited and worried at the same time lol.
anybody have anything to add that either of us might find helpfull?
ive already done the search, so L.A. you can relax this time ;)
(actually i found a thread on the subject with your links and read them all lol)
itd be appreciated :)

edited to invite the hidden members to please comment too...







sirsholly -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 12:27:19 PM)

nothing to add...just wishing you luck and sending a hug.




lusciouslips19 -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 12:29:01 PM)

Congratulations. How about writing a poem or explaining in a song. You are good at scoping songs. You could probably say anything you want. If he is not a Typical Dom. My sir isnt either. I can say anything I desire and will get an honest answer. Sounds like you have nothing to worry about.




ThundersCry -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 12:32:25 PM)

Congrats...
 
What a man...one who does not walk around calling himself *this or that*...
 
The best to you both...
 
Daniel




littleone35 -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 12:34:45 PM)

Congrats Master and i wish you all the best.

Matt's littleone




sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 1:19:30 PM)

Congrats and well wishes to you both.




colouredin -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 1:25:54 PM)

congrats hunny :D good luck with it




Daddyslilpookie -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 2:07:02 PM)

Congrats to you[:)], I wish you well on your journey together.




softness -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 2:46:17 PM)

be honest ... greatest things you can say are what you say in moments of perfect honesty with the One you love

keep it simple ... dont overstate ... often a degree of rawness has as much charm as a polished speach


*goes and is sick quietly to herself in the corner ,... why did i get so sappy*




beargonewild -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 3:05:13 PM)

Congrats to you and wish you all the best  :-)
The only thing I can say when you do beg for his collar, is to speak from your heart and you won't go wrong! I believe it's not how well you state your reasons but letting the passion and desire come through in your words that's most important.




Leatherist -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 3:06:48 PM)

Nice.
 
Make it last.




sweetwenchie -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 3:07:40 PM)

Congratulations!!  You deserve to be happy and well loved sweets!

ummmm no real decent advice to offer, i suck at coming up with this kind of stuff.  In the past i've had a rough idea in my mind of what to say, and let the words come as they would at the moment.  




domahpet -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 3:38:51 PM)

the rough idea, check.
i got that part ready lol.
i got that, but im so anal
it has to be perfect, even if i do read
it off of a piece of paper!
im scared im gonna fumble, trip
over my tongue, and make some kina fool
out of myself, i reallly hate doing that :(




colouredin -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 3:41:59 PM)

Does it matter if you stumble? he isnt going to be less impressed, just speak from your heart, it will be fine (if you stress too much you increase the chances of tripping over and landing on your ass :P )




sweetwenchie -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 4:05:36 PM)

lol  oh i can understand that worry completely, but as i feel like a fool 99% of the time i figure what the heck.  If he likes me the way i am, flaws and all, hopefully he will be touched by my words and the emotions and thoughts behind them.

Good luck to you domah, i hope it goes flawlessly!




mnottertail -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 4:09:58 PM)

OK, domah.........reality check......

You are fat, stupid, ugly, your feet stink, you don't love jesus and you fart.

You got nothin' goin' for you.

Whats not to love girl?  You are just like one of the guys.

Hey!!!!! You will do fine, and I am sure your pleadings will bring tears to his eyes, a softness to his heart, and a swelling of his love for you.

Don't worry about what you ain't, consider what you can be; a force!!!!!!!

Go get 'em tiger.

Ron

ps. you fuckin' snore too.............. 




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 4:33:21 PM)

Keep expectations and standards in check.




lusciouslips19 -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 4:34:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

OK, domah.........reality check......

You are fat, stupid, ugly, your feet stink, you don't love jesus and you fart.

You got nothin' goin' for you.

Whats not to love girl?  You are just like one of the guys.

Hey!!!!! You will do fine, and I am sure your pleadings will bring tears to his eyes, a softness to his heart, and a swelling of his love for you.

Don't worry about what you ain't, consider what you can be; a force!!!!!!!

Go get 'em tiger.
.
Ron

ps. you fuckin' snore too.............. 


OK, Mnottertail, I think I love you now!




trueshadow -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 4:35:32 PM)

You're going to ask for a collar from someone who isn't a Dom and doesn't call himself one?  You sound as you are a sub in a pretty much vanilla relationship.

Just go out and buy yourself a collar and wear it, and pretend it's from him.

Then just go on and enjoy yourself with him.




mnottertail -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 5:01:58 PM)

Yanno, I WAS GONNA say that is pretty much not the case..........but upon reflection........


Ja!!! Kick that fucker to the curb, domahpet!!!! Fuck him and him riding your horsey ass!!!!


Ron 




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