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RE: First Scene - 3/16/2008 5:34:49 AM

Littlepita

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We just recently celebrated our two years of living together and were talking about our first time playing together. It was after spending 10 months together online and the phone before we had our first face to face play scene, in our new apartment.

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RE: First Scene - 3/16/2008 5:43:08 AM

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Master and i had emailed and chatted on msn for three months which progressed to phone calls and a few meets over the next three months, so all in all it was six months.

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RE: First Scene - 3/16/2008 10:11:51 AM

denika

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I met Wolf in January at a public event, *s* I was rather smitten with him, lol I offered him and his wife gummie worms and cookies as my way of flirting lol since I was a bit shy. We talked over the net and got to be friends, he also has the patients of Job

The first time we played was in October of that same year. I finally made the descision to move forward and I did it by pushing his buttons, it was a bit bratty, but not rude bratty. How I chose to finally take that step wasn't a big suprise since we had gotten to know each other. He let me know from the begining he was intrested but was never pushy about it, he was one of the few, that respected my choice at the time not to play with anyone.
From there, our relationship has blossomed

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RE: First Scene - 3/16/2008 10:22:04 AM

ownedgirlie

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We talked online and on the phone daily for a little more than 2 months.

I presented myself to him for use for our first in person meeting. I didn't consider it "play", but to answer your specific question, the moment he walked in the door.

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RE: First Scene - 3/16/2008 10:56:23 AM

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quote:

how long you knew your Master/Daddy/ Dom/me or whatever you call them before you played.

one week of internet and phone contact led to our first meeting...our first "scene" happened a few hours later and that "scene" has been going on for over 5 years now.

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RE: First Scene - 3/16/2008 11:09:22 AM

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Seems we'd talked a while ago, i for some reason stopped contact.     He recontacted, ok He started stalking me online and the phone, 5 weeks ago.      He decided while He had me on the phone or online, i wouldnt have time to deal with anyone else. He was right.    I came to his 4 weeks ago, and have rarely been home since. We are moving me to His as soon as practical, in the mean time i'm only going back to ex home when i have too.

Yes its quicker than id ever recommend, but we clicked, He was who i'd been looking for all my life.

As an added, My sister drove me here first time, so she had address, met Him.   She is not into lifestyle, but accepts my choices and approved.

There are no rules as to time etc.      If it feels right, do it, if is doesnt, then run.

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RE: First Scene - 3/16/2008 11:44:31 AM

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2 and a half months before we met from the initial letter exchanges. Within and hour and half on the day we met.

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RE: First Scene - 3/16/2008 2:36:37 PM

daddysliloneds

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we exchanged one e-mail on where to meet for the first time; we played part way into the meeting, about a half an hour after starting to talk; that was a two year relationship...

we exchanged one e-mail on where to meet for the first time; we talked for five hours and scheduled another day and time to meet and play; we've been seeing each other close to two years now...

we exchanged one e-mail before he came to this country to meet me; we played that day and were together two years...

soooooo, i haven't found that holding out on playing has anything to do with how long the relationship lasts , unless it's no more than two years, and i'm okay with that number.

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