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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/15/2008 2:09:43 AM   
Bound2One


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
If it looks like a duck, and it quacks like a duck, and it swims like a duck.... it ain't no armadillo.  He's a user and a player and is one of those guys that gives wiitwd a bad name.

See I just think that's jumping the gun and making a lot of easy assumptions.

How come she isn't giving wiitwd a bad name by being so naive, stupid, quick to rush into things and not taking responsibility?


I think she is giving wiitwd a bad name for those exact reasons!

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/15/2008 2:53:16 AM   
LadyTeazer


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Status: offline 		Speaking as a FemDom, and a low-key Feminist........

    Isn't doing that ("lining up pussy for when he [and I] want it") called, ummmmmmm, ""solicitation""????????    Last time I checked, that was illegal pretty much everywhere.  Not to mention being damn insulting and completely disrespectful to the women that you are approaching.  That could be why you keep striking out.

    Why can't this sexy Dom of yours find his own harem?  Too lazy?  Too arrogant?  Not as hot as he thinks he is?   IMO,  the dominant partner -- being the one who is in control of things --  is the one who finds the playmates for their sub (or who does most of the looking/interviewing for one).  That's the way it is between My boy and Myself.   I ask for his input/opinion on a particular candidate, but the ultimate choice or rejection of that person is up to Me, not him. 

    And you are being punished for not being able to line up a selection of pussy for this guy?  *shakes head in puzzlement* 

    As far as helpful tips, have you tried your local swingers club?  From what little I know of that lifestyle, those folks are all about no-strings-sex.



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and still a WOW -- Wonderful Older Woman

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/15/2008 3:15:07 AM   
Owner4SexSlave


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Humane Society?


**snort**

What about a stray running loose in the streets! LOL..

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/15/2008 3:36:36 AM   
Owner4SexSlave


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Status: offline 		OK, I actually read a lot of great advice and sides people have posted here.
You are a new sub in training, let this all be another chapter of learning in your life.

So you have been failing at coming up with another piece of ass for him to use.
There may be a combination of things/factors involved here.  Such as how you
are going about in your search, to perhaps he's being too impatient and unrealistic.

Your profile reads that you are a couple looking for a third to join your family!
So I think it's safe bet that getting an escort every so often is not sufficient.

I'm with everybody on the fact it takes time to find a third, and since this is for family
he should be active as well as you in finding somebody.   Sure, let's say you did find
somebody but would she actually be the right fit for your family? 

Just from reading your post here and your profile, I don't have a very good impression
about the situation.

OK, you are being punished by not being able to see him until you can line up some
pussy?   Mmmmmmm...  my mind is marveling in some not so pretty thought streams.



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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/15/2008 3:40:22 AM   
angelic


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Status: offline 		Well, line up some pussy for him.....get him a cat!

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/15/2008 4:29:13 AM   
lovewithoutfear


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Status: offline 		I was with Sir over 4 years and we tried this for fun many times...never managed to do it with me making the approach.  He could bring in the girls just fine, but I couldn't.  --shrug-- the girls that liked his looks, were OK with having me along for the ride...the ones that liked my looks, generally weren't into men.   Stands to reason, I think -- it's harder for a woman to approach women for sex, period, because the first thing that comes up is "do you like girls."  Want a three-way? Get your guy to approach the girls, and if they really like him, enough to go home with him on a first meeting that is, they may fall into line with a three-way just to get alongside him. 

I really deplore the punishing you by not getting to see him.  That is excessively cruel, especially to a new sub.  And I bet he isn't sleeping alone when he's depriving you, either.

My twisted perspective...

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/15/2008 4:32:01 AM   
StormsSlave


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Status: offline 		My Lord and I have discussed bringing in a third at length.  He is leaving the entire selection process up to me.  Who, where, when, and how much I want to do.  Laying it in my hands has empowered me to be selective.  I understand that this has been given as a directive, but thus far, I haven't been able to find the right person or circumstance, so we are willing to bide our time.  There are certain criteria that are vital to me, and our relationship MUST ALWAYS take precedence over anyone else.  It's very hard to find someone who not only undersands that, but can live with what that means.  If he's serious about finding a third, then he'll let you have soom room.

Have you told him if you are unhappy with this situation?  Does he know you are coming here for advice?  Maybe you could share this with him openly; it's possible he really doesn't realize you aren't failing "on purpose."  People do make mistakes, yes?  He can't read your mind.

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/15/2008 9:53:14 AM   
slaveannia


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Status: offline 		If my Master wanted other women from time to time to play with U/us I would expect Him to have chosen the sub Himself.  I wouldnt dream of even suggesting someone, if He wants another to play with, He should provide her himself. Just my opinion...

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/15/2008 11:17:44 AM   
Mercnbeth


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I have been trying to do this now for a month and keep striking out.  I have no idea what I'm doing wrong.


perhaps it is one of those things that will take longer than a month, using your current methods and you just need to be patient.
or, it could be that whatever method you are using is not ever going to be effective...
since you neglected to mention what method(s) you have tried, what, specifically, have you done in order to fulfill your Master's wishes?
 
personally, this slave hasn't been charged with such a task, but it doesn't seem to be that rare of a demand, considering there have been quite a few threads and input on the topic here in the past.

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/15/2008 11:41:47 AM   
DesFIP


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From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		Find him the number of a couple of local escort agencies and the rates they charge. Tell him to call them.

Honestly, does he expect you to go begging your coworkers to suck his dick? He's living in a dreamland. You know women who deserve respect, not doormats who are willing to be fucked by every anonymous tom, dick and harry. He needs to grow up.

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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/15/2008 3:50:17 PM   
lally3


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Status: offline 		just one little thing.  if you do find someone 'easy' enough to take this up, is your Dom going to use protection.

i dont know him obviously but so far im none too impressed with his lack of consideration toward you.  and im sorry, you dont need to hear me slamming him - its disrespectful to you, but i cant help thinking std's when i read the bit about lining up pussy or was it pussies, whichever, whatever - the same applies.

just wanted to throw that into the mix.  tho im sure youve considered it.  so ill shut up now.


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RE: I need help PLEASE - 3/15/2008 4:28:46 PM   
BikerDomRealTime


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tweetybird02692

I am a new sub in training with my Master.  One of things that is expected of me is to have other pussy lined up for him and I when he wants it.  I have been trying to do this now for a month and keep striking out.  I have no idea what I'm doing wrong.  My Master is VERY sexy......  Can anyone give me suggestions or tell me how they have worked through this??  Right now I am being punished by not being able to see him until I can line up some pussy.  I am going crazy........


Buy a cat or two.... 

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