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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 10:49:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

Eureka! I've got the perfect solution to your dilemma, babycakes! All you have to do is.....oops....wait a minute.....my opinion can't possibly be the solution you seek as I am not a dominant. Oh well, good luck. Maybe one of them will be able to hit upon it sooner or later. If only I could answer

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 11:03:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

OG- apparently that's what she wants, she emailed me to ask why I'd posted and let me know that her master doesn't listen to anyone who isn't Fully Dom.

Interesting... is she then going to take everything said in this post and assume her 'master' will listen to it?

I doubt he'll listen to much.

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 11:30:05 AM

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You had an agreement. He broke it. He cannot know announce that you have agreed to a totally different agreement unless you agree to it. Your relationship is over effectively.

Imagine if you were hired as a paralegal at a salary of $40,000 yearly. Could the manager walk up to you one day and say from now on you are a part time mail room clerk earning only $16,000 and expect you to be fine with this? No. You would not be obligated to give them two weeks notice since they had terminated your position. If you wanted to accept being a part time mail room clerk until you found a better position you could, but you would not be obligated to remain there one day longer than you wanted to.

He broke your contract and is offering you a new one. Accept or decline as you wish.

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 11:35:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

You had an agreement. He broke it. He cannot know announce that you have agreed to a totally different agreement unless you agree to it. Your relationship is over effectively.

Imagine if you were hired as a paralegal at a salary of $40,000 yearly. Could the manager walk up to you one day and say from now on you are a part time mail room clerk earning only $16,000 and expect you to be fine with this? No. You would not be obligated to give them two weeks notice since they had terminated your position. If you wanted to accept being a part time mail room clerk until you found a better position you could, but you would not be obligated to remain there one day longer than you wanted to.

He broke your contract and is offering you a new one. Accept or decline as you wish.

excellent example.
it bears repeating.

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 6:50:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

OG- apparently that's what she wants, she emailed me to ask why I'd posted and let me know that her master doesn't listen to anyone who isn't Fully Dom.

That is exactly what I said.
As to what I want , I want things to go back to the way they were before, but I am seeing ,much to my saddness, that isnt going to happen.
I asked that switches not reply because I wanted him to read this thread and see that it is not normal for a dominant to totally not listen to what a sub has to say.
Most here have said that if a Master does that then he will loose his sub.
I was not trying to offend anyone here.
Apparently you didnt care that I asked that no switches reply. In your return email to me you stated that you are going to respond wherever you want no matter what anyone requests. You also "gave me permission to ignore your posts"... If that is your attittude then why bother posting here at all since I am the person that asked the original question?

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 6:54:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: Madame4a

Interesting... is she then going to take everything said in this post and assume her 'master' will listen to it?

I doubt he'll listen to much.

Of course not, but he will be more likely to listen to a Dominant than a submissive. This is my opinion because of various conversations I have had with him.

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 6:58:27 PM

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[/quote]
I asked that switches not reply because I wanted him to read this thread and see that it is not normal for a dominant to totally not listen to what a sub has to say.
[/quote]

thats a pretty shitty thing to say chica,
maybe you should just stay with him.
after all, two closed minds do make a...
um... hmm... anyone?

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 7:01:47 PM

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I apologize to you if you are offended that I only wanted dominants to answer... that is why i posted it in "ask a Master. "
There is a thread called "ask a submissive" isn't there?

I personally DO very much value the opinions of subs/slaves ... so I will post this in that other thread too.

Sorry for any misunderstandings .

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 7:03:26 PM

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I do not have a closed mind chica. This thread is titled " ask a MASTER '' , is it not?

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 7:51:21 PM

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Well, since you're only a part time s type now, we figured that on your off days you could read the other responses. Hint: you're allowed to think for yourself all the time. So why not think about why you expected that if a preponderance of doms said he shouldn't be pushing you away, he would suddenly change his mind and want you back full time?

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 10:24:33 PM

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That is not what I thought... do not try to put words in my typing please, DesFIP. That is not what the Doms here said anyway, they said I should leave. Maybe all I wanted was justification for leaving someone that I very dearly love but am not happy with, I doubt that occured to you.
FYI I haven't had many dealings with people in the lifestyle and when he told me that was the way ALL masters were, I really believed him.Since I specifically and repeatedly stated "I am not trying to offend anyone" I do not see why you are so upset and trying to offend me just because I asked that only masters reply.Who is the "we"
that you have been elected to speak for anyway?
This is a thread where masters are supposed to be the ones answering.

There is a thread for asking subs/slaves and even one for asking switches...
I tried to post the same question in the one for subs but good old Moderator 11 told me not to post the same question in another forum.

I am done apologizing to those that are offended by my posting a question for Masters/Doms/Dommes in the "Ask a Master" Forum. So if you are offended...just scroll back at all the times I did apologize and realize I asked this question for information from a specific group of people and If you are not included in that group of people that is NOT my fault .

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 11:10:29 PM

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babycakes,

let this crap roll off you like water off a ducks back.

This crap always happens.

All you need to know is people post wherever they want to, and so asking for a specific type you elected to be hazed by anyone who thought what you meant was that subs opinions are not worth anything.

RELAX!!!

Don't take these people seriously most are Keyboard Kowboys and Cyber Knights just looking for a place to blow some hot air (If I have been accused I am sure I have been guilty) so take what they say ask yourself if it applies and delete what you don't like and hide who you can't stand.

And if you have already deleted and blocked and Hid me well then ....... I hope you die.

See what I mean Just Hot air.

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/15/2008 11:22:01 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

babycakes,

let this crap roll off you like water off a ducks back.

This crap always happens.

All you need to know is people post wherever they want to, and so asking for a specific type you elected to be hazed by anyone who thought what you meant was that subs opinions are not worth anything.

RELAX!!!

Don't take these people seriously most are Keyboard Kowboys and Cyber Knights just looking for a place to blow some hot air (If I have been accused I am sure I have been guilty) so take what they say ask yourself if it applies and delete what you don't like and hide who you can't stand.

And if you have already deleted and blocked and Hid me well then ....... I hope you die.

See what I mean Just Hot air.

As Always

Steel

Thank you Sir...You are , of course, correct. I apologize for my outburst...but I wont edit it to say anything different.
I never used the 'hide' feature before...hmmm
* grins*

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/16/2008 9:04:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: Maestro66babycak

First of all , I only want answers from Masters or Doms or Domme's. If you are a submissive or a slave or a switch, it is not your opinion that I seek ,so please do not post one. I am not trying to be disrespectful to anyone.

at least Daddy values my inciteful opinion ...oh btw - i can post here and any other thread listed within Ask Master i want - so there *sticks tongue out* and yes, you are being disrespectful and rather rude too.

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The question is this: If the Dominant person in the relationship tells the submissive person in the relationship that she/he is only a part time slave/sub, does it mean that the Master/Dom/Domme is only a part time owner of said slave/sub? Or does that Master/Dom/Domme retain full ownership of said property?

in my opinion (and i really don't care if you choose to ignore it), you specifically seem to treat your D/s relationship to a part-time job. Daddy, no matter how little time we spend together, is not a part-time dominant nor am i His part-time daughter. i equate "part-time" as play partners. we are 24/7/365 Daddydaughter ...i proudly wear His symbols of ownership in public and on the job and Daddy's on the "job" morning, noon, and night caring for me.

quote:

Would the slave/sub be expected/allowed to find another Master/Dom/Domme for the time spent away from the original owner? Would the said property be obligated to obey th original owner on the days she/he was away?

that would be up to you and your slave. whatever advice given here shouldn't dictate your relationship.

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/16/2008 1:03:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: Maestro66babycak

The question is this: If the Dominant person in the relationship tells the submissive person in the relationship that she/he is only a part time slave/sub, does it mean that the Master/Dom/Domme is only a part time owner of said slave/sub? Or does that Master/Dom/Domme retain full ownership of said property

In the literal sense, The Master is only doming his sub part time therefore this is a part time D/s relationship. What needs to be considered in this situation is the fact that underneath the D/s dynamic, it is still a relationship. relationship only thrive and grow when the participants work together towards a mutual goal.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Maestro66babycak

Would the slave/sub be expected/allowed to find another Master/Dom/Domme for the time spent away from the original owner? Would the said property be obligated to obey th original owner on the days she/he was away?

That would be depend on any conditions the owner stated to his part time sub/slave. I would hazard a guess that for the time which the sub/slave is independent of their Master, that time is theirs to utilize as they see fit and not under the Dom's control. You did state the Master had indicated the sub/slave was only part time therefore he only controls her part time and the rest is hers to utilize as she sees fit.

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/16/2008 2:44:43 PM

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if you have a part-time job, would you be expected or allowed to find another job for the time spent away from the the other one? it's not that complicated, when you think about it; moreso, when you finally realize that you're just being used and that you're allowing it to happen.

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RE: Part-Time Master? - 3/16/2008 10:05:36 PM

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Thank you to everyone that responded on the thread and off of it. I do apperciate the good advice that has been given.

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