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Grrr.... - 3/14/2008 11:12:58 PM   
StormsSlave


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Status: offline 		Something occured to me, and I thought it might be interesting to find out if anyone else's partners behave this way.  I'd like to paraphrase a conversation between My Lord and myself.  We'd had it a lot, so I'm probably close.

{pokes me in the breast}
{I hit him}
Me: Why do you do that?
My Lord: Cause I like to.
Me: Well, stop it.
{pokes me in the tit}
My Lord: No.
{slap}
Me: Yes, quit it.
{poke}
My Lord: No.
Me: Why do you do that?  Why do you like it?
{poke, this time shurgging}
My Lord: Cause it feels good.
(it pretty much continues in this vein.)

I'm not sure if it's a D/s thing, or a Dom(me) thing, or just an us thing.  Does your partner deliberately annoy you, or do you deliberately annoy him/her, and if you do, why?  What do you get out of it?

Just curious.

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/14/2008 11:14:40 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Nope- we "pretend annoy" eachother for fun, but it's plainly obvious that we're really just trying to get eachother to laugh.

Actual annoyance I find it just frustration and festering annoyance.  Unless you're gonna progress to direct sadism, it rubs me as juvenile :)

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/14/2008 11:17:56 PM   
KimberHeaven


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Status: offline 		my master does that because he can and because he likes it.  pretty much, he really isn't too concerned about my annoyance, though he'd enjoy it more if i enjoyed it too, if nothing else but being the tool/toy of his pleasure.

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/14/2008 11:19:52 PM   
StormsSlave


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Status: offline 		Hmmm...well, I do enjoy the attention and the fact that he's obviously playing with me...but yes, My Lord is unconcerned if I am annoyed....lol...I suppose I should have clarified better.

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 12:51:57 AM   
MrSuperior


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Status: offline 		Mr. Superior says:

If you identify as a slave, then chances are, you'll be expected to behave like one.  No whining!  You knew the job description!

All slaves in need of a good poking may address Mr. Superior.  Mr. Superior gives you permission.


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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 2:08:57 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		No, it's most certainly not a D/s thing.  Boys have been pestering girls since time began.  Boys (men) often poke, tap, punch lightly, hand slap or otherwise look for non-sexual but physical contact with their brothers and best guy friends too.  Why?  Well...why is a crow?  Caws!

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 4:12:04 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		What do you mean by "behave this way"?  Are you referring to the random poking of a slave's intimate "bits" as some of us Dominant/Master/Owner types are prone to do with their property or do you mean.... errr...., I dunno..., making some sort of vanilla game of it where indignant "wifey" decides when the touching or poking etc takes place?
 
Anyways, I'm all for some fun and playing "house" occasionally etc but if my girl seriously wants to get out of me poking, prodding, fondling her bits at my leisure etc, she needs to find another "master" and/or at least stop calling herself "slave"....
 
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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 4:36:24 AM   
StormsSlave


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Status: offline 		I know he isn't going to stop.  I don't expect him to, to be honest.  Didn't mean to sound that way.

He's going to do what he's gong to do.  Since we came into this from the vanilla end and have no formal "negotiations" in place, I'm not exactly griping.  I was really just curious as to other people's experience.

Eyesopened: I think you hit the nail on the head exactly.  Boys really do just poke at girls, don't they?  I suppose I should have considered that.  Anyway, thanks for your responses.  I'll just take a deep breath and keep smacking him.  If he didn't like it, he wouldn't poke me in the tit, right? 

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 4:58:50 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		Here's a bulletin from those of us with a Sadistic streak....  If one of my many little teasing habits is annoying to the girl, chances are 100% of it getting promoted to my MAIN habit, most especially if it involves playing with intimate bits I'm not equipped with myself.  lol
 
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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 5:36:47 AM   
MistressVnus


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Status: offline 		[q]I'm not sure if it's a D/s thing, or a Dom(me) thing, or just an us thing.  Does your partner deliberately annoy you, or do you deliberately annoy him/her, and if you do, why?  What do you get out of it? [/q]

Hahahahahaha!!  I LOVE IT!!
We do it because we can.!!  It reminds both parties of their roles.  It's part of the fun of being the Dominant.
We do it just to get the response you are giving.
We do it because we are sadists (at least I am).  And, if you don't like it, we like it even more....*chuckle*
Maybe you should turn around, bare your breasts, drop to your knees, and give yourself up.
Maybe he wouldn't enjoy so much. Or, you just might get obliged!!  LOL
All is contingent on HIS mood, of course. 
*still laughing*



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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 5:51:15 AM   
slaveluci


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quote:

ORIGINAL: StormsSlave
I'm not sure if it's a D/s thing, or a Dom(me) thing, or just an us thing.  Does your partner deliberately annoy you, or do you deliberately annoy him/her, and if you do, why?  What do you get out of it?

No, we don't deliberately annoy each other.  We probably inadvertantly do now and again, but not deliberately except in fun as LA said.

As for poking me anywhere, breast or otherwise, He would do that because He wanted to and I wouldn't hit Him or tell Him to stop.  I like being poked..............luci

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 6:52:54 AM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		This was SO funny!
Yes!
*lol*
Had to read it to HoneyMaster.
Are you sure we don't have the same Dom?

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 8:00:00 AM   
ProlificNeeds


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Status: offline 		I've had a partner who enjoyed playing with my breasts at leisure, but not poking them. It was definitely an "I like to play with your boobs" thing, not an annoyance thing.
I don't really enjoy my partner being annoying on purpose. If it's as a joke to make me laugh, sure, or if it's someone other than my partner, then I tolarate a great deal. I don't see how my partner trying to drive me into a bad mood helps anything though.

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 8:07:09 AM   
StormsSlave


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Mistrssvns: Maybe you should turn around, bare your breasts, drop to your knees, and give yourself up.


Tried this.  Was a temporary fix.    Worked for less than a day.  It is, however, a grenade I am quite willing to throw myself on once again.

Blushes...I'm glad you saw the humor, and I don't get it, but at least he's making me laugh, so that's something.

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 8:15:52 AM   
littlebitxxx


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Status: offline 		Poking, prodding, groping, copping a feel...whatever.  It can be fun and it can be annoying.  If it's done in the fun sense it can lead to some very enjoyable times.  If it's done just to annoy and cause irritation, that's not a very mature thing to do (thinks back to the pony-tail in ink dipping in Grade 2).  If it's done from the perspective of "I'm the Master, I can do anything I want when I want and how I want"....   

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 9:33:02 AM   
daddyncherry


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Status: offline 		Daddy and i do a similar thing, or i should say he does it, i take it and laugh...

He will either tickle me or do this thing he calls "the grip" where he grips the area above my knee, and it tickle/hurts or he will grip my sides by my ribs.....i never tell him to stop but i'll say, "Owwy Daddy, that's not fair" to which he will respond "It's fun......for me. and you love it" (which i love/hate it).......Then most of the time i will tense up my body, in a way to fend it off and he will grip harder or longer until i give in and say MERCY or just give up and laugh my ass off.


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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 9:51:59 AM   
littlelostbunny


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Status: offline 		Usually the ones doing the pestering are me and my sister. >:) We start poking him, and he just kind of raises his eyebrow and asks, "Yes?" It's when we beep his nose that he really makes a face and starts tickling us.

It's when she and I start poking each other that he usually gets annoyed and tells us to stop.

What's aggravating is when we're trying to be mad at him and he starts trying to make us laugh... and succeeds. ("You jerk! How dare you make me laugh!")


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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 11:07:50 AM   
Daddyslilpookie


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Status: offline 		My Master does somthing similar to this he pokes me in between my ribs and stomach and he does it on purpose because 1. He can 2. He knows it drives the hell out of me and it tickles. 3. He thinks it's funny I just go along with it.

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 11:10:34 AM   
Mercnbeth


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Does your partner deliberately annoy you, or do you deliberately annoy him/her, and if you do, why?


No.  He doesn't annoy this slave deliberately OR accidentally.  He isn't into the "brat" thing and doesn't enjoy being annoyed, so since it doesn't come naturally, this slave does not put any energy or effort into it.
 
teasing is another matter altogether.  Master teases His slave often, and she enjoys it...but not with the end goal being the slave's annoyance.

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RE: Grrr.... - 3/15/2008 11:44:46 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		If he does something that seriously annoys me, then he can't be upset when I'm irritated and short and totally non arousable. He can't have it both ways.

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