rubberpet
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Joined: 4/6/2006 From: The Land of Voodoo Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: TheLookingGirl Its incredibly interesting for sure, though I would never use it. I think that you can have so much control while giving orally. Controlling exactly when and if someone can orgasm. Unless you are giving directions the ENTIRE time (i.e go up...left...harder...*HOW BORING IS THAT!?!*) then you are handing over control to the other person to do what they will. Obviously for the purpose of making you come, but never the less it's giving up control. It's not that I'm a control freak, but I'm just not into recieving orally so much as giving. I have no explanation for this, as it most definatly feels good...but its just not my thing. So this is the conclusion I've come to (and it may be wrong). Well, all I know is once Mistress is sitting on my face, it is my responsibility to make Her orgasm. While your perspective is the one giving oral is in control, I'll offer my perspective of if Mistress isn't satisfied with my effort, then all She'll do is put all Her weight on my face and smother me until I make a conscience effort to perform better...LOL. If I want to breathe, I must do a good job and make Her orgasm by any means necessary. She is plus-sized and therefore quite plush down there, so suffocation is quite achievable! In essence, Mistress is still in complete control. Without tooting my own horn, I've been told I'm very, VERY good at what I do orally, so I'm going to make it my mission to make sure Her orgasm count reaches double-digits every single time She chooses to use me in that manner. But as Mistress said to me, "During oral sex, orgasms are required for me, but breathing is optional for you!" Don't you just love the Dominant's perspective???
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