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searchin4love -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 4:58:26 PM)
yup..its a cultural shock.they think that an american women wont be able to live with family and indian values.in indian women they find stability.but its changing people are becoming more are more open to intercultural marriages.. well frankly an indian is ready to have sex with white women but hes not willing to marry her..hes afraid that his"slut" wife will leave him for some better guy one day.. regarding the virgin thing..yepp most of the indian girls are virgin before marriages.. and most of the guys too like me..

Daddysredhead -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 5:04:01 PM)
So true about preconceived ideas of the USA and its women. I remember meeting my sister in law for the first time and she said, "Is it true? Are all American women fast?" I smiled as I knew she was just asking innocently. I said, "No, not all. Some are. But many of us love family life, too." She seemed happy, esp. since I come from a large family myself.

petpete -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 5:05:31 PM)
Searchin... looking for love... i wanna find a man... Searhin, looking for loooveee..... Remember the song search? (80's hit)

searchin4love -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 5:10:49 PM)
nope i have listen to my hindi songs too :P ..well i do listen to english songs michelle branch,dido ,corrs etc girly bands are my fav.. rest is all random some hard rocks some soft one..right now i am listening to with arms wide open by creed :)

Daddysredhead -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 5:12:04 PM)
quote: arms wide open by creed Great song...

searchin4love -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 5:16:52 PM)
drh:yepp but that doesnt means we all ,indian men are bad.its just an opinion of ignorant people. there are lots of reasons to it.. like they never see an indian porn all they see is those which have white women in it . college movies like american pie,euro trip and girl next door are quite popular.indian men wish if indian girls would be like that.. english media is the biggest reason of them thinking like that..

mzbehavin -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 5:17:58 PM)
searchin4love~ I think within this realm you will find alot of agreement that submissives, male or female are Not weak. That is more of the modernday vanilla attitude which also tends to think submissive women are weak. If that makes you feel any better...

searchin4love -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 5:21:03 PM)
yup it makes me feel gud.:)

lusciouslips19 -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 5:25:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searchin4love nope i have listen to my hindi songs too :P ..well i do listen to english songs michelle branch,dido ,corrs etc girly bands are my fav.. rest is all random some hard rocks some soft one..right now i am listening to with arms wide open by creed :) I love Hindi music and indian pop music. i do know who billy sagoo is, ya know.[;)]

MistressVnus -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 5:28:24 PM)
quote: but wen a man do so why people are unable to digest it.. What do you care what "people" think. The only thing that should matter to you is what your Mistress thinks. And, if she thought a submissive was weak I don't think she would be engaging with a submissive, do you? Or, perhaps you own internal struggle is going on and you haven't come to terms with your own submission yet.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 5:33:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searchin4love drh:yepp but that doesnt means we all ,indian men are bad.its just an opinion of ignorant people. there are lots of reasons to it.. like they never see an indian porn all they see is those which have white women in it . college movies like american pie,euro trip and girl next door are quite popular.indian men wish if indian girls would be like that.. english media is the biggest reason of them thinking like that.. You would think a culture that has the Kama Sutra and Tantra would be less conservative???

searchin4love -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 5:38:04 PM)
i like bally sagoo's gori naal ishk mitha have you heard that song? @mistressvnus yes you are right we should not care for wat others think may be i not ready for that now as the philosophy to which i subscribe to is clashing with wat i really want to do.. i believe in individualism still want to loose it to some woman.while sex.( i am not a life style sub in my fantasies)

searchin4love -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 5:52:26 PM)
yes it wasnt it became conservative nearabout 700 - 800 AD.. @tantra is not only about sex alone. yeah tantra can be sort of equated to femdom.but not fully!! we have agnostic philosophies too like that of vedas and upanishads(refered as positve agnostic).. some atheistic too like that of carvakas but see wat is dominant today ..sanatana dharma and idol worship!!

lusciouslips19 -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 6:11:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searchin4love i like bally sagoo's gori naal ishk mitha have you heard that song? Bally sagoo's song Noorie. Its the sexiest song I have ever heard.

searchin4love -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 6:22:35 PM)
yepp i like that song too ..how come you know all these hindi songs ?you have indian friends?

Daddysredhead -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 6:44:01 PM)
Hehehe... Billy Sagoo is nice. I have several bangra cd's. I have all kinds of hindi music. Lots of my friends from Pakistan, India and Afghanistan are amazed that I can sing them and do some of the dances that go with the mainstream films. I just credit it to spending so many years with my ex and living over there. My in-laws always used to tell me, "Lankan previous birth, white girl this time." [:D]

lusciouslips19 -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 7:51:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searchin4love yepp i like that song too ..how come you know all these hindi songs ?you have indian friends? Well when I saw bend it like beckham. the music was just so sexy. But I am a massage therapist. I have listened to this kind of music for massage for years. I like music that people use for yoga or tantra. Relaxing yet rythmic. There is an awesome group. A swedish couplle who are hindu. They are named Rasa, They do alot of bengali devotionals and mantras. There are quite a few non Indians that do this kind of music. Sheila Chandra is really cool too.

domahpet -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 7:59:04 PM)
i want him. hes fitting in well! will there be an auction? [sm=shake.gif]

Misstoyou -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/15/2008 9:03:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domahpet hes fitting in well! I agree. Inquisitive and non-defensive is a good combination. [:)]

lusciouslips19 -> RE: what do you all think :submissives have weak personality? (3/16/2008 3:11:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searchin4love yes it wasnt it became conservative nearabout 700 - 800 AD.. @tantra is not only about sex alone. yeah tantra can be sort of equated to femdom.but not fully!! we have agnostic philosophies too like that of vedas and upanishads(refered as positve agnostic).. some atheistic too like that of carvakas but see wat is dominant today ..sanatana dharma and idol worship!! Yes, III know. Tantra is about meditation. I know a Dominant that doesnt practice BDSM anymore. He is soley into Tantra now.

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