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AquaticSub -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/16/2008 9:46:36 PM)
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ORIGINAL: TracyTaken
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Not really. And so what if he does want a woman to pay his bar tab? I know of plenty of women who will deride a man (if not to his face than to all her friends) who doesn't pay her way, meal, cocktails, dessert, and any other expense on their first date. I'll only call a man who expects the same a leech if we apply that label equally.
I'm all good with that, but the fact is a male dom has a lot more competition for a female slave than you're average Joe does for date. It's not my standards that change - the marketplace dictates, and where you're talking slave and master and marketplace ...who pays for whom?
Certainly. But simply demanding something that they can't get in the current market doesn't make a man a leech. And some men are able to get that for whatever reason, be it dating women who undesirable to most men for whatever reason, because the men themselves are unusually attractive, have exceeding amounts of charm, etc.
Or because they are dominant men who chose to use their control by having their submissive pick up the bar tab. A dominant male, like any submissive female, or anyone else for that matter, can set their requirements in a partner wherever they like. Some submissive females want a dominant who pay their way for the rest of their life - they want to stay at home and serve by cooking, cleaning, and the like. They don't ever want to work out in the "real world" again. Some dominants desire to be served by never having to set foot in the office again, they want to able to devote all their time to the things they enjoy doing. So their requirements in a partner is someone who will go out and work and bring home the money.
If a woman who desires such is not a leech, neither is the man. Being able to get it has nothing to do with the matter.
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