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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 8:55:32 PM   
Daddysredhead


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again, you have not been on here long, and you will find that this is not uncommon.  Dominant people, women and men, can be as "touchy" as we want to be - it's part of our job description.     It simply does not come across as very well written, and therefore, careless and lacking in thoughtfulness.  You may need to grow thicker skin, as they say, in order to keep yourself from feeling stepped on.  Just because a person is new, does not mean that you will go under the radar from being picked apart.  Some of us who have been here for a while have been the targets of much more scrutiny than you are receiving now.

Also, you should try to be more respectful.  I speak several languages myself, but that does not mean that I am better or worse than anyone else on here, and putting things like that up on a message board to give oneself more credibility will not impress the masses.  It just makes you a bigger target for flaming.

Don't say no one told you...     

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 9:01:04 PM   
Lordandmaster


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quote:

ORIGINAL: searchin4love

you are asking me to follow the standards of a language which is of the lowest standard in the world?
you dont write what you speak dont speak wat you write..
have only five vowels..
you are not even able to pronounce anything properly which is not english..
english is popular not because of its superiority but because english government looted and occupied each and every corner of the world..
indians have a lot better english than you..leave my case..i am not good at english ..i can give a you enough lecture and even on the origins of english language..but ill suggest you too refer to sir william jones

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 9:09:14 PM   
searchin4love


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Status: offline 		yes..you are right..but i am not here to submit randomly to every woman here..if shes so proud of her english then she should open up a language control dungen with slaves wholl control and check whether people are using english correctly or not..dont she know that i belong to a different and non english speaking nation..
and this not only for her but for all those who think like her..

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 9:24:05 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		It is not about submitting to every woman or man here.  It is about courtesy and good manners.  She has a right to her opinion, too, searchin.  You started out very respectfully yesterday.  Please do not lose the sense of who you want to be in this lifestyle over something so small.

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Added:   you are from far away in miles, and your first language is not english...  that is true, but don't say things like our english is so bad, etc., without expecting to get back some of the same.  Just breathe a little and try to go back your original question and see if the answers you have been given help you at all.    ~ breathe ~ 

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 9:32:45 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I am very picky about my use of English.  I find it to be lazy to know the proper use and decide not to use it. If someone knows multiple languages, but is sloppy in any of them, it looks unintelligent. Case closed.

I do look for ceertain features in my submissives. Intelligence being a main one, and proper use of the english language, since no matter how may others they speak, they must use english to communicate with me.
Physically, I am not attracted to men shorter than I am. My height, yes, and taller definately, but not shorter. And since I do need to be physically attracted to my pets in order to consider them, I have never kept a male sub or slave under 5'5. I prefer my boys delicate, skinny and effeminate. That istn written in stone, but they are definately a plus. Smooth and not muscular is also a plus. Toned, but not musclebound that is.

For me its all about the asthetics. If I dont like how someone looks, I wont enjoy having them serve.
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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 9:46:26 PM   
searchin4love


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Status: offline 		ya..i know and i too have a right of expressing my view..i wouldnt have posted again ..but you see its a viciouscircle..i am going to delete my account from here.because i have realised i am not a sub.i cannot let others dominate me intellectually.sub is just my sexual kink which i have developed just to make my sexual fantasies about women exciting as i got bored with the older one..it has been a nice experience here..
bbye and thank you all..
bbye khem :X

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 10:09:52 PM   
khem


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quote:

ORIGINAL: searchin4love

yes..you are right..but i am not here to submit randomly to every woman here..if shes so proud of her english then she should open up a language control dungen with slaves wholl control and check whether people are using english correctly or not..dont she know that i belong to a different and non english speaking nation..
and this not only for her but for all those who think like her..


I'm not an english nazi, I had just read an earlier post where you said you knew the correct spelling.  I got a bit snarky and was wondering why (if you knew) you didn't use the correct word.  I don't presume to know everything - I was just wondering why you disgarded something you knew already.  It's like me saying I know 5 + 5 equals 10, but I'm going to just round down to 9 and no one should say anything...  And yes, I do actually still understand your posts.  Those two words were just on my nerves.

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 10:11:08 PM   
khem


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quote:

ORIGINAL: searchin4love

ya..i know and i too have a right of expressing my view..i wouldnt have posted again ..but you see its a viciouscircle..i am going to delete my account from here.because i have realised i am not a sub.i cannot let others dominate me intellectually.sub is just my sexual kink which i have developed just to make my sexual fantasies about women exciting as i got bored with the older one..it has been a nice experience here..
bbye and thank you all..
bbye khem :X


Happy Hunting, whatever you hunt for.

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 10:16:57 PM   
searchin4love


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Status: offline 		khem ..
yup :)
hey have you read sidddhartha by hermann hesse by any chance ?

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 10:22:51 PM   
khem


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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 10:25:27 PM   
searchin4love


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Status: offline 		yes leaving again just like him to new path..only difference is he got wat he wanted in the end..and i know no one ever gets that!

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 10:28:36 PM   
AMaster


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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 11:17:53 PM   
chezzy52


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Status: offline 		I would hope most Dominas would look past my weight,the landing strip on my head that is buffeted on both sides by a fine landscaping of hair,and of course the huge love handles..and instead focus on the musicianship,my overall desires,and my offbeat sense of humor....i didn't say of-beaten now..smiles

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/17/2008 11:28:10 PM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		searchin4love, if you hoping to find a Mistress, I suggest you lay off the sarcasm and the attitude. You obviously find yourself intelligent and well read and good for you. However, if any prospective Mistress reads the forum threads and see's the way you mock people, and how insufferably rude you are, she will run a mile.

There are many absolutely wonderful people here in the forums (and in particular this thread), trying to help you. They have answered your questions and tried to give some input as to how you will better attract a Mistress. I myself abhor txt speak. It is the number one reason I delete emails without response. If you can't take the time to spell a word out correctly, how do you find the time to serve a Mistress?

Now get off your high horse, cut the arrogance out, and listen carefully. You may learn something from these nice people.


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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/18/2008 2:13:39 AM   
Goddess2002


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quote:

ORIGINAL: searchin4love

haha khem has given me free online dominating session here..
i know its look and not luk and its what not wat..
but even if i use luk or wat then why do you feel offended
you are asking me to follow the standards of a language which is of the lowest standard in the world?
you dont write what you speak dont speak wat you write..
have only five vowels..
you are not even able to pronounce anything properly which is not english..
english is popular not because of its superiority but because english government looted and occupied each and every corner of the world..


indians have a lot better english than you..leave my case..i am not good at english ..i can give a you enough lecture and even on the origins of english language..but ill suggest you too refer to sir william jones


Oooh....eaaassyy tiger...I think Khem was simply pointing out that phrases like "luk" and "wat" are sometimes used in test messages, but are difficult to read on a message forum. It's simply better etiquette to use the correct spelling of the word in the forum. After all, YOU are the one who chose to post this question in English. It's probably a good thing you decided to delete your profile while you decide who you really are and what you really want. No need to get so high and mighty, dear.

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/18/2008 2:20:49 AM   
MiladyElaine


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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/18/2008 3:50:28 AM   
MissMagnolia


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< Message edited by MissMagnolia -- 3/18/2008 3:51:30 AM >

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/18/2008 4:21:15 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: searchin4love

i know seven languages




i suggest you try using one of the other six.....

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/18/2008 4:28:28 AM   
LadyHathor


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Status: offline 		ahem ahem, the last time I looked, which was this morning at 6 AM EST on a call with My India team---ENGLISH---is the business language of choice WorldWide---proper English, written correctly and spoken as clearly as possible--a diatribe on the English language and Americans is crap--and by going on, it demeans every Asian, Oriental, Hispanoc, Slavic and oh yes--Indian who has come here for a better education, better chance at life and a better salary.
 
So you came here to play a bit and see if you could hit a pickup and went off and pouted when we did not fall all over for your words of "wisdom"--if you want to play in the sandbox of the world, know the rules---and I take umbrage at your inference that people in the call centers are not professionals--when India is the number one exporter of software in the world----tsk tsk, someone not get hired?
 
 
 
 

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RE: do you luk for physical features of ur slave while ... - 3/18/2008 5:22:58 PM   
vampchick88


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Status: offline 		A man who has a voice and is not afraid to voice his opinions....I love the extra challenge and at least I know pet can talk and not just look up at me to do all the talking. Eyes that are brilliant and deep like ocean pools, a cute little ass to grope whenever I feel like it, muscles not on steroids but a little of defined muscle when its flexed makes me want to nibble on it all night, short hair (long gets stuck in my fingers and its just not as much fun) give me a loofa anyday!, a gentle touch, I enjoy facial hair as long as its properly groomed, fuzzies on the chest, a nice body that easily marks by the simpliest of scratches or a flogger, add a cute nose and ears for me to hold onto and I'm happy!

I've got to also include these as a must for me a sense of humor, devotion, love, submission, love of rubber, pheramones that make me go wild, a deep voice thats sensual, and someone who has a heart of gold and patience to deal with me and all that surrounds my currently chaotic life...oh and look all of these wonderful things and there's so much more that would take me days and nights of writing all describe my perfect pet. ~Lorelei

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