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Unfair Punishment - 3/17/2008 6:11:39 PM

MaxineANDjohnnie

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My relationship with my husband may have entered a new phase and I need a little advice or council.
Last night he hadn't done the grocery shopping by 6:00 as he usually does and I reminded him that he was running late. He said that he thought we had agreed that he would do the shopping Monday night since he had to go to the drug store then anyhow. I told him that I wanted rotissery chicken, potato salad and cole slaw and that he better get going.
After he left it seemed to me that we may have had a discussion about this but I didn't remember the details. It also seemed to me that he had been a little insolent. While he was gone I started stewing and got madder and madder.
When he got back I told him to unpack the groceries and to go stand in the corner, he wouldn'd be having any supper tonight. He got angry, which hardly ever happens, and said it wasn't fair. I told him that I didn't rember the grocery araingement but that in any case his insolence wasn't appreciated.
So he stood in the corner for like 2 1/2 hours. I had had my dinner and had cooled off a bit. I told him to come into the living room and we would have a little chat. When we do this, which is not nearly as much as we used to, he kneels and I sit on the sofa.
Usually when I punish johnnie he gets quite submissive, but that didn't happen this time. I asked him if he had learned to not talk back but he went into this big tirade about how it was unfair and that I had punished him for things that wern't his fault before. I lost my temper and told him to go out and cut some switches. He resisted this at first. He has never done that before even though he really doesn't like this kind of punishment. While he was stripping and I was tying him down over the desk he kept complaining about all of the times he had been punished unfairly. This is all very atypical, I think I almost lost him last night.
I was really pissed by then, I wore out the bundle he had brought and had to go out and cut some more myself. By the time I had come in from that I had cooled off, gave him a few more swatts sat down and watched a couple of hours of TV while he remained tied. We aren't into bondage and I never leave him tied up like that. I tie him down for switching because he can't remain still otherwise.
Sometime during the beating or while I was watching TV he must have entered "subspace". When I released him he could hardly stand. I asked him how he was and he started crying and saying he was sorry. He has never cried like this before, some tears on account of pain but that is it. I put some lotion on his bottom but it is in really bad shape, he missed work today. He is sleeping on the floor this week and he seems almost grateful, I honestly don't know if it's because he feels he needs the punishment or because he is afraid of me.
Today at work I was running through the whole thing in my head. I was over the top in a scarry way. Also I think it is possible that a few times I may have gotten it wrong in the past. Whether or not this is true he seems to think that I am unfair sometimes.
Has anyone gone through something like this before. I don't want to loose him but neither of us could be part of a vanilla relationship.
Thanks in advance for any help.
Maxine