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mistoferin -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 8:25:50 AM)

note to self....make sure you check who is signed in before posting...lol

I think the most important part of the OP's post is in the title..."sense of humor". There is a time and place for everything and I see nothing wrong with quick witted, smart answers....so long as it is the proper time and place for such. Just the other day I gave him the finger(pointed at the floor) as a response. I asked him if he could hear it or would he like me to turn it up for him. Another of my favorite responses to a request to get something is to say "You know, God helps those who help themselves". Of course he understands that those responses are not meant in a serious way and are supposed to be funny and are followed by compliance to the original request. If he couldn't see the humor in it we wouldn't be partners because living with someone who is serious all the time holds no interest for me. Those smart assed comebacks generally result in a good, shared laugh and at times can even lead to impromptu play. He knows that I would not seriously answer him in that manner, but if I had to always be uptight and worry that joking around would be misinterpreted as disrespect....well....no thanks on that, I'd just take a pass.



TreasureKY -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 8:31:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

She was pretty much not into anal. She got about six hours of a pretty painful dildo strapped up her ass for it. I let it go the first few times. I wanted the wake up call to be "special".

And I wanted the punishment to fit the crime. But I didn't want to wing it. And I didn't want her to be able to brat and take the thing out. She did try-and I just mocked her. Watching her whine and fumble/tug at the padlocks was very amusing.


Sorry... not hard to understand why she's not your sub any more.  Seems to me that you were entirely at fault for letting it go the first few times if it bothered you enough to want to punish her.  Then to take perverted "revenge" and mock her?  *shakes head*  Hardly a mature reaction.



Leatherist -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 8:54:01 AM)

I unblocked this to see why you posted here. Do you realize that I know you have it in for me, and am just ignoring you?

Just thought you should know you are wasting your time. Have a nice day.



Leatherist -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 8:57:10 AM)

Well erin, my reactions to this are never really about being offended as such. I'd have a serious talk if I did. I just have a twisted sense of humor, and it can boomerang. And I knew the girl in the op got off on this sort of stuff. There were other issues that lead to us breaking up-this was not one of them.



TreasureKY -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 9:15:04 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

I unblocked this to see why you posted here. Do you realize that I know you have it in for me, and am just ignoring you?

Just thought you should know you are wasting your time. Have a nice day.


lol... I've no idea why you would think I have it in for you, but suit yourself... if little 'ol submissive me is a threat to you, block away.  [:D]



Leatherist -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 9:21:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyLynx

lol. I've gotten known for saying 'fucker' when a friend of mine tops me. damn, he is one sadistic SOB.

Leatherist, good idea, but I would of included ginger root juice on it. heh.


Well,I really don't go the chemical route. I like to have fun, and while I have a sadistic streak-it's never really from malice. My being mad at someone hurts me more than it does them.

Would you eat drano to punish an enemy? Makes no sense to me.



softness -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 9:34:48 AM)

Both Sir and I share a very sick, twisted and ironic sense of humour (as you can see by my current sig line), a good thing too quite frankly or I would have changed my name and gone vanilla to escape Him long ago. Some of the things I do for His amusement, really I should have a safe word for.

As a well brought,expensively educated, English young lady I have the ability to insult someone without actually saying anything offensive, thus I can be perfectly polite and within protocol, and really let myself go. This is ever so helpful during a scene. Sadly I seem to havef ound one of the only Americans who actually fully understands English humour and subtext as well as the English do. So He understands *exactly* what I mean when in dulcet tones and perfect diction I say "Of course darling, it would be my pleasure"

Recently, upon a discussion of my political views (not long for this world) He suggested I join the communist party, I actually retched. He found this hilarious ...He eventually settled on the Labour Party (am praying that he actually was kidding about volunteering for them).

I would tell you what Sir has given me as a safe word, But I just checked and it actually does violates 4 different TOS .. and I dont want my ass handed to me by the Mods today. But lets just say, the fall out from actually using it in earshot of another living soul, is motivation enough *never* to safeword



Leatherist -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 9:38:11 AM)

I agree that subtle and low key humor is greatly underrated.

But the repartee in iteself can be quite amusing. Especially when you both attach key meaning to words-that others are not aware of.. [;)]



softness -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 9:46:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

I agree that subtle and low key humor is greatly underrated.

But the repartee in iteself can be quite amusing. Especially when you both attach key meaning to words-that others are not aware of.. [;)]


yes..ask Dark Victory sometime what it means if He gets porridge for breakfast



sirsholly -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 10:30:36 AM)

FR

as hard as it is to believe, i can have a sarcastic/smartass sense of humor. Generally i have Sir laughing too hard to do too much about it.



softness -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 11:03:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

as hard as it is to believe, i can have a sarcastic/smartass sense of humor.



never .... well you learn something new every day



CreativeDominant -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 12:10:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

FR

as hard as it is to believe, i can have a sarcastic/smartass sense of humor. Generally i have Sir laughing too hard to do too much about it.



~chokes...snorts~



CreativeDominant -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 12:16:24 PM)

I like fun and playfulness.  When I am at work, I can kid around with some of my patients and they kid me, I kid my daughters and they kid me, I kid my family and they kid me.  It has been that way with every woman I have ever been with...including the submissive women.  When they said something that came across as disrespectful OR if they said something that was clearly disrespect guised as humor, they were called on it right away...sometimes punished for it...but I can't stand serious all the time.  I've had other dominants, and a couple of submissives, tell me when they overheard me engaged in conversation with a submissive I was seeing that I was much too lenient or that I let them get away with disrespect or blah...blah...blah. 

I don't.  I've made it clear I don't so brats and I don't do those who are wiseass all the time just for the sake of being wiseass and I don't do disrespect.  That leaves a lot of room.  And like everything else, communication about this point and where it lies in the dynamic helps a lot.



NakedOnMyChain -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 12:28:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

I once had a smart ass girl who would quip at me when I misplaced things. She'd say things like "If it was up your ass-you'd know!!!"



not to hijack...but my 4 year old nephew said this to his dad when he was searching for his car keys. I actually swallowed my gum.



I heard a ten-year-old who was standing right behind my desk tell her sister, "Go f*** yourself," at work (library) last night.  I, of course, told her to watch her language or leave.  Seriously, though, I don't think I even knew that word when I was her age.  I can cuss up a storm with the best of them, but sheesh!  A ten-year-old actually made me blush!  The impossible has occurred!

But, back to the OP, I love your reaction to that!  I have a friend or two who say that, and it drives me batty.  It's nearly as bad as when someone is relating something bad that happened to them and you say, "I'm sorry," and they say, "Not your fault."  What the hell do you say back?  "Oh, well, in that case, I rescind my sympathy."

Most of my friends have a wicked, but not nasty, sense of humor.  I certainly have one.  *grins evilly*  I appreciate a rapier wit and the creativity involved on following through on it.  I don't appreciate some people's mean-spirited sense of humor, though.



MontrealPhoenix -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 12:51:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

I once had a smart ass girl who would quip at me when I misplaced things. She'd say things like "If it was up your ass-you'd know!!!"

That was about the time I developed my first really effective locking bondage belt, and ctrotch strap in heavy duty leather and steel. Then she said it again,and I had the "fun" experience of sticking something up HER ass-and locking it in there.

I was beyond amused by her reactions.

Anyone else have some experiences with a nasty sense of humor?

See, now if it were me, i would have enjoyed that.....but that's just me. [:D]



atursvcMaam -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 7:49:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

I once had a smart ass girl who would quip at me when I misplaced things. She'd say things like "If it was up your ass-you'd know!!!"



not to hijack...but my 4 year old nephew said this to his dad when he was searching for his car keys. I actually swallowed my gum.



LMFAO, what flavor was it?



OnlyMels -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 7:57:28 PM)

I can have a pretty sharp toung and it get me in trouble sometimes but I can't help it I find it so amusing to push buttons.



kiwisub12 -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 8:08:27 PM)

my Sir appreciates my sense of humour - thank goddess - because I can be something of a smartarse.  One story I can tell - we had a play party at our house. Me and another sub were chained to the cross, and my Sir was playing with the violent wand with us , and neither of us liked it a whole lot. The power strip was at my feet - I stretched my foot out and turned it off. Sir had no idea that I was doing that - he thought the violent wand was malfunctioning , so he went to the hitachi wand, and just as the sub was ready to come - I turned it off.

the rest of the room roared, and once Sir realised what I had done - so did he. I think the only person who didn't think it was too funny was the sub.

she got to swat me on the arse as revenge.

my Sir knows I'm not a brat - but sometimes I let my sense of humour get the best of me.  my bad



FirmhandKY -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 9:18:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TreasureKY

quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

I unblocked this to see why you posted here. Do you realize that I know you have it in for me, and am just ignoring you?

Just thought you should know you are wasting your time. Have a nice day.


lol... I've no idea why you would think I have it in for you, but suit yourself... if little 'ol submissive me is a threat to you, block away.  [:D]



I think he is still smarting from when you took him to task on one of his earlier screen names.

Firm



Leatherist -> RE: A nasty sense of humor. (3/28/2008 11:41:25 PM)

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