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MojoRisin -> munch or online? (9/28/2005 1:01:12 PM)


How did you meet your slave or Master? Online or through munches? Or otherwise? If in the vanilla world, how did you show your D/s side?




Dxanman -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 1:03:28 PM)

I met my slave online, actually in a Yahoo! chatroom. It was great, and we've been going great for 5 months



EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 1:16:11 PM)

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meet your slave or Master? Online or through munches? Or otherwise? If in the vanilla world, how did


I've met almost all of my partners originally through online, whether it was in a chat room, through collarme, through an event webpage where we were both going or whatever.

I have met most of my current friends and occasional play partners mostly through munches and offline social events.

I express myself the same way. 90% of the time I act just like any vanilla person acts, submission and dominance to me isn't about actions, clothes, words, it's about a person's innate orientation. Dominants sometimes fill glasses for their subs.



MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 1:28:02 PM)

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How did you meet your slave or Master? Online or through munches? Or otherwise? If in the vanilla world, how did you show your D/s side?


I'm currently single, but I'll answer this anyway.

For all of the BDSM "dating" relationships that I've had that lasted - I met the other person at a BDSM event, mostly munches but occasionally other venues like parties, lectures, etc. Often I have bumped into someone online that I had met briefly previously, and that led to getting together later.

As far as online goes, I have made a lot of friendships that translated to a real time friendship, mostly with other Dommes. While I have met a number of subs, none of those meetings translated into a relationship other than friends.




thetammyjo -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 1:49:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MojoRisin


How did you meet your slave or Master? Online or through munches? Or otherwise? If in the vanilla world, how did you show your D/s side?




All of my long-term and successful relationships were found either through the local community (at munches or at workshops) or via the wanted ads first in the local paper (but we met at a munch after that).

This online stuff is new for me. We'll see how it works but thus far I've had two good conversational buddies form and we'll see what happens from there.



perfection20005 -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 6:44:36 PM)

I met my Master on another vanilla website. Its been over a year since we started talking, and 7 months that we've been together.[:D]
He even stood by me and got me thru a bad marriage during that time.(It lasted all of 3 weeks!) I will be forever grateful that he collared me.



EvilGeoff -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 8:19:09 PM)

I've done both... met online through chat and developed a rt relationship from there, and my current girl I met at our local munch group.

Previous relationship lasted 4 years plus. Current one is 2 years and counting. We'll see how it goes.

YIK,
- Geoff



NakedOnMyChain -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 8:42:20 PM)

I met my husband/Master in a vanilla setting, at my job at a coffeehouse. We dated for a while, and I told him about my non-vanilla side. He hadn't experienced anything like it before, but was willing to give it a go. He ended up enjoying it, we got married, and we're playing hardily to this day.



Evanesce -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 8:52:52 PM)

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How did you meet your slave or Master? Online or through munches? Or otherwise? If in the vanilla world, how did you show your D/s side?


Master and I had mutual friends in my local community (He lived 150 miles away but came down occasionally to attend munches). I'd seen Him at a munch once, and thought He was interesting, but I was too timid to approach Him. However, He found my personal ad at that other lifestyle site, and emailed me... interestingly enough, about two weeks after a conversation I'd had with one of our mutual friends who told me I needed to meet one Kaptin Purple.

It's interesting, though... of the several hundred people I've met at munches, there's not a single one I've had any interest in. Coupla doms I'd like to take a cane to, but no one I'd ever consider on a more permanent basis.

Denise
the Kaptin's wench



sub4hire -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 9:01:39 PM)

I met Doug in a vanilla chat room.



perverseangelic -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 9:05:02 PM)

He lived in the dorm next to mine and was friends with a former partner.



OscarHargraves -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 10:20:44 PM)

I met my current Sub online almost three years ago thru ALT.com. We talked several times online and then met in person. We hit it off and things went on from there.



harmony3709 -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 10:26:19 PM)

Master and I met through alt and soon after that met in r/t and went from there. However, he had previously attended the munch I usually attend (which we now attend together) and we had a few mutual friends in the local community.

Blessed be,
harmony



Misstoyou -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 10:44:30 PM)

My first contact from my current submissive of seven months was on here. [:)]

I did meet a submissive of mine for many years at a more or less vanilla venue...well, if you call science fiction writers' conventions "vanilla." He was open about his submissivness to me, but then, I inspire people to "share".



lustiwench -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 10:55:48 PM)

Master and I originally met about 9 yrs ago in an AOL chatroom...over the course of the 9 yrs we got together for many long weekends and this past January moved in together. We will be getting married next year.



LADYBOA -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 10:59:46 PM)

I met my sub or poet as I call him .. on collar me



Morgaine289 -> RE: munch or online? (9/28/2005 11:41:46 PM)

I met my husband in June 2000 i a SM chatroom. A year later we moved together and married two years ago.




tigress31047 -> RE: munch or online? (9/29/2005 12:25:38 AM)

I met Master on a webcam based site. W/we had been viewing each others cams for a couple of weeks and chatting in open chat rooms there before He decided to private message me Normally I would not answer any pms but He had caught my eye so I answered Him and it has been a wonderful and adventuaous journey thus far...There are plans for me to move closer to HIm next summer if all continues as well as the first 4 months.

tigress



ElektraUkM -> RE: munch or online? (9/29/2005 1:18:33 AM)

I met Master on a cam site. No-one else I've 'met' online has ever interested me in the same way (or anywhere near). However, it was then almost a year before we were able to meet up R/T. That was earlier this year, and all is going well so far (more or less!).

~ Elektra



Tempestspet -> RE: munch or online? (9/29/2005 1:41:59 AM)

I'll choose otherwise....

I met Master on my parents front porch, when I was 17. I was just myself. I didn't do anything special to show my Ds side of things.... as I didn't totally understand it then myself. I had tendencies.... just kind of chose certain paths, and things...books and what not... that I imagine gave him a clue as to my nature. ... we've been together 15 yrs now...married just over 13 yrs.

Tempest's pet
jennifer




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