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NEW TO MY NEW LIFESTYLE AS SUB - 9/28/2005 3:23:34 PM

dukieshazam

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hello. just getting started as a sub. i am an adult male (70) that looks ,acts,and thinks younger than my years.i know this is my calling and would like to serve a mistress.i am not in to a lot of the hardcore things but am adaptable bearing in mind the dommes wishes are the (dominating ) priority.

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RE: NEW TO MY NEW LIFESTYLE AS SUB - 9/28/2005 4:23:45 PM

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You have come to a good place.
Welcome.

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RE: NEW TO MY NEW LIFESTYLE AS SUB - 9/30/2005 5:45:45 AM

MissDiandSirHugh

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G'Day and Welcome dukieshazam just use patience and explore the site and that will help you in it all

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RE: NEW TO MY NEW LIFESTYLE AS SUB - 9/30/2005 6:50:02 PM

dukieshazam

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i thank you. cant get used to this format. cant search anyone.

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RE: NEW TO MY NEW LIFESTYLE AS SUB - 10/3/2005 6:20:37 PM

dukieshazam

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1 WOULD APPRECIATE IT IF SOMEONE WOULD TELL ME HOW TO SEARCH FOR DOMINANT WOMEN. DONT KNOW THIS FORMAT VERY WELL. THANK YOU IN ADVANCE. DUKIESHAZAN

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i am an adult male looking for an adult domme that i could please as her sub.not into the real heavy things but hopefully an agreement could be reached realizing that her desires are of the most importance

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RE: NEW TO MY NEW LIFESTYLE AS SUB - 10/3/2005 6:42:49 PM

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1 WOULD APPRECIATE IT IF SOMEONE WOULD TELL ME HOW TO SEARCH FOR DOMINANT WOMEN. DONT KNOW THIS FORMAT VERY WELL. THANK YOU IN ADVANCE. DUKIESHAZAN

There have been a number notestreams here about what dominant women want, but this isn't the only medium, nor do I really feel it's the best one. But even here you want to put your best foot forward. Posting in either all lower or all upper case, does not do so.

Have you tried to find offline groups near you? I know of them in Maine and Massachusetts. You might want to check www.darkheart.com/usalist.html to see if there are any near you.

The main piece of advice I can give is to look to your strengths. As one of my friends wrote "I don't want a man on his knees; I want to put him on his knees." Show them something they can value and you have a head start.

Also look for a woman, not for a satisfier of fetish needs. The vast majority of the ones I know get very upset when they discover a man sees them as "a life support system for a whip." Like people everywhere, they want to be valued for themselves.

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RE: NEW TO MY NEW LIFESTYLE AS SUB - 10/26/2005 1:38:27 PM

dukieshazam

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thank you for the advice. there is a munch not too far .meets 2nd sat of month. have gone by the place and looks safe and friendly. will try to make it next event

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