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If you had a one night stand with someone and they disa... - 3/19/2008 4:50:41 PM

dollparts85

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Would you believe them when they said they had been sick and then out of town and busy and stuff?

God, I don't know what to do...the guy I had a one night stand with a few months ago got online today and IMed me...I haven't heard from him in ages...only twice after we met and had sex...once the next day and then once like...4 weeks later, I think. Do I trust him? Or is he just going to hurt me again? I don't know if he is using me or not...

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 4:52:07 PM

Aileen1968

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Ummm...there's a reason why it's called a "one night stand"

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:01:29 PM

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It_seems_likely_that_he_just_wants_to_have_sex_with_someone.

I_know_you_want_a_real_connection_with_someone.

He_led_you_on_to_believe_there_was_something_between_you
and_dropped_out_of_sight...after_getting_what_he_wanted.

Trust_your_instincts_and_the_truth_of_your_experience.

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:04:10 PM

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-- a guy has to come to his own conclusion. it takes men abit longer to go for the real thing. they/we dont have the capacity to easily decipher what love is.

ild say talk to the guy- but dont put out sex. if he sticks around long enuff he is serious- if not- no loss. but it is on YOU to decide what is acceptable to you.

when i moved i purposely decided no one is going to use me in my house. i wont stand for it. therfor i cut off 1 or 2 players- it was fun when i was a renter- but i dont want memories of the user type right here not at the current time.

as an adult- YOU can decide what you will and wont accept. so that is who will in the end decide what your guildines are.

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:06:25 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dollparts85

Would you believe them when they said they had been sick and then out of town and busy and stuff?

God, I don't know what to do...the guy I had a one night stand with a few months ago got online today and IMed me...I haven't heard from him in ages...only twice after we met and had sex...once the next day and then once like...4 weeks later, I think. Do I trust him? Or is he just going to hurt me again? I don't know if he is using me or not...

You said yourself it was a one night stand...in what way could he have hurt you? Did he give the impression that he wanted/wants more? If so, i'm guessing it was easier than saying thanks for the sex.

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:08:24 PM

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He said he wanted to be my boyfriend...and stuff...that I was exactly what he was looking for...etc...

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:08:50 PM

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I'm sorry youre upset. And I am sorry the guy hurt you. You did, however, say it was a one night stand. Me personally, I wouldnt really let it phase me that he had dropped outta sight for a while. Thats what one night stands do. Now, if you guys had some kinda romantic relationship, bf/gf what have you, then I would be concerned and want some answers. Either way sweetie, never put too much stock into a one night stand. Yes, he may have been using you. Yes he may hurt you again. But thats the rules of the game...

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:09:07 PM

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if i was you i would be happy to get a one night stand....

cause i cant even get that!!!!

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:10:02 PM

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And why is that faery???..Somethin wrong with you, or wrong with the ones interested in ya?

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:10:05 PM

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quote:

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He said he wanted to be my boyfriend...and stuff...that I was exactly what he was looking for...etc...

No offense, but it sounds like he said it just for the pussy darlin...

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:11:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: dollparts85

He said he wanted to be my boyfriend...and stuff...that I was exactly what he was looking for...etc...

yeah, the kind of girl to believe his load of crap....like i said to you in the last thread you posted about this, a lot of men will say anything to a girl to get into their panties.

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:12:22 PM

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I would not have met him if I knew he was going to disappear right after. I thought he was interested in me...

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:13:43 PM

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because i am a freak and i scare the hell out of people

FEAR ME!

watcha gonna do when i scare the hell outta you...

bad faery
bad faery

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:14:02 PM

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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dollparts85

He said he wanted to be my boyfriend...and stuff...that I was exactly what he was looking for...etc...

yeah, the kind of girl to believe his load of crap....like i said to you in the last thread you posted about this, a lot of men will say anything to a girl to get into their panties.

yeah :( but why is he IMing me again then? I mean, it's not even like the sex was good...or well, maybe it was for him?

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:14:52 PM

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I would not have met him if I knew he was going to disappear right after. I thought he was interested in me...

Honey, trust me. Some guys are the glue that holds shit on a sidewalk together. They will tell you that they will give you the world, fuck you, and move on for number 2. Its not all Pretty Pretty Princess and Happily Ever After...

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:15:05 PM

christine1

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because he wants another booty call, that is why...tell him to bug off.

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:15:09 PM

Aileen1968

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yeah :( but why is he IMing me again then? I mean, it's not even like the sex was good...or well, maybe it was for him?

Because he wants to get laid.

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:20:01 PM

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It depends, what’s the goal?

If I was hoping to sit around waiting, wondering, buying bridges in Arazona; I say go for it.

If I am hoping for a meaningful relationship, with someone who has time for me, doubtful, but then again; if I were some kind of emotional masochist; who knows.

And you?

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:25:37 PM

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Fear you faery??..whats to fear?....and a freak? pleasssssssse......not at all....nothin to be sckerrred of

lol

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/19/2008 5:28:25 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dollparts85

He said he wanted to be my boyfriend...and stuff...that I was exactly what he was looking for...etc...

I hate to tell you doll but he is just looking for a booty call. Let him have it and he will be gone like the wind again. Until he wants to get laid again........

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