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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:28:06 PM   
christine1


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I did not "use" him. I didn't evne want to have sex.


oh come on OP, start doing what YOU want and what makes YOU happy...you need to take care of yourself first...but you already know that, if you spent as much time trying to happy as you do hosting your pity parties, you'd be a happier girl...see you around.

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:31:06 PM   
dollparts85


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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:41:25 PM   
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If you didnt want to the first time but did it anyway to a negative end result, why would you want to the second time?


b/c I'm lonely?


um....so if you're ok with his treatment of you, then I'm not understanding why you made this post?

no joke, you really need to get your issues taken care of before you try to find a friend or anything else.

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:43:42 PM   
DrkJourney


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I am happy...LOL wtf?


you are????  could've fooled me....lol

and as for "wtf"   you might need to go back and read your responses to the advice given you, then maybe you would see why "we" are the ones going "wtf"?????

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:47:16 PM   
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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:47:59 PM   
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I am happy...LOL wtf?

you're happy? 

ok ...yeah sure you are and i'm the bloody queen of England.  you have a funny way of showing that you're happy being used by a jerk like this guy.





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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:51:28 PM   
dollparts85


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Status: offline 		I'm not happy about being used but in general, I am happy. I just don't know if I should trust him and put myself out there again to be hurt.

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:53:12 PM   
sweetwenchie


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nothing anyone says will do a bit of good if you refuse to listen or even give it a chance. If you come off as lonely and desperate, you will find men willing to use that to get pussy.  Plain and simple.  

work on self esteem and get some happy pills or something, what you are doing now is obviously not working from reading your posts. 

ohhhhhh screw it, i'm with the dark on this one.

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:53:50 PM   
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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:54:33 PM   
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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:56:52 PM   
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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:58:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		So you're the kind of person that is happy that:

1.  They hardly ever leave the house because they're agoraphobic.
2.  They are stuck at home with their parents who make them miserable (see number 1).
3.  They worry worry about every little ache, pain, or noise their body makes (tummy noises, tender skin, sore jaw, etc.)
4.  They have mood issues.
5.  Their dietician cannot even make a suggestion that tender skin/legs might be neuropathy.
6.  Their GP is a jerk.
7.  Their counselors are jerks and just shuffle them around to the next counselor.
8.  Their psychiatric NP won't let them see a psychiatrist for a medication change evaluation.
9.  They don't like sex but meet men off the internet.  For sex.
10.  They are bulimic.
11.  They have PTSD symptoms (not detailed for us as far as I know, but PTSD is not something you carry for life, it is something you have while you're having symptoms) from childhood rape.

That all makes you happy?  Okie dokie.

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 4:59:40 PM   
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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 5:01:21 PM   
sweetwenchie


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Status: offline 		Cali... will you marry me? 

faery, work has been so busy that i've had to actually work rather than goof off on the boards ~sigh~  Work... such an evil little four letter word... 

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 5:02:06 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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I'm not happy about being used but in general, I am happy. I just don't know if I should trust him and put myself out there again to be hurt.

you speak of trust as if you're in a solid relationship with this guy however you're not.  no matter how much you deny this - you're not in a relationship with him, doll, especially not after he disappears for months. 

this desperate needy low self-esteem act you have going here will continuely attract one-night stand men. hate to be harsh right now but that's the type of woman these men look for ...someone to use for sex and nothing else.


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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 5:03:49 PM   
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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 5:04:16 PM   
dollparts85


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Status: offline 		I have my own apartment...LOL and 5 animals that love me and I take care of. I have some very good online friends that support me. I am doing well with my eating disorder and am stable. I am eating without over eating. I am going out on a regular basis. I'm not crying constantly for the first time in years. Might not be the best life, but I feel the best I have in a very very long time.

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 5:06:04 PM   
GreedyTop


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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 5:07:59 PM   
christine1


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Albert Einstein once said “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”.


thank you MissMagnolia for helping me see that it is insane to post here again trying to help....(and that i might actually truly be insane, but that is fucking not the point right now is it? no, it isn't.  yes it is!  no it isn't!  shut the fuck up!  no, you shut the fuck up!)

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RE: If you had a one night stand with someone and they ... - 3/20/2008 5:10:42 PM   
giveeverything


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(cannot say more because Mod 11 and I have an understanding).

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