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Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 11:03:07 AM   
GoddessTeaze


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Does anyone of Yyou use eding in the training of boys , when they aren't allowed to cum?
curious how you sluts like/hate that...
And what Your experiances are!

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 11:13:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have experienced this first hand. It can be a very powerful tool in training a boy. It reinforces submission and has plethora of other mental benefits. You could even take it a step further and practice prostate milking.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 4:16:20 PM   
Poetryinpain


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Status: offline 		OK - red-faced  newbie here. What is edging? I get the impression from the context of the replies that it is something Dommes do to their male subs.

Do I really want to know? I'm neither a Domme nor a male sub.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 6:37:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		My boy's can not cum without permission when I am around.  When they play together I allow them to cum on there own, but only if they are playing together.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 7:36:28 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Edging is a confusing term that should be avoided whenever possible.

Basically they mean orgasm denial- working someone up to the point of orgasm, but not allowing actual orgasm.

My partner has the perfect love/hate relationship for it, and I love it also.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 7:44:34 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		He does this to me all the time...not for training, but for his amusement.  Sometimes I get relief, sometimes I do not.  It might last a short while or.....forever (at least it feels that way).  Any time he works "riles me up" I never know what the end result will be - - relief or prolonged agony without relief.  He owns my orgasms and they are never guaranteed.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 8:10:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		i never had the privilege to experience edging but i would assume and get the feeling that it is the ultimate feeling of control!! Having to be denied what we crave for and giving that feeling to the Dominant party is a very stimulating feeling!! The whole purpose of being dominated for the submissive is to reach the stage that his under as to being stimulated to reach climax, and then to be denied??? What more sadistic and painfully aware he or she would feel of reminding the subject of the control that his Dominant has over him or she?? It also helps the submissive to built its respect towards his Dominant partner

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 8:44:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've had a bit of experiance with it- it never made me feel particularly subby- just frustrated and aggressive. I can switch on the fly, and edging is one of those things that will send me into dominant mode in seconds.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 9:05:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		AHAA!! This is where you can show strength of control and true discipline at the hardest of times!! i can sense the feeling of frustration but i think the feeling of power given to the D and the feeling of control of being able to do this by the submissive can have enormous grounds and limits explored!! This is where the strength of character can show for the submissive and the satisfaction he can have by sacrificing his or her satisfaction to please the Dominant.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 9:09:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		I just found someone starting me on that track, and it's torture to start out with...but I think it will be very nice in the end.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 9:15:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		I believe what (the appropriately named) Goddess Teaze is referring to is masturbating to the 'edge' of climax, stopping, cooling down (a lot or a little), and doing it all again. Being a big fan of orgasm control in general and tease & denial in particular, I have quite a bit of experience with it and it's something I throughly enjoy. The intense feelings of desire it generates are incredibly powerful and can put me in a very submissive head-space. It's great fun.

On the rare occasions I'm dominant with a woman, I love using it as well, because it generates those illicit feelings of craving.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 9:19:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		My orgasms belong to My Lord.  Whether I have them or not, when I do, how long they last, and the intensity are entirely up to him.  Bringing me to the edge and pulling me back is one of the many, many tools in his arsenal.  I find it pleasurable to a point, and it is usually beyond that point that he takes me.  Only when he chooses do I get to reach completion, and it is the trust in knowing that relief will come through him that I find exciting.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/20/2008 10:39:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: StormsSlave

I find it pleasurable to a point, and it is usually beyond that point that he takes me. 


I relate to this.  I am typically in tearful agony by the time he stops.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/21/2008 1:07:24 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
quote:

ORIGINAL: StormsSlave
I find it pleasurable to a point, and it is usually beyond that point that he takes me.

I relate to this. I am typically in tearful agony by the time he stops.


But isn't that half the fun?

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/21/2008 5:26:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		i use it as a punishment for my pet.  the last i did that to him, he had to wait 2 days (i was on the road with a band) until i gave him permission to cum. now he thinks twice about disobeying me.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/21/2008 11:32:19 AM   
solvr70


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Status: offline 		oh, i LOVE being kept on the edge of cumming. more more "stimulation" there is, with keeping me on the edge of cumming, the more wanton and open to trying new things i become.

who knows, after a couple of hours, i could be ready to take on all comers when i'm at that level!


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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/21/2008 12:24:56 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Boondoggle

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
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ORIGINAL: StormsSlave
I find it pleasurable to a point, and it is usually beyond that point that he takes me.

I relate to this. I am typically in tearful agony by the time he stops.


But isn't that half the fun?




It actually becomes more overwhelming than fun, especially after prolonged off and on for several days without relief.  But he loves it so it thrills me.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/21/2008 12:29:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		People tend to try to ignore how the physical affects the mental side of humans. Which is silly, when you consider that the body is the programming route for the control module. I prefer the integrated approach.

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/21/2008 10:35:46 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: Boondoggle

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
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ORIGINAL: StormsSlave
I find it pleasurable to a point, and it is usually beyond that point that he takes me.

I relate to this. I am typically in tearful agony by the time he stops.


But isn't that half the fun?




It actually becomes more overwhelming than fun, especially after prolonged off and on for several days without relief.  But he loves it so it thrills me.


Days??!!  Holy whips and chains, Batman!  I think a few minutes is tough...lmao.  The longest has been an hour or so.  {shudders}  Hope My Lord doesn't read this one...lol 

edited to add:
Leatherist: I agree wholeheartedly.  For me, it always begins in the head. 

< Message edited by StormsSlave -- 3/21/2008 10:36:44 PM >

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RE: Who uses edging with restriction? - 3/21/2008 10:42:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: StormsSlave

Days??!!  Holy whips and chains, Batman!  I think a few minutes is tough...lmao.  The longest has been an hour or so.  {shudders}  Hope My Lord doesn't read this one...lol 


LOL well I'm not on that hard edge for days at a time, but, for example, several times a day for extended periods of time....for several days in a row.  It's pretty excruciating, though.  Holy whips and chains works, lol. :)

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