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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/22/2008 11:38:49 PM

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I cannot offer large sums of money but everything else is completely do-able. Just being anothers property would be my only concern. Doing all of the things required is part of what it means to be "property". Given the chance do this completely is where I am in life. That's the part of this I hope to covey to this forum. I am not into this for the sexual side, although I would hope that would occure. My dedication to fulfilling someone elses life would be my goal.

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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/22/2008 11:38:49 PM

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metric asston

That's a scientific unit, right? I'm pretty sure I saw that in the Journal of Cosmology and Astropartical Physics a few months ago...

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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/22/2008 11:42:10 PM

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metric asston

That's a scientific unit, right? I'm pretty sure I saw that in the Journal of Cosmology and Astropartical Physics a few months ago...

A metric asston is more than a metric butt-ton, but less than a metric fuckton.

Now you know... and knowing is half the battle! (The other half is probably violence.)

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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/23/2008 6:40:23 AM

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tammyjo,

It was meant to be tounge in cheek. But, there are some I know of who have gone that far. The thing is, I should have mitigated that list with the Dom/me also having the right and responsibility to put you to work to support their household, tell you what possesions you may have, what hobbies you may persue.

(If I were to ever be in a position of being a full time Dom, you can bet your butt that I would get everything out of a sub that I could. Sexual pleasure, income, housework, and creativity. I'm kind of a romantic that way. I see being Dom as one part slave driver, one part latin lover, and one part "My Fair Lady." I'm the same way with the dogs I train to hunt. Take basic materials and turn them into something more than what they were.) LOL

That's how I pretty much operate expect when I "get the most from" Fox I make sure that he is also supported -- has his own bank account, keeps his skills updated, knows full well he has the right to leave at any time though there are honest consequences from that as there would be in any relationship.

I also have to take care of me and the rest of my family so I can't allow myself to become dependent on Fox -- emotionally that is probably one of the most difficult things to do but I try. So to be my slave (not a generic slave) someone has to be wiling to accept those limits from me.

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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/23/2008 6:47:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: passinandy

I cannot offer large sums of money but everything else is completely do-able. Just being anothers property would be my only concern. Doing all of the things required is part of what it means to be "property". Given the chance do this completely is where I am in life. That's the part of this I hope to covey to this forum. I am not into this for the sexual side, although I would hope that would occure. My dedication to fulfilling someone elses life would be my goal.

Please try not to get offended by what I'm writing here, passinandy.

You cannot know for certain if things are doable for you until you try things out slowly. I stand my by advice of getting involved and trying things out before you jump into any 24/7 situation. If you try things out slowly, with different folks and then slowly with an individual, you'll not only learn what is truly doable for you but also if that person is an appropriate match for you.

You aren't going to be kidnapped and sold in an illegal market (or let's pray you aren't) so that means you need to work on figuring out what is best for you and finding a very good match. Or to paraphrase my own slave: being a slave is hard work, it does not end your responsibilities or issues only changes some of them.

Being a slave (I use that word in a very particular way that some reading will recognize by now) is not appropriate for most people. Take the time to learn, experience, and grow before you can honestly say what is best for you. The initial years of getting involved in the scene can be one of the most exciting times of your life but it can also be frustrating because you are learning about yourself and others, ripping apart the fantasy and seeing the reality (hopefully).

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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/23/2008 7:47:36 AM

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Even those of us in 24/7 relationships need to do laundry, go to the grocery store, get the oil changed in the car etc. And I'm not wearing fetish wear for any of those things.

When I was 16 I used to think it was awesome to wear bondage gear out in public. Just to like, y'know, go down to Johnny Rocket's and get a peanut butter milkshake would require a metric asston of fishnet, leather, and metal. Most people just rolled their eyes and commented about those damn fool kids.

I wonder if I could still get away with it now... hmmm.... I smell a social experiment coming up!

Please keep us informed as to the when and where....I think that's an experiment i would like to see

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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/26/2008 3:09:48 AM

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Do you really wanna find out?? Take a trip up eastern europe and pretend your needy and hungry and desperate for a job... Somebody will offer you a job entertaining customers, until you get bundled up and sent to {Real slavery}!!

LMFAO! and yet sad because it's true

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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/26/2008 5:24:47 AM

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Lol. I love the sarcasm on these boards.

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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/26/2008 11:54:31 AM

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I too am concerned about you writing a line about your lifestyle colliding with your true personna. It sounds like you are still very fantasy based, and I am not sure what you think will happen if you are suddenly "owned". Life is very mundane, and you are not going to be able (in most cases) to simply throw over a job and just move in with a Domina who will support you as you run about cleaning in your pretties. Forgive Me if I am reading this wrong.
Please carefuly read (re-read and read yet again!) what Tammijo has written to you on this subject. I am on that same page, and she has already expressed it much better than I could.

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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/26/2008 12:02:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: Saint

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ORIGINAL: passinandy

I have been on here for some time. I have not posted but do read extensively. I am looking to change my life for good. I would love to serve a Mistress 24/7. My lifestyle is collideing with my real persona and it's time to move on. I am unsure as to what it takes to do this.

Take a look at the other threads on what Mistresses are looking for. You are asking what it takes to move on and become a slave? Well, for starters make sure that you are financially stable in a career that makes about 2-3 times above the average wage limit of the typical american worker. That is your first step and perhaps the most important one to get noticed. Then make sure you have a complete lack of personal standards and morals about the people around you. Give up your hope and faith in human nature and realize that most people will not recognize or respect your self-sacrifices. Get rid of any illusions or false ideas you may have and be ready to be disappointed if you do not meet the above criteria of being wealthy enough to put a Mistress into the lifestyle that she is 'accustomed' to. That in a nutshell is what it will take for you to fully move on and perhaps find a Mistress. Hate to be a downer or naysayer here, but a willingness to serve and please is simply not enough anymore without a vast paycheck behind it.

This is pure and utter buillshit. Yet you persist in this bitter attitude even with a second post. It is the attitude and the wilingness to obedience and being owned. If you want to be a bottom who plays, but keeps everything else to yourself (including paychecks) then say so, and only speak to those who might be interested in a "slave" who wants to really be a roomate with benefits.
I know many Dominas and none of them are overly concerned wth the amount of a paycheck or assets.
So I think you better look to yourself, your attitude and double think where you are looking and who you are contacting...or who is contacting you.
Pfft...

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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/26/2008 12:26:32 PM

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Oh,. bullcrap. Akasha doesn't even let her slave work outside the home, and I don't think I've ever been in a situation where my submissive partner made more money than I did. I've had one vanilla-with-sprinkles partner who made a lot more than me and paid a greater share of the household expenses so we could have a higher standard of living, but all of my long term slaves/subs either have not worked outside the home or made the same or less than me, with household expenses split down the middle.

I'm sorry you're so angry and bitter because you can't find a partner who wants you for yourself. But I don't know many dommes or vanilla women for that matter who would want an angry, bitter, negative person who blames other people's faults for their inability to find a partner.

Who someone is as a person is a lot more important to me than how much money they make. Obviously if someone is a non-job-having, parents-basement-living, video-game-addicted loser who simply doesn't have the social skills or maturity level to be a self supporting adult, they're lousy relationship material. They don't have the skills or maturity level to sustain a relationship either. But someone who was seriously involved and dedicated in, say, a science or research field that didn't pay for shit could be really excellent relationship material despite their lack of funds. Or for that matter someone who did have his act together as a reliable, mature adult with a work ethic, but who really wanted to work inside the home as a personal assistant and housekeeper. I'd accept a lower standard of living or take on more work responsibilities to pay the household expenses for a good slave/partner like that.

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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/26/2008 12:33:46 PM

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Why are you here? All I've ever seen you post is nasty bitter stuff about whatever...

why bother?

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ORIGINAL: Saint

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ORIGINAL: passinandy

I have been on here for some time. I have not posted but do read extensively. I am looking to change my life for good. I would love to serve a Mistress 24/7. My lifestyle is collideing with my real persona and it's time to move on. I am unsure as to what it takes to do this.

Take a look at the other threads on what Mistresses are looking for. You are asking what it takes to move on and become a slave? Well, for starters make sure that you are financially stable in a career that makes about 2-3 times above the average wage limit of the typical american worker. That is your first step and perhaps the most important one to get noticed. Then make sure you have a complete lack of personal standards and morals about the people around you. Give up your hope and faith in human nature and realize that most people will not recognize or respect your self-sacrifices. Get rid of any illusions or false ideas you may have and be ready to be disappointed if you do not meet the above criteria of being wealthy enough to put a Mistress into the lifestyle that she is 'accustomed' to. That in a nutshell is what it will take for you to fully move on and perhaps find a Mistress. Hate to be a downer or naysayer here, but a willingness to serve and please is simply not enough anymore without a vast paycheck behind it.

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RE: What does it take to become a full time slave? - 3/28/2008 11:36:05 AM

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I would be a full time slave only in the case of falling in love with my Mistress
I mean I just want to live by her
To belong to her
I am good when she is good
You know what I mean ?
Only in the case of falling in Love
But otherwise how you serve full time ?
Some times you are your self right ?
You can not be always slave right ?
When you are your self some times you think... what a idiot I am ?
No , Only in the case of love , I could be the full time slave ?
And also being myslef too not just a slave all the time
You know what I mean ?

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