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cjan -> RE: "The GooD Submissive" (3/22/2008 1:29:34 PM)

Interesting analogies  and contrasts berween, on the one hand, creating a wooden vessel by turning it on the wheel and "working" it to suit the artist's wishes ( given certaint limitations within the wood itself, of course), while on the other hand, how a sculptor already sees the form inside the material and employs his skill to simply chip away at the unnecessary to free the form within. Always keping in mind, of course, that people are neither wood nor stone.



SimplyMichael -> RE: "The GooD Submissive" (3/22/2008 1:50:47 PM)

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And no article can give you that, by any author.


So every how-to book has equal value?  None are better than others?   Who would buy a book on painting that had no pictures?  Who would buy a book on writing that was all pictures?

The article reads to me like a "how to fuck" book that has beautiful language about things like "use ones creativity to create a pleasurable sensation in other" which to anyone who has actually had sex is clearly worthless as advice.  Anyone who can do that doesn't need a book and if  you are trying to do that for the first time, that advice tells you nothing.

It is like the word communication, people toss it around like it means something specific, "communicate with your partner" doesn't tell someone what, how, or when to communicate.  Another perfect example is "be yourself" great advice but again, sort of grossly oversimplifies a very difficult process.

However, if the passage floats your boat, climb in.  I suggest you take some Anne Ryand with you to read on the voyage.



petpete -> RE: "The GooD Submissive" (3/22/2008 2:19:46 PM)

It forgot to make a mention also that the good submissive comes with his own software to be programmed with..



ownedgirlie -> RE: "The GooD Submissive" (3/22/2008 4:37:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

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And no article can give you that, by any author.


So every how-to book has equal value?  None are better than others?   Who would buy a book on painting that had no pictures?  Who would buy a book on writing that was all pictures?


If you quoted me in context, the question answers itself:

"I think since we are all unique individuals, all anyone can write about are concepts, when it comes to reaching what's in a person's psyche.  Not only is she unqualified, but everyone on this message board is unqualified, to say specifically what each unique individual needs in order to reach his/her core. You are right in what you said, to reach someone's core requires actual knowledge, experience and understanding of the person whose core is being ventured into.  And no article can give you that, by any author."

So unless you can find a how-to book that tells me how to reach my personal inner psyche, given the personal path I have traveled in life, specific only to me, then I stand by what I said.


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However, if the passage floats your boat, climb in.  I suggest you take some Anne Ryand with you to read on the voyage.


It didn't float my boat. I never said it did float my boat.  I just said I didn't see the message others were seeing.  And you apparently didn't see mine, or if you did, you ignored it. 



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