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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/23/2008 2:59:19 PM

spinninsweetness

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I find myself more turned off by the cig than the dead bird!

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/23/2008 4:19:39 PM

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I'd peg the main profile picture and the hunting pic as approximately 1979-1985. Is the pic of the two of you on the porch what you really look like now? If so, dump the rest and just go with that one.

And the profile spacing looks like you copied and pasted it from another site. Make it left alignment, and drop the extra paragraph stops. Only short headings should be centered, otherwise it's too difficult to read.

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/23/2008 6:50:22 PM

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Well one the photo of the two of us is to date ty.
The the other with the turkey is understandable .
Smoke yes i do and if know one like it so what I work and pay for them you don't kiss that.
And tell more about my self why don't some of you do the same I've read some of your .
And as for as my photo's they are of us some of the one's I've seen on here are from web site or mag.

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/23/2008 6:52:15 PM

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I liked the turkey shot.

( I did like it )

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/23/2008 7:13:01 PM

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Thanks bout ever one else don't so going now .
But all photo's where taking with in a three year time frame.

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/23/2008 7:23:23 PM

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Just because someone else uses a model photo from a magazine doesn't mean it's right or that you should do it too. If your main profile photo was taken within three years of the porch photo, then send it to me and I'll eat the paper it's printed on. And the yellowed/green tinged turkey photo? No way. That was not taken within three years. Even debilitating illness would not explain how you aged approximately 15 to 20 years in three years.

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/23/2008 7:24:35 PM

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Like what your say ?

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/23/2008 7:36:36 PM

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I have no idea what that sentence means. By the way, you might want to review your sig line. I think you mean POLY family, not PLOY family.

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/23/2008 9:19:51 PM

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I'm not real very good at this online and my typing sucks

If you are not very good at typing and online writing, then why are you using this medium for your search. You might do much better at munches and events where typing and writing skills are not required and where your personality can shine through.

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/24/2008 3:23:45 AM

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Yes ty i would love the help I'm not real very good at this online and my typing sucks

A suggestion: dictate what you want in your profile to a member of your current poly family and have them type it. Secretarial skills aren't beneath them.

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/24/2008 3:39:36 AM

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MB : You need to grab a copy of the manual of the "successful "D" who sells it : i don't know, who wrote it : don't ask...

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/24/2008 4:45:18 AM

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What fascinates me with these guys from the poly groups is that its hard enough for people to find one partner and here you got these greedy rascals who want them all????!!!!

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/24/2008 5:12:45 AM

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It not greedy it just another part of the life style like your I don't judge your so why judge my

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What fascinates me with these guys from the poly groups is that its hard enough for people to find one partner and here you got these greedy rascals who want them all????!!!!

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/24/2008 5:27:49 AM

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Well better don't sound too demanding then and have patients like everybody else has... Your not owed any and anyone that does come does so on there own free will.. So just wait for it to happen MB.

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/24/2008 5:32:35 AM

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We know and will be waiting .and any who do will be treated as they're needs desire

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Well better don't sound too demanding then and have patients like everybody else has... Your not owed any and anyone that does come does so on there own free will.. So just wait for it to happen MB.

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/24/2008 5:41:41 AM

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i was approached long ago to become part of a poly family , i could not do it nor entertain the idea .
the Dom handled everything and answered for his sub , there was not an oppurtunity given to discuss things with her and talk to her one on one , i was told she was shy , lol , i was given a list of this is what i will be , what i will do and what i will give up , get rid of , be expected to give financially etc , the list was more of i give they take and i should be happy with that . i expressed what i felt were genuine problems for discussion and i was told it wasnt for me to worry about just do what i am told and it will be okay ... all i can say is those were red flag after red flag and my advice is if you find somone interested , even just curious , make sure its not all about you and your expectations and needs and wants , subs / slaves have basic human needs wants feelings too , and dont discount their fears , talk openly and do make them feel comfortable in talking from the onset and take your time , dont rush them ...

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RE: Help I need to know what I'm doing wrong - 3/24/2008 5:59:36 AM

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I under stand that and we will be willing talk to them and help them with they're troubles if we can. We are open to any who wish to talk about it and she SUB willing to Discuss it with any one if they are not wishing to talk to the dom .
We are trying to be pushy but under standing .We wanting some one to fit in with us as a family member .

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i was approached long ago to become part of a poly family , i could not do it nor entertain the idea .
the Dom handled everything and answered for his sub , there was not an oppurtunity given to discuss things with her and talk to her one on one , i was told she was shy , lol , i was given a list of this is what i will be , what i will do and what i will give up , get rid of , be expected to give financially etc , the list was more of i give they take and i should be happy with that . i expressed what i felt were genuine problems for discussion and i was told it wasnt for me to worry about just do what i am told and it will be okay ... all i can say is those were red flag after red flag and my advice is if you find somone interested , even just curious , make sure its not all about you and your expectations and needs and wants , subs / slaves have basic human needs wants feelings too , and dont discount their fears , talk openly and do make them feel comfortable in talking from the onset and take your time , dont rush them ...

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