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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 7:24:04 PM   
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I don't see how the first is alarming in the slightest. I haven't done the amount of research I deem needed on either the Vietnam or the current war to have an opinion that I am willing to be held to. To feel well-informed I would have studied both in a depth I have not had time for while attending college and most of the information I get about either from the media is biased. I am more informed about the Vietnam but at this point do not feel I have enough information to state positively either way. I have a leaning, which I will disclose if you are interested but no firm opinions.

As for the second... in theory, those who are making the decisions have been placed in these positions because they are intelligent, preferably have military experience, know what battles can be won, know what to avoid, how to talk and hopefully can end things quickly. Think George Washington, Teddy Roosevelt, etc. Now, if this is the practice currently... I'm not sure. I have a leaning, but nothing I'd feel comfortable being held to.

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 7:27:29 PM   
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Okay. I understand time and other constraints. I only graduated from college when I was 40!

Please tell me, though, that you at least went to the Web site, before you posted about who should send others to die?




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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 7:56:20 PM   
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Please tell me, though, that you at least went to the Web site, before you posted about who should send others to die?


I looked over it though not in great depth. At this particular point, I'm not sure how I feel about using the memory of the dead to suit a political agenda.

However, while I not convinced either way about this particular war, I am convinced there are things and situations which require fighting and, sadly, dying. That was the only point I was trying to make, I apologize for the hijack.

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 7:57:45 PM   
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No hijack and your thoughts are very welcome. I've always enjoyed your posts. :)

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 8:02:00 PM   
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I do my best.

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 8:02:33 PM   
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Your best is freaking awesome. Love it!

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 8:08:32 PM   
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It may be worth dying over certain things, but the occupation of Iraq hardly seems like a just cause. I certainly wouldn't die for it - and I'm lucky I can make that decision. Four thousand American soldiers... Nearly ninety thousand Iraqi civilians deaths, and counting... yes, it's senseless.

http://www.iraqbodycount.org/

I'd like to add that there's nothing wrong with a political agenda. Everything is political, including the war. To argue that the link subtee pasted on her thread is "political", and to dismiss it as such, is disingenuous. The war is political. The desire for peace is political. We are political animals.

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 8:10:02 PM   
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subtee:

No argument here. I say let's start packing up right now. We need to get out as soon as is safely possible. And I mean out, with nothing left behind and nothing to show for our troubles. Just go.

It was all idiocy from day one. And Americans bought it completely.

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 8:16:58 PM   
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CelticLord and SubAquatic, again, with all due respect, it is one thing to sit in the comfort and safety of one's home or, say, in a pub and philosophize about war and politics and ponder abstractions. It is quite another to have experiences like angelbluewinzs has had,  and shared with us here, or so many other "idealists" who have gone off to war, for whatever cause or reason, and experienced the actual  horror of it.

Now, I'm not interested in debating post war Iraq or the consequences of  withdrawing "Coalition" forces from that country. Frankly, I don't give a shit. The current U.S. supported Iraqi. Malaki government is well on it's way to solidifying relations with Iran and that will have it's own consequences. It's a done deal. My concern is for U.S. soldiers ,already exhausted from multiple tours of duty there, as are their families at home. How many more need die and be maimed for a stupid, lost blunder ? Tell me, please, how many ?

The other, and perhaps more important reason I won't debate the politics is because I don't think that is the topic the OP had in mind in starting this thread. Maybe I'm wrong on this, if so, please let us know, OP.


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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 8:23:55 PM   
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I don't see how the first is alarming in the slightest. I haven't done the amount of research I deem needed on either the Vietnam or the current war to have an opinion that I am willing to be held to. To feel well-informed I would have studied both in a depth I have not had time for while attending college and most of the information I get about either from the media is biased. I am more informed about the Vietnam but at this point do not feel I have enough information to state positively either way. I have a leaning, which I will disclose if you are interested but no firm opinions.

As for the second... in theory, those who are making the decisions have been placed in these positions because they are intelligent, preferably have military experience, know what battles can be won, know what to avoid, how to talk and hopefully can end things quickly. Think George Washington, Teddy Roosevelt, etc. Now, if this is the practice currently... I'm not sure. I have a leaning, but nothing I'd feel comfortable being held to.

Edited for typo


Ummm, I suppose you are refering here to George W Bush, Dick Cheney, Paul Wolfowitz, et al, all of whom never served in the military ( please don't tell me about W's National Guard "champagne' duty). Think about it.


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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 8:57:23 PM   
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If these, the parents and families of those killed are willing to hold them up for the rest of us to look and understand, who are we to turn our heads away?


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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 10:08:26 PM   
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And what if achieving a strong Iraqi government is not achievable? Do you condemn the dead in the same way? Haven't we made it worse?


The more challenging question is what should the US do if a strong democratic government is not possible in Iraq.  Strong government is what the Iraqis had in Saddam Hussein.

Could the US abandon pretext of democratic government in favor of a regime strong enough to hold the country together?

...a regime strong enough to hold the country together?"

You mean like the one the Smirking Chimp overthrew in an illegal invasion of a sovereign nation based on fabricated "evidence" from Dumsfeld's working group on shutting down Tenet?

Almost a trillion dollars looted from the taxpayer, the most corrupt and dysfunctional regime in American history, the sheer incompetance of the neocons, a bankrupt country, the economy headed for a depression, and the best the righties can come up with is "replace Saddam with A Saddam"? OMG hahahahaha even Rod Serling couldn't make this shit up. Surreal.

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 10:11:56 PM   
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 It's a done deal. My concern is for U.S. soldiers ,already exhausted from multiple tours of duty there, as are their families at home. How many more need die and be maimed for a stupid, lost blunder ? Tell me, please, how many ?


When the goverment decides to pull head out of  arse.



in response to my drunk driving xtra. people cry over 4000 people who have served and died for their country yet more than 10000 people die every year from drunk driving and very little of the pouplation gives a crap .........

so why give a crap about 4000 over 5 years......

yes it is a callous way to look at it but OFW

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 10:14:01 PM   
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If these, the parents and families of those killed are willing to hold them up for the rest of us to look and understand, who are we to turn our heads away?




          It isn't that simple, Tee.  If the site gets regular updates, there are 4000 names on there.  Are you suggesting that every parent and/or widow is endorsing this???  A significant percentage?  A few Cindy Sheehan wannabees who assume they can speak for everybody?

         Those names don't belong to that organization.

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 10:16:57 PM   
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No I'm not suggesting every parent endorses this. However, I don't think that the rest of us should look away from these parents that have lost a child in this war and from their perspective having suffered so. Did you go to the Web site?

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 10:19:58 PM   
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Interesting link in the New York Times. Meet the dead soldiers.

http://www.nytimes.com/ref/us/20061228_3000FACES_TAB1.html




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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 10:24:39 PM   
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in response to my drunk driving xtra. people cry over 4000 people who have served and died for their country yet more than 10000 people die every year from drunk driving and very little of the pouplation gives a crap .........

so why give a crap about 4000 over 5 years......

yes it is a callous way to look at it but OFW


SirRober, don't forget to wear your helmet while you ride your scooter.

Ok, I'm gonna put a sock in it for awhile and listen to others' points of view.


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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 10:39:06 PM   
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Did you go to the Web site?



     Yes I did, Tee.  As far as I'm concerned, the only person who will ever have the rights to that list will be the artist someday commissioned to carve the names in stone.

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/24/2008 10:39:42 PM   
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angel,I want to get back to you on this first, right now.

"Myself and another fellow inspected the bag that the man was so hell bent on keeping hold of. It was his daughters body, or at least some of it. until that moment I didn't even know why we were there. "

Are you talking about 1991 ?

The first thing I want to say is that I do not want to hurt you in any way. I think it a sign of strength in fact to write what you wrote. You are probably among our bravest and best, and if I were wearing a hat it would come off. I mean that, I really mean that. They tell you of all these horrible things and goings on and you are led to believe that you are doing right, possibly that you are even the hand of God or some Creator. They get you to lay down, or at least risk your life, and those who started the mess would never dream of doing so, in fact they are the most protected people in the world.

We, the civvies, will gladly stand beside you against any attacker, but back then we had not been attacked since Pearl Harbor.

I read your profile and you seem to value the truth, so that is what you get. Wars are fought over material gains. The only exception that comes to mind is the holy wars many centuries ago. How did Rome pick her adversaries ?

The land itself is a material asset. The fact of the matter is that when we aren't looking basically Israel is going to pull the wool over our eyes like they did in 1967 to further the Zionist goal of "Greater Israel". I have seen the map and they want alot. But it is clear that they do not intend to use Iraq for population much, or consider the land arable, otherwide they would not have allowed us to use depleted uranium weapons there. Yes you read that right.

Long time ago, there was a shortage of phosphorous. It was bad, and this is an element, we can't make it, not at all. The material was needed for two important things,among a few others, but the major two were TV sets, which are their modicum of control over the population, and phoshour bronze, bearings for submarines, in fact quite a few vessels that travel the sea. President Diem was not being very friendly to us and had to be removed. Thus the assassination and war. I know people who were there, and once we controlled the areas where the phosporous was located we started mining at full capacity day and night. I know people who were there.

Now Serbia, I see a parallel, but I cannot say for sure, but from what I have gleaned, and this is from all over the place, Serbia has cadmium. Cadmium is very important to any nuclear technology. It plays a very important role and therefore is important, being an element of course we cannot make it.

The only assumption I could make is that Milesovic turned on them. He wouldn't play ball anymore. He was fine up until one day. Then they moved against him. They found a way to co-opt the cadmium miner's union(s), and used that as a foothold to start a coup. Milesovic's people put it down, but then every mangled body was considered blood on his hands. If he was in the good graces of the powers that be, his ethnic cleansing would have been called restoring order and rule of law.

You think I am kidding ? Look at all the tyrannical governments we support. Look at Iraq, we PUT Saddam in power. Literally. It happened back when Iran had the hostages from the US embassy, for a hundred and how many days ? Every day on the TV there was the number of days they had been held. Where is that media blitzkrieg (sp) coverage now ?

The world thinks we are a piece of shit andf I am starting to agree. That does not take away from the sacrifice you made for our country, that stands. You acted bravely and effectively in our name and don't think for a moment that we do not appreciate what you did.And don't think for a moment that I don't understand the scars impressed on your mind by the experience. I admit that mine are not as deep.

But I know what it is, just not as severly.

I really appreciate your fortitude and honesty posting that post. It caught my eye because it gives a more down to Earth description of what war is like. I have been in a few scuffles, bad ones but nothing like that.

And the main problem I have with war is the reasons. And there is one other thing, if you value the truth, it is very likely that the child was killed with American weapons. You can naysay all you want, but it is still almost certain. You see Saddam was armed by the US previously.

So either way that is my tax dollars at work. I do not like that.

The thing is with Iraq, we started the whole fucking mess in the first place. Why ?

We started Vietnam, We started Korea, in each case tring to influence their government, while still propping up others. Why ?

I got along with the Junkman, he was tough, twenty years my senior and had a reputation. He was bad and he was tough. He was known to kick some ass. Word on the street was not to fuck with the Junkman. I got along with him, he too valued the truth, and those who he did not get along with usually had lied to him. He quit drinking eventually but I knew him before that. One day we are bullshitting and this was a day after he had a bad night kinda, he says "I looked in the mirror and asked myself why ? ".

That makes sense along with what one of the founding Fathers said, something to the effect that if you really want to test a Man's character, give him power. That came clear to me. I hadn't even heard it yet. I think it was Lincoln but I could be wrong. But the concept.

The concept of having strength and not throwing it around, it seems to elude people today.

I post this because I appreciate the work you did, risking life and limb, all that, but I have a problem with your boss. He caused that terrible experience. Not you.

Folks, this person has brought in a small glimpse of what war really is. The part of it you will not experience in the armchair. It is simply wrong to sit there and say "Yup we gotta go in" without knowing what that means.

Had the Man angel and company happened across on that road been much younger and armed, he would have engaged those members of the occupying force. You are talking bloodshed.

And if war came to us, I would be right there, but we brought war to them.Which brings us back to that question :

Why ?

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RE: Please don't look away - 3/25/2008 2:22:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subtee

Did you go to the Web site?



    Yes I did, Tee.  As far as I'm concerned, the only person who will ever have the rights to that list will be the artist someday commissioned to carve the names in stone.



I have to agree with Heretic. No matter how noble the cause, they don't have the right to put names of the fallen anywhere without permission from the families. Not too long ago, a man sued a T shirt company for putting his son's name on a t shirt that had pretty much the same goal as this site. The man asked him to take his son's name off the shirt, because his son did not believe that what he was doing was fighting in vain.  Not everyone sees these soldiers as dieing in vain. They were serving their country.
As for the political side, I hate this war. I come from a military family, I have One brother there now, Another that may be going in a few months (he will leave for bootcamp a week after his 18th birthday), several close cousins that are there, countless childhood friends, and several close friends. Everytime I hear about more deaths in Iraq, My heart stops, until I can be sure everyone in my prayers is safe. Then I feel extreme guilt for having that 'thank god it hasn't touched ME' feeling.
I hate this war, However, I would never ever fault the soldiers for it. They didn't ask to be taken away from their fmilies, but they have gone, because they made a commitment. I do not support this war, but I support the soldiers. 

and personally on another topic, would love to slap the SHIT out of those Westboro baptist church hatemongers that protest the soldiers funerals. I am usually a pretty peaceful, to each his own type of person, but I would like to take a high voltage cattle prod to those creeps.

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