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breathplay - 9/30/2005 3:44:37 PM   
lokmyk


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any mistresses out there that practise breathplay to the passing out point? which methods do you use ?
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RE: breathplay - 9/30/2005 3:58:51 PM   
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any mistresses out there that practise breathplay to the passing out point? which methods do you use ?


Anyone wanting to try breath control should read this essay first. There are some risk that I didn't know about for years.

http://members.aol.com/OldRope/breamain.htm


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RE: breathplay - 9/30/2005 3:59:01 PM   
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any mistresses out there that practise breathplay to the passing out point? which methods do you use ?


I have a real lust for breath control and it's one of my kinks that's been with me as far back as I can remember. However, there are way too many safety issues that prevent me from exploring it beyond simple dabbling or roleplaying. Any breath control "to the point of passing out" is NOT safe. It's a gamble, and one I'm not willing to take.

I can't tell you how many times -- hundreds -- I've had a guy pass out from lack of oxygen. Of course, it was all make believe!

I practice breath control by putting my hand over his nose and mouth, by "ordering" him to hold his breath until I say stop, by face sitting, by holding his face roughly against my breasts, by putting him in the shower with clear glass doors and telling him that there's only enough air to last a minute.

In fact, I'll be engaging in my hottest breath control games tonight at the Anaheim/Los Angeles Kings game any time one of the boys goes to the penalty box. I just imagine what it would be like if his punishment was that the clear box was actually air tight, and my panties get soaked every time.

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RE: breathplay - 9/30/2005 4:54:02 PM   
HerJewel


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I rather feel like Gomer Pyle when someone says something that grabs me like that... sitting here with my mouth hanging open and thinking, "Go o ooolly." or "shezam!" I just love a good visual, I guess, so thank you very much, Akasha!

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RE: breathplay - 10/1/2005 1:52:04 PM   
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I rather feel like Gomer Pyle when someone says something that grabs me like that... sitting here with my mouth hanging open and thinking, "Go o ooolly." or "shezam!"


<busts out laffin!
Thanks for the chuckle, HerJewel....lololol

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RE: breathplay - 10/1/2005 3:17:18 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha


I have a real lust for breath control and it's one of my kinks that's been with me as far back as I can remember. However, there are way too many safety issues that prevent me from exploring it beyond simple dabbling or roleplaying. Any breath control "to the point of passing out" is NOT safe. It's a gamble, and one I'm not willing to take.

I can't tell you how many times -- hundreds -- I've had a guy pass out from lack of oxygen. Of course, it was all make believe!

I practice breath control by putting my hand over his nose and mouth, by "ordering" him to hold his breath until I say stop, by face sitting, by holding his face roughly against my breasts, by putting him in the shower with clear glass doors and telling him that there's only enough air to last a minute.

In fact, I'll be engaging in my hottest breath control games tonight at the Anaheim/Los Angeles Kings game any time one of the boys goes to the penalty box. I just imagine what it would be like if his punishment was that the clear box was actually air tight, and my panties get soaked every time.

Akasha


Wow BCP is not my thing normally, but your enthusiasm makes me wonder...

Seriously tho, if you consider "by face sitting, by holding his face roughly against my breasts" as breath control I have engaged in it numerous times as the sub.

Have fun at the game!

And John, thanks for another fantastic link!!!

Nuke }:-

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RE: breathplay - 10/14/2005 5:03:14 PM   
HerJewel


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<busts out laffin!
Thanks for the chuckle, HerJewel....lololol

Oh, the pleasure is all mine, Ma'am, believe me. I looove to see a woman enjoying! I try to keep my own ever-loving Mistress here in Ohio in stitches, I do... because she just loves her sharp things, you know.

On a more serious note than Gomer (who, by the way, was a classic, bumbling, yet good-hearted submissive just like me), breath play to the point of passing out is quite dangerous. I should know. I went to nursing school - twice - finally ended up quitting though, because I just didn't like HURTING people. I'm not a licensed professional, but I do know the heart can stop, if not this time, then perhaps the next, and even if the person revives time and again, it does damage to the heart and its electrical system. Passing out is already well into the dangerous part of this activity. Actually, even sleep apnea does damage to the heart, and if you think about it, those who have this disorder partially awaken and breathe well before the passing out stage.

Now... do I want her to do it until I panic and struggle, though? Do I want her to feel she has my life in her... um... control? Do I want to be totally immobilized and helpless, trusting that she loves me, and needs me to give her this power over me time and again. Do I enjoy her looking down and seeing a normally strong and spirited woman whose eyes are now begging her to allow me a breath? Do I FANTASIZE and write about more, and ever-increasing edge-play in this area? Am I getting excited just thinking my little thoughts here? You betcha!

But wise women and men know better than to put someone they love in true danger (although feigned is pretty fun sometimes), and not to let another put them in danger, so we keep it safe and sane too, which necessarily includes learning from others and health teachings as to what is, and was is not, good to try. And yes, I typed that all in one breath ...


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RE: breathplay - 10/14/2005 7:03:09 PM   
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i've done the whole choking thing with my dom on occasion, only during sex though and not often...never to the point where i feel pain/discomfort, or can't breathe at all...then i make it a point to hit him on the arm or something to get his attention to stop. Doing this tied up would probably be a bad idea

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RE: breathplay - 10/17/2005 3:48:32 AM   
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This is something my sub has been fantasizing about for years, however, I will not indulge him in it. I have some medical training, I have been trained as an EMT. However, I have smothered and choked him for a bit and then "revived" him by giving him mouth-to-mouth. Of course, he wasn't actually passed out, but he does like it if I breathe for him.

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RE: breathplay - 10/17/2005 6:00:22 AM   
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My sub and I practive breathplay sometimes. she loves it. I do so by puttiny my hand over her mouth and nose, and ensure that one of her hands is grasping some part of my body. I rarely have gone to the point where her grip has losend up, but its a good safety measure for us. I tell her to keep her grip as tight as possable, so I know when it starts to losen.

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RE: breathplay - 10/17/2005 6:25:37 AM   
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Fox and I also do breath control play (or as I like to think of it breathing control).

It might involve my putting a hand over his mouth and nose for a minute or so until he struggles for breath, inserting a breathing tube when he's mummified and covering it with my finger, or me talking him through each breath and how deep it can be.

I never ever restrict his throat or do something that makes it impossible for me to see his eyes -- that eye contract is very very important for me in these scenes cause I can when he starts to struggle there.

This is the choice I've made based on an assessment of the risk. Fox is too valuable to me to risk damaging him by going further than this.

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