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RE: Jealousy - 3/27/2008 12:37:01 PM

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RE: Jealousy - 3/27/2008 7:42:03 PM

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you know, I was cranky yesterday and jumped on someone who came into a thread and said something to the effect of "I don't agree with what you are doing and therefore it is wrong".

Today I want to say that even when you don't participate in the activities on a thread, when you post you are very considerate with your opinion.

I'm unsure of what you are trying to say, Omega, or even if it is directed at me. If it is directed at me, I'm sorry, but std's are something real that everyone needs to think about and be aware of, and being locked in a closet isn't even an excuse if that night, or the next she (I was going to insert something crude here, but there is no need, use your imagination) and catches something because of it.

There is more to consider here than what 'master' is trying to teach, if, while teaching, he is spreading syphillis around like homemade fudge. (I'm just sayin'...)

Perhaps my style of communication leaves much to be desired, but, the point still needed to be made.

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RE: Jealousy - 3/28/2008 5:38:34 AM

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it was directed at you, and it was meant as a compliment. I meant to say that you offer you opinion without looking down your nose at those who don't do things the way you do. Sorry I wasn't more clear.

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RE: Jealousy - 3/28/2008 9:36:15 AM

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In all of this ... is anyone else reading the OP as a subfrenzied newbie who is convinced she has found the love of her life ... and will do anything for him irregardless of her own health and safety? Cos that's how it seems to Me! I'm doubting whether she knows enough to have gone through "the work" of getting to know each other, negotiations, safe words, limits etc! And it doesn't sound like He is encouraging that either ...

I predict it will all end in tears soon enough.

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: Jealousy - 3/28/2008 9:46:03 AM

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In all of this ... is anyone else reading the OP as a subfrenzied newbie who is convinced she has found the love of her life ... and will do anything for him irregardless of her own health and safety? Cos that's how it seems to Me! I'm doubting whether she knows enough to have gone through "the work" of getting to know each other, negotiations, safe words, limits etc! And it doesn't sound like He is encouraging that either ...

I predict it will all end in tears soon enough.

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

Yes.

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RE: Jealousy - 3/28/2008 10:24:15 AM

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quote:

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it was directed at you, and it was meant as a compliment. I meant to say that you offer you opinion without looking down your nose at those who don't do things the way you do. Sorry I wasn't more clear.

Well aren't I the right ass?
*gulp*
SORRY!!!!

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RE: Jealousy - 3/28/2008 10:25:28 AM

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In all of this ... is anyone else reading the OP as a subfrenzied newbie who is convinced she has found the love of her life ... and will do anything for him irregardless of her own health and safety? Cos that's how it seems to Me! I'm doubting whether she knows enough to have gone through "the work" of getting to know each other, negotiations, safe words, limits etc! And it doesn't sound like He is encouraging that either ...

I predict it will all end in tears soon enough.

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

Yes.

I'm with you, sadly.

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RE: Jealousy - 3/28/2008 11:14:25 AM

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hejira without people comming here with their problems this would be a boring board. Look at it this way. Someone else may learn from the mistakes of others. Most of all it gives people here the chance to interfer in the lives of others. When times suck for you it is nice to know that they suck more for others.

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RE: Jealousy - 3/28/2008 12:36:45 PM

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I am very blessed, my MASTER is my ONE TRUE MASTER and will be my only MASTER. I am overwhelmed with love and desire to serve, please and obey him and ultimately make his pleasure my pleasure.
However, sometimes when my MASTER puts me in the closet as he enjoys himself with other women I am filled with frustration and a little jealousy, rather than showing my feelings I just smile and come running like a happy puppy. I understand that I need to improve and not be jealous. Afterall he did say I could be involved in some activity as the lubegirl.

Do you ever get jealous when the MASTER that you absolutely love and would do anything for shows interest in other subs?
All input appreciated,
Lubegirl

Relationships eh! All different.

My only input is to mention the male/female thing - blokes generally (definitely not all though) can have a different view of the importance or significance of ..... call it "flirting". They see it as less of an issue; your master may be of this type (particularly if he's said you "could be involved in some activity as the lubegirl." which suggests he feels this way). So it's natural to be jealous, but maybe no need to be worried?

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RE: Jealousy - 4/20/2008 11:41:22 AM

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I don`t know how is it for a slave, but my opinion is that if somebody would do that to me, that it isn`t love in that relationship, I will never be with a emotional sadist, but that is just my openion.

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RE: Jealousy - 4/20/2008 3:05:58 PM

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It's one of my fantasies to have that jealous feeling invoked in me, but if it's unwanted and he didn't talk to you clearly about it first, maybe asking him for some time to sort things out with your emotions would do some good. Just powering through night after night in the closet feeling jealous and hurt won't leave you fulfilled in the long run. He should understand that you need some time to figure it out. If it's not a hard limit for you, I think a lot of good can come from learning how to get off on your master doing another sub.

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RE: Jealousy - 4/20/2008 3:16:19 PM

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quote:

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In all of this ... is anyone else reading the OP as a subfrenzied newbie who is convinced she has found the love of her life ... and will do anything for him irregardless of her own health and safety? Cos that's how it seems to Me! I'm doubting whether she knows enough to have gone through "the work" of getting to know each other, negotiations, safe words, limits etc! And it doesn't sound like He is encouraging that either ...

I predict it will all end in tears soon enough.

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

That's pretty much what came to my mind when reading the posts. It reminded me of a high school girl going gaga over her first boyfriend. "Forever master" and "Master for etenity" nonsense. It made me chuckle.

As for the topic, no, I never have this problem since I would never be with someone who'd do that. And if they did, I'd leave.

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RE: Jealousy - 4/20/2008 3:58:50 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Usako

quote:

ORIGINAL: MaamJay

In all of this ... is anyone else reading the OP as a subfrenzied newbie who is convinced she has found the love of her life ... and will do anything for him irregardless of her own health and safety? Cos that's how it seems to Me! I'm doubting whether she knows enough to have gone through "the work" of getting to know each other, negotiations, safe words, limits etc! And it doesn't sound like He is encouraging that either ...

I predict it will all end in tears soon enough.

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

That's pretty much what came to my mind when reading the posts. It reminded me of a high school girl going gaga over her first boyfriend. "Forever master" and "Master for etenity" nonsense. It made me chuckle.

As for the topic, no, I never have this problem since I would never be with someone who'd do that. And if they did, I'd leave.

Ah well. I recall shortly after meeting my Master being able to say that I'd be with him for as long as he wants me (translation: hopefully the rest of my life). When he collared me he told me that my release date was on my birthday - when I'm 102. Since then, I've been given 4 more years for good behavior. I'm thinking that since I'm 49 and it'll be 57 more years till I'm 106, this pretty much translates into "forever" for him too. I've been with him for nearly 6 years now. April 3rd, we celebrated our 5th year with me in his collar. And know what? My release date is STILL when I'm 106...and I still think in terms of forever with him - even if I don't gush about it too much.

I think I'll just pray she's right and that her relationship really will be forever.

juliet

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RE: Jealousy - 4/21/2008 8:26:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

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ORIGINAL: MaamJay

In all of this ... is anyone else reading the OP as a subfrenzied newbie who is convinced she has found the love of her life ... and will do anything for him irregardless of her own health and safety? Cos that's how it seems to Me! I'm doubting whether she knows enough to have gone through "the work" of getting to know each other, negotiations, safe words, limits etc! And it doesn't sound like He is encouraging that either ...

I predict it will all end in tears soon enough.

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

Yes.

I'm with you, sadly.